First date do's and don'ts

Uber V8 · 05-03-2012, 04:38 PM

For all my heterosexual brothas out there, please share tips on what worked and what didn't work in your dating ups and downs.

My advice is intended for a girl you really want. If it's for a slut, insert an asterisk next to your tip.

DO: open her door
DON'T: call her for at least 2 days after 1st date

*DO: bring your nicest car
*DON'T: keep her sober

Comet · 05-03-2012, 04:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by FwdFtl

DON'T: call her for at least 2 days after 1st date

I never got that.. dumb games are for dumb girls.. so she doesn't think I'm into her? fuck that, I make sure to never be friendzone and let her know that I want her. It ends up working in my favor.

DO: let the chick know you're into her, not assume. Pretty much flat out tell her "I like you and I want to be with you".

it shows confidence and assertive attitude.

grieverr · 05-03-2012, 04:46 PM

DON'T: Play games.
If you actually like her, don't hold off on calling just to wait the 2 days. A quick call the next day just to say how much you enjoyed the date will show her you're thinking of her, and will have her thinking of you as well.
Then you can wait a day or two to call back and have a conversation/set up a 2nd date.

DO: Pay for the date

E90SoFlo · 05-03-2012, 04:50 PM

Do: Be real
Don't

lay games.

Brey335i · 05-03-2012, 05:07 PM

Do: not rely on advice found on Bimmerpost

Don't: make a thread asking for dating advice

Uber V8 · 05-03-2012, 05:53 PM

ok, i can agree, waiting to call is playing games. It works for me everytime, but then again I recycle gf's every 9-12 months

burningchicken · 05-03-2012, 06:00 PM

Do: Lick her butt for an hour.

Uber V8 · 05-03-2012, 06:03 PM

^^

Don't: Use syrup

GetSomeE92 · 05-03-2012, 06:09 PM

^

Do: Use jelly.

Augenbrauezug · 05-03-2012, 06:18 PM

Look her in the eye, don't stare, but make good eye contact.

TotalPower · 05-03-2012, 06:28 PM

be yourself. If you're not yourself, and she likes it, then you have to keep up the lie. If she doesn't then you'll wonder what if she liked the real you

Uber V8 · 05-03-2012, 06:30 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TotalPower

be yourself. If you're not yourself, and she likes it, then you have to keep up the lie. If she doesn't then you'll wonder what if she liked the real you

this.

Digital.James · 05-03-2012, 06:33 PM

don't talk too much, but don't be too quiet. chicks like guys who listen.
***do get her to drop some e... ***don't pay for the e...

leJUNd · 05-03-2012, 08:39 PM

Do... be confident
Don't... try too hard

Do... make complement (try to be sincere about it)
Don't... play with your phone too much (text with other people)

Wakka · 05-03-2012, 11:41 PM

Someone didn't read the OP

E90Mario · 05-04-2012, 01:09 AM

Don't bust out a Papa John's coupon

RADRACR · 05-04-2012, 01:58 AM

My only "down" is dating American women. So so happy I'm engaged to a foreign woman who doesn't play any of the bullshit games American women do. It has been a breeze and I'm very happy.

DJDeez · 05-04-2012, 05:54 AM

Do be attractive.

Don't be unattractive.

Ammonia · 05-04-2012, 07:09 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by aestheticstorm

My only "down" is dating American women. So so happy I'm engaged to a foreign woman who doesn't play any of the bullshit games American women do. It has been a breeze and I'm very happy.

Haha, sometimes I joke with my wife about that.

"Man, I should have married that model from Guyana"

Sara · 05-04-2012, 09:41 AM

The dont call her thing is bs... You take me out on a date and then no contact? No thanks.

Sara · 05-04-2012, 09:42 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by accordingi2ime

Do... be confident
Don't... try too hard

Do... make complement (try to be sincere about it)
Don't... play with your phone too much (text with other people)

THIS.

Simsims · 05-04-2012, 09:47 AM

DO: smile
DONT: forget about protection

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Uber V8 Volcano Knuckles 421 Rep 491 Posts Drives: 2017 Camaro SS 1LE Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Los Angeles iTrader: (1)	First date do's and don'ts For all my heterosexual brothas out there, please share tips on what worked and what didn't work in your dating ups and downs. My advice is intended for a girl you really want. If it's for a slut, insert an asterisk next to your tip. DO: open her door DON'T: call her for at least 2 days after 1st date DO: bring your nicest car DON'T: keep her sober
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