[Victor.L3IchibanM3]

Well I have a crush on this one girl in my class. We never have conversation together since she is really quite in class and she barely talk or hang out with her friends even at break time compare to the other girls. I always have crush on her ever since day one of class and well.... a couple of weeks ago, our skool had sum kind of fundraiser which was "Matchmaker form" and I got the chance to fill it out since everyone is doing it. Well today I got the result back and my #1 capable female out of the 600 was her I was really shook to see the result. Anyway Valentine's day is coming up and I manage to purchase a secret crush package for her which was like $20 which includes Teddy Bear,Rose,Heart Candy,Balloon and personal crush letter. The problem is, I only wrote in the letter that I have a crush on her and I was too pussy to write who I was rather than telling her that I was her #1 capable match on the matchmaker. I still manage write my email address but didn't have the guts to write my cell # which I really regret:mad: . If she still doesn't know who I am after Valentine's day... can you guys please give me advice so that I can approach to her in person.

[BMW F22]

quit being a pussy and talk to her then. lol
Just say "look, I know i might be going out on a limb here but would u like to grab a cup of coffee sometime?" and see what she says.

[Walked U]

Originally Posted by BMWE90

quit being a pussy and talk to her then.

Hahahah +1

Dude go for it. Only thing you can lose is your self respect as a man.

Naw but seriously tho go for it. You never know.

[joerockets]

Originally Posted by Walked U

Hahahah +1

Dude go for it. Only thing you can lose is your self respect as a man.

Naw but seriously tho go for it. You never know.

Word man. You'll kick yourself for not saying anything and you'll have more respect for yourself if you just put it out there. Try to tell her that you're feelin her without trying to control the outcome. Live life man! You have a BMW so you have 1/2 the equation already

[BMW F22]

if it's a math class you should write : you + me - clothes = 69

[SpecC]

careful not to make an ass out of yourself by making lame jokes or assuming she got the same result you did
good luck and godspeed

[Juggs]

just go up and start talking to her. if you show confidence she'll like you

[Dmitriy@AUTOcouture]

Go up to her and say: I know my calculus, you + me = us lolll, on the real though I second the "quit bieng a pussy" comment.

The more that I read these posts about girls, the more I realize that some beemer owners simply have no game

[Walked U]

Let us know how it goes man.

[shragon]

Originally Posted by BMWE90

quit being a pussy and talk to her then. lol

hahaha, but honestly, this is the best advice.

[Victor.L3IchibanM3]

Well ..... nothing today. I did manage to see that she got her gift yestaday at lunch time wen I walk right pass her in the Senior hallway. She didn't talk to me in class today and we sit like 2 feet away from each other. She never seen to talk in class to anyone so its very hard to start conversation with her. She is one of those gurl who is just too shy. Also when da bell rings, she just walk out of the class really fast and go on her way by herself to her locker and go to another class. So wat I'm thinking is that tommorow on Friday I should just go up front to her after class because she always go on the one alley that not many student uses and say something to her... But I dont noe wat to say to her since I am really being a pussy rite now and I noe by the fact that I will really trip out if I was talking to her. Please help me out . Im not those kind of guys who are confident and get chicks lyke nothing. I really need help from sum of u guys who are experience at these kind of stuff . Should I just go up to her saying" I was wondering if you got the gift on Valentine's day......." or say something that will not offend her while starting a nice conversation and getting to noe each other. Please me out at this stuff.
Victor

[BMW F22]

I dont think you should mention the gift cus it'd make it seem like she owe you. Just relax (smoke some weed or drink some vodka) before hand just go talk to her. Ask her to go hang out sometimes : go out for coffee, movies, or maybe lunch.

[shadowcoder]

Originally Posted by BMWE90

Just say "look, I know i might be going out on a limb here but would u like to grab a cup of coffee sometime?" and see what she says.

+1

Ask her out for coffee or to a movie - that simple. Nothing to lose but so
much to gain so get on with it man cause if you don't I assure
you, you will be yourself for not asking her. You want to be a bit
cuter/cheesy then pass her a note during class asking her out with only
two choice for her to pick - yes and definitely

In any case just be thruthful, avoid stupid jokes and wear your best smile.
Best of luck.

[Victor.L3IchibanM3]

Originally Posted by shadowcoder

+1

Ask her out for coffee or to a movie - that simple. Nothing to lose but so
much to gain so get on with it man cause if you don't I assure
you, you will be yourself for not asking her. You want to be a bit
cuter/cheesy then pass her a note during class asking her out with only
two choice for her to pick - yes and definitely

In any case just be thruthful, avoid stupid jokes and wear your best smile.
Best of luck.

seems lyke u showing sum luv from San Jose :rocks:

[Victor.L3IchibanM3]

I'm about to do it in my next class so Im lil bit nervous..........

[Driv3r]

haha, sweet! victor is pulling mad hoes now!!!!

[BMW F22]

Just do it (nike) lol. If you dont you're gonna wonder what could have happened. we're rooting for you here. Let us know how it goes.

[aapriadi]

just go up to her already, ask her if she wants to have coffee etc. after class!
even if she rejects you, the feeling is better than never giving it a try, there's nothing to lose...dont mention that valentine's gift coz it might creep her out..worst scenario: if she shows no interest, tell her that the gift is from you as a sign of appreciation of her beauty and that you expect nothing back then walk away
if she shows no interest in you at all, then she's not worth the time to begin with
good luck and let us know how it went

[Driv3r]

Originally Posted by aapriadi

just go up to her already, ask her if she wants to have coffee etc. after class!
even if she rejects you, the feeling is better than never giving it a try, there's nothing to lose...dont mention that valentine's gift coz it might creep her out..worst scenario: if she shows no interest, tell her that the gift is from you as a sign of appreciation of her beauty and that you expect nothing back then walk away
if she shows no interest in you at all, then she's not worth the time to begin with
good luck and let us know how it went

and the thing is, when she says no, sometimes they just say that because they dont want to make it too easy for you. (classical, they are playing hard to get)
so just laugh at the "no" and say something on a good note and walk away. but find something to talk to her, even if its dumb, because once you start talking youll get somewhere at least even if its talking about the dumbest thing in the world, chances are, shes just like you (frmo the matchmaker) so in fact your almost half way there!

[Ascension]

Originally Posted by Driv3r

and the thing is, when she says no, sometimes they just say that because they dont want to make it too easy for you. (classical, they are playing hard to get)
so just laugh at the "no" and say something on a good note and walk away. but find something to talk to her, even if its dumb, because once you start talking youll get somewhere at least even if its talking about the dumbest thing in the world, chances are, shes just like you (frmo the matchmaker) so in fact your almost half way there!

Not trying to discourage you, but sometimes NO,really meansNO

[flush01]

10 seconds before you do it just tell yourself this "im ganna go DO IT NOW, i'm supose to be nervouse ? F@CK THAT, this is NOTHING... whats the wrost that can happen, she says NO? ahahahaha " and go spit mad game to her... and dont talk like a p@ssy, be confident in what you saying... but i wouldnt start talking to her in the class, this is what you do.. I assume you know where her locker is, so once she's at her locker, walk by and say "hey, I saw you in my class... listen, what did the teacher write on the board for the homework... she'll tell you... start chatting abit, but NOT TOO long, like few minutes... at the end say "ok I gatta run (be the first one who says that, dont let her say that to you), see you in the class tomorow".. boom, you got yourself automatic pass to chat to her in the class.. then once you see her in the class you can start chatting (wont be weird since she already talked to you for abit).... i wrote alot didn't I lol, anyways good luck

and that V day present was really lame man, what were you thinking, you dont even know her ! never tell her you did that

start playing them hardddd

[Victor.L3IchibanM3]

Sorry to update on this so late since I just got back from the worst trip of my life :mad: (another story I would need to tell sumtime dis week)..... so as of last Friday, I had the balls to went straight up to her after class and tell her that the secret present for V-Day was from me and that I kidda got pussy out and said that I had a crush on her and she just smile at me nicely and she was still shy and would not tell me anything and just said bye and walk away I dont noe wat she might think me about since now I have admit that I lyke her... now that wen I rethink about that conversion, I just think I made myself look like a total JACKASS Welll.....skool is starting again on Monday and I will see her again.... this time wat should I say to her to start a conversation with her???? I cant just ignore her anymore.. I am more nervous than ever before talking to her after telling her that I have crush on her, I am not like other guys wen is come to dating and asking out a girl, I personally am a really shy guy when talking to a girl that I have a crush on and would really trip out and make a fool out of myself.. I WOULD REALLY APPRECIATE IF ANY ONE OF YOU EXPERIENCED PEOPLE IN HERE JUST HELP ME OUT ON THIS ISSUE