Weird friendzone/girl issue...

135er · 08-17-2012, 11:15 AM

Tought i was friendzoned by some girl i didnt have enough time for a few months ago. I still kept in touch with her but mostly by txt and i kept it as brief as it could be (I was really busy with work and stuff). Many times she would imply that she was so happy to have met me and that she values my friendship and stuff so i never really cared about trying or putting efforts into seing her.

I saw her yesterday night at Terasse bonsecour and she was with a few of her girlfriends having drinks and supper while i was there with an other girl.

Today... i get a hate message telling me that i am an asshole for making her feel like we had something going on and that i didnt value our friendship and that i was just like every single other guy she's met...

Thing is... we never had anything going on... never hugged, never kissed, never fucked so WTF...

How would you deal with this ? simple pms ? or was i not even in the friendzone ? or is she just an attention whore ?

Deemo · 08-17-2012, 11:24 AM

attention whore.

TeRRoRiFiC35 · 08-17-2012, 11:35 AM

Simple text to her..... If you wanted to date me, you wouldn't play stupid games making me think I was in the friendzone.

I also wouldn't date her after that text, she seems like the insane type.

Maestro · 08-17-2012, 11:41 AM

ignore it, not sure why people choose to address people's craziness. If you attempt to even address this you will end in the rat hole that she dragging you down.

Templar · 08-17-2012, 11:42 AM

She's a moron basically...

She probably just wanted you to stick around until it was convenient for her, but since she saw you with another chick she got all mad that her rebound guy was spoken for or whatever she thought you were. Kick her to the curb.

Epacy2 · 08-17-2012, 11:44 AM

Delete her from your life.

Sara · 08-17-2012, 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by TeRRoRiFiC35

Simple text to her..... If you wanted to date me, you wouldn't play stupid games making me think I was in the friendzone.

I also wouldn't date her after that text, she seems like the insane type.

+1

BabyrayS2k · 08-17-2012, 12:20 PM

Nothing weird about it. Bitches be crazy. Don't get me wrong, there are some crazy dudes out there, but I guarantee you there are more bi-polar women than men. I have even had women ADMIT that women are crazy.

TeRRoRiFiC35 · 08-17-2012, 12:23 PM

I feel ALL people are crazy, it's just to what extent.

Foodle · 08-17-2012, 01:29 PM

Crazy girl is crazy.

Do not buy into the crazy. Simple txt back saying you have no idea what she is talking about.

M3Denver · 08-17-2012, 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Foodle

Crazy girl is crazy.

Do not buy into the crazy. Simple txt back saying you have no idea what she is talking about.

This! tell her we are friends!

Maestro · 08-17-2012, 02:14 PM

Responding back is like feeding the trolls on the web, Honesty, I would ignore it and go on your way, you do not want to feed into the craziness. Her text is design to invoke some sort of response out of you, good or bad it still attention. Unless your into this kind of thing and see how much more crazy you can make her.

135er · 08-17-2012, 02:26 PM

Funny fact is that once my collegue was trying to hook me up with a girl at work which ended up being 7 years older then me and when i had told her about it she said : You should go for it...

In my head, i was deep in the friend zone hence why i never bothered.

boymonkey · 08-17-2012, 02:44 PM

It depends on what you want out of it. If you still want to go out with her, then go for it. Otherwise, tell her something like you value your friendship with her.

iBoost · 08-17-2012, 02:50 PM

Dodged a bullet there! On to the next one!

TeRRoRiFiC35 · 08-17-2012, 02:59 PM

Only thing I can think of that will up the crazy factor would be for you to text her proposing marriage. If she says yes, run for the hills.

**OEMconcept** · 08-17-2012, 03:30 PM

seeing that I live in Montreal too, send her this way, I'll give her the tender love and care she craves

135er · 08-17-2012, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by OEMconcept

seeing that I live in Montreal too, send her this way, I'll give her the tender love and care she craves

Anthony you actually know me IRL lol

Nino's bbq... gumball in quebec city... I had the blue 325ci so let's see if you replace my name

import36 · 08-17-2012, 03:59 PM

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Originally Posted by iBoost

Dodged a bullet there! On to the next one!

+1

daixloxbmw · 08-17-2012, 03:59 PM

dat bish cray

Rookie83 · 08-17-2012, 04:16 PM

definately a crazy bitch, if she is acting like that right now can you even imagine how she would be if you put a label on it. Id stay away from that

and eh... for sport, any pics of said crazy chic?

BMWPower06 · 08-17-2012, 04:22 PM

no one else is amazed by the fact that people still have supper?!

08-17-2012, 11:15 AM	#1
135er Private First Class 13 Rep 138 Posts Drives: 135i Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: montreal iTrader: (0)	Weird friendzone/girl issue... Tought i was friendzoned by some girl i didnt have enough time for a few months ago. I still kept in touch with her but mostly by txt and i kept it as brief as it could be (I was really busy with work and stuff). Many times she would imply that she was so happy to have met me and that she values my friendship and stuff so i never really cared about trying or putting efforts into seing her. I saw her yesterday night at Terasse bonsecour and she was with a few of her girlfriends having drinks and supper while i was there with an other girl. Today... i get a hate message telling me that i am an asshole for making her feel like we had something going on and that i didnt value our friendship and that i was just like every single other guy she's met... Thing is... we never had anything going on... never hugged, never kissed, never fucked so WTF... How would you deal with this ? simple pms ? or was i not even in the friendzone ? or is she just an attention whore ?
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08-17-2012, 11:24 AM	#2
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08-17-2012, 11:35 AM	#3
TeRRoRiFiC35 Private First Class 32 Rep 110 Posts Drives: Car Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: NJ iTrader: (0)	Simple text to her..... If you wanted to date me, you wouldn't play stupid games making me think I was in the friendzone. I also wouldn't date her after that text, she seems like the insane type.
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Maestro Major 1086 Rep 1,268 Posts Drives: 2007 335i Sedan, 2021 X3 Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Philadelphia iTrader: (0)	ignore it, not sure why people choose to address people's craziness. If you attempt to even address this you will end in the rat hole that she dragging you down.
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Templar Lieutenant Colonel 275 Rep 1,883 Posts Drives: 2011 E92 M3 Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: One of the coasts... iTrader: (1) Garage List 2011 BMW M3 [10.00]	She's a moron basically... She probably just wanted you to stick around until it was convenient for her, but since she saw you with another chick she got all mad that her rebound guy was spoken for or whatever she thought you were. Kick her to the curb. __________________ '11 BMW E92 ///M3 - ZCP and DCT '15 Ford F-250 - Lariat, 6.7 Powerstroke Turbo-diesel
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08-17-2012, 12:20 PM	#8
BabyrayS2k Private First Class 25 Rep 175 Posts Drives: 2007 335i Sedan Sport Package Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Birmingham, Alabama iTrader: (0)	Nothing weird about it. Bitches be crazy. Don't get me wrong, there are some crazy dudes out there, but I guarantee you there are more bi-polar women than men. I have even had women ADMIT that women are crazy.
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TeRRoRiFiC35 Private First Class 32 Rep 110 Posts Drives: Car Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: NJ iTrader: (0)	I feel ALL people are crazy, it's just to what extent.
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08-17-2012, 01:29 PM	#10
Foodle Captain 26 Rep 770 Posts Drives: 2011.75 E90 M3 Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: PA iTrader: (0)	Crazy girl is crazy. Do not buy into the crazy. Simple txt back saying you have no idea what she is talking about.
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08-17-2012, 02:14 PM	#12
Maestro Major 1086 Rep 1,268 Posts Drives: 2007 335i Sedan, 2021 X3 Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Philadelphia iTrader: (0)	Responding back is like feeding the trolls on the web, Honesty, I would ignore it and go on your way, you do not want to feed into the craziness. Her text is design to invoke some sort of response out of you, good or bad it still attention. Unless your into this kind of thing and see how much more crazy you can make her.
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135er Private First Class 13 Rep 138 Posts Drives: 135i Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: montreal iTrader: (0)	Funny fact is that once my collegue was trying to hook me up with a girl at work which ended up being 7 years older then me and when i had told her about it she said : You should go for it... In my head, i was deep in the friend zone hence why i never bothered.
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boymonkey Lieutenant 43 Rep 530 Posts Drives: slow Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Canada iTrader: (0)	It depends on what you want out of it. If you still want to go out with her, then go for it. Otherwise, tell her something like you value your friendship with her.
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iBoost Retired e90post Member 143 Rep 3,038 Posts Drives: real slow Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Las Vegas iTrader: (13)	Dodged a bullet there! On to the next one!
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TeRRoRiFiC35 Private First Class 32 Rep 110 Posts Drives: Car Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: NJ iTrader: (0)	Only thing I can think of that will up the crazy factor would be for you to text her proposing marriage. If she says yes, run for the hills.
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OEMconcept 256 Rep 1,635 Posts Drives: BMW Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Canada/U.S iTrader: (9)	seeing that I live in Montreal too, send her this way, I'll give her the tender love and care she craves
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08-17-2012, 03:59 PM	#20
daixloxbmw Lieutenant 147 Rep 571 Posts Drives: Corvette Grand Sport Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: USA iTrader: (0)	dat bish cray
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08-17-2012, 04:16 PM	#21
Rookie83 First Lieutenant 15 Rep 380 Posts Drives: 2009 335i 6mt cpe Join Date: May 2011 Location: DFW iTrader: (1)	definately a crazy bitch, if she is acting like that right now can you even imagine how she would be if you put a label on it. Id stay away from that and eh... for sport, any pics of said crazy chic?
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