Depressed with life!! Sigh..

f30nynj · 02-07-2013, 10:21 PM

Hey guys,

At this point of my life I have everything but friends, girl, and happiness. I am 28yo and have a well paying job,a bmw, a house of my own and even an athletic body(go running). Most of my friends are married now, the new friends are living little far away and due to some rumor that was spreading around, they are trying to avoid me. I dated a girl last year but felt like we didn't have any connection. I am not sure if I should just date or look for that special someone to spend the rest of life. I am ready to settle down, but am looking for someone from similar ethnic background so we can form a deep connection.

Coming back to the point, I don't speak to a lot of people during daily life cuz my firm is very small & I m pretty much my own most of the times. Don't have any meeting but I occasionally talk to a colleague sitting next to me. It's because he is old and very experienced, I can't talk like buddies. Also I am the youngest in the company. I am the type of guy who would never give-up & always looking for creative ways. But right now everything seems blocked.

So here's the gist, I am depressed about nothing happening in my life. I live near NYC, and I thought I was done socializing but may be I should start again. Feel I m too old to hang with drink teen kids.

Anybody went thru same feelings? Any suggestions what I should do?

Rotorocious · 02-07-2013, 10:26 PM

Shah to the rescue

amanda hor$t · 02-07-2013, 10:44 PM

if you really want to just start hitting people up. otherwise hang out.

Vic311 · 02-07-2013, 10:57 PM

This thread depressed me..

NYC???..go out and meet some women..what are you worried about?

Joekerr · 02-07-2013, 11:08 PM

Maybe if we knew the nasty rumour that was being spread about you OT could help??

Anthony90 · 02-07-2013, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Rotorocious

Shah to the rescue

No, no, no!!

f30nynj · 02-07-2013, 11:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Vic311

This thread depressed me..

NYC???..go out and meet some women..what are you worried about?

LOL..I am not worried. I am not sure, I don't like to be the one to break up or upset.

I hate f___ing around just for the sake, I am matured and looking for a mature partner to be with and do things. How do I find that kind of girl or woman?

Tried joining dating sites, but my couldn't find one.

Anthony90 · 02-07-2013, 11:10 PM

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Originally Posted by f30nynj

Hey guys,

At this point of my life I have everything but friends, girl, and happiness. I am 28yo and have a well paying job,a bmw, a house of my own and even an athletic body(go running). Most of my friends are married now, the new friends are living little far away and due to some rumor that was spreading around, they are trying to avoid me. I dated a girl last year but felt like we didn't have any connection. I am not sure if I should just date or look for that special someone to spend the rest of life. I am ready to settle down, but am looking for someone from similar ethnic background so we can form a deep connection.

Coming back to the point, I don't speak to a lot of people during daily life cuz my firm is very small & I m pretty much my own most of the times. Don't have any meeting but I occasionally talk to a colleague sitting next to me. It's because he is old and very experienced, I can't talk like buddies. Also I am the youngest in the company. I am the type of guy who would never give-up & always looking for creative ways. But right now everything seems blocked.

So here's the gist, I am depressed about nothing happening in my life. I live near NYC, and I thought I was done socializing but may be I should start again. Feel I m too old to hang with drink teen kids.

Anybody went thru same feelings? Any suggestions what I should do?

maybe you are bored of the same routine. You need to travel, new hobbies or something.

Cheer up! Also enjoy the incoming Shah and JetFalcon hilarious comments

Seminole · 02-07-2013, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by Anthony90

maybe you are bored of the same routine. You need to travel, new hobbies or something.

Cheer up! Also enjoy the incoming Shah and JetFalcon hilarious comments

JetFalcon has been banzored.

E90Mario · 02-07-2013, 11:12 PM

Go to car meets, socialize with some fellow enthusiasts!

http://www.e90post.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=48

f30nynj · 02-07-2013, 11:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Anthony90

maybe you are bored of the same routine. You need to travel, new hobbies or something.

Cheer up! Also enjoy the incoming Shah and JetFalcon hilarious comments

That's what is keeping me afloat. I am going skiing every other weekend with a new found ski buddies but haven't hung out with them yet and waiting for good time to strike chord.

I go running, traveling to Jackson Hole this month with a bunch of strangers to ski, so hopefully some new connections will help.

I've joined meetups recently and it seemed to help a little, I just need to go more often.

Anthony90 · 02-07-2013, 11:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Seminole

JetFalcon has been banzored.

Really? that was very quick... too bad.

f30nynj · 02-07-2013, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by MARIO K

Go to car meets, socialize with some fellow enthusiasts!

http://www.e90post.com/forums/forumdisplay.php?f=48

Sure will do. Thx

Vic311 · 02-07-2013, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by f30nynj

LOL..I am not worried. I am not sure, I don't like to be the one to break up or upset.

I hate f___ing around just for the sake, I am matured and looking for a mature partner to be with and do things. How do I find that kind of girl or woman?

Tried joining dating sites, but my couldn't find one.

Do worry about finding ms. right..
you need ms. right now

That will get your confidence up and snap you outta of feeling sorry for yourself..Then you will be able to approach the women who are your "type".

You wont find anyone when you have anxiety over it.

Anthony90 · 02-07-2013, 11:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by f30nynj

That's what is keeping me afloat. I am going skiing every other weekend with a new found ski buddies but haven't hung out with them yet and waiting for good time to strike chord.

I go running, traveling to Jackson Hole this month with a bunch of strangers to ski, so hopefully some new connections will help.

I've joined meetups recently and it seemed to help a little, I just need to go more often.

Go international! Visit interesting places with ancient ruins or other interesting places like Dubai, Tokyo, etc. Or meet other Bimmerpost users

amanda hor$t · 02-07-2013, 11:28 PM

if you're depressed because you need a girl, that's probably the worst time to look

f30nynj · 02-07-2013, 11:33 PM

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Originally Posted by veloziROTHTOR

if you're depressed because you need a girl, that's probably the worst time to look

More than girl, I need friends who I can call buddies.

I had a very close circle of friends & now they all moved and have families.

amanda hor$t · 02-07-2013, 11:35 PM

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Originally Posted by f30nynj

More than girl, I need friends who I can call buddies.

I had a very close circle of friends & now they all moved and have families.

kinda the same here, but different. i moved up they stayed the same, couldn't contain the hate. though you could argue they were never really friends anyway.

badazzm · 02-07-2013, 11:40 PM

This shit real?

Richurd · 02-07-2013, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Seminole

JetFalcon has been banzored.

NOOOOOOOOOOOO

Anthony90 · 02-07-2013, 11:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Richurd

NOOOOOOOOOOOO

rejoice Subaru Forums!

Vic311 · 02-08-2013, 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Seminole

JetFalcon has been banzored.

Baaanerase

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f30nynj Chilling 90 Rep 319 Posts Drives: 2017 F25 X3 Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: NY/NJ iTrader: (1)	Depressed with life!! Sigh.. Hey guys, At this point of my life I have everything but friends, girl, and happiness. I am 28yo and have a well paying job,a bmw, a house of my own and even an athletic body(go running). Most of my friends are married now, the new friends are living little far away and due to some rumor that was spreading around, they are trying to avoid me. I dated a girl last year but felt like we didn't have any connection. I am not sure if I should just date or look for that special someone to spend the rest of life. I am ready to settle down, but am looking for someone from similar ethnic background so we can form a deep connection. Coming back to the point, I don't speak to a lot of people during daily life cuz my firm is very small & I m pretty much my own most of the times. Don't have any meeting but I occasionally talk to a colleague sitting next to me. It's because he is old and very experienced, I can't talk like buddies. Also I am the youngest in the company. I am the type of guy who would never give-up & always looking for creative ways. But right now everything seems blocked. So here's the gist, I am depressed about nothing happening in my life. I live near NYC, and I thought I was done socializing but may be I should start again. Feel I m too old to hang with drink teen kids. Anybody went thru same feelings? Any suggestions what I should do? __________________ 2017 F25 X3 -> Current 2016 F10 535 -> SOLD 2014 F30 -> SOLD 2013 F30 -> SOLD 2007 E90 -> SOLD
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