Broke up with ex-gf after 1 year 4 months, *ASIAN ADVICE NEEDED*

MediaArtist · 03-09-2011, 06:15 PM

You should buy her a $1,500 beater like persian54 does with his girlfriend.

That's how a true mac daddy keeps his ladies loyal.

sam0182 · 03-09-2011, 06:44 PM

Move on!

Secondly, don't let her know how much she's hurting you. You're being emotionally weak by doing this and continually giving her the upper hand. Kick her off your facebook, stop initiating conversations with her, go whore it up (force yourself to...I know you don't WANT to, but MAKE yourself do this) and become a more social person than ever before.

This works. It will force you to see the light, it will force you to be over her and (my favorite part) it will pain her to see you moving on. She will see what she lost and by the time that all settles in, you've emotionally detached yourself from her and it doesn't even matter any more.

You're a relationship guy. That is fine...but when you're dealing with a partner that is not a relationship person or not as much of a relationship person as you are, you lose the upper hand (or fair hand in the relationship). This was indicative in your current situation by YOU always being the one that came running back...

Something to keep in mind for future relationships. Watch the person you date or change the person you are. Both are possible, the latter is more difficult.

eVitO · 03-09-2011, 06:50 PM

Agree w/ the previous comments, best way to get over someone is to get on top of someone else.

nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn · 03-09-2011, 06:55 PM

03-09-2011, 07:05 PM

Post nude pics of her in EVERY site on the internet.

ScaredOnce · 03-09-2011, 07:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ideliver

Quote:

Originally Posted by CollinsE90

better than reading some stuff in OT

Her continuing to go back to "what if we break up", should have been a sign so strong it slapped you in the face. End it like adults, $100 says she is already hanging out with another guy. Don't be the guy hanging on to a dead relationship.

$1,000 says she has already fucked him....

$10,000 says it was butt secks and she loved it.

MOVE ON!

Cdnrockies · 03-09-2011, 09:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MediaArtist

You should buy her a $1,500 beater like persian54 does with his girlfriend.

That's how a true mac daddy keeps his ladies loyal.

persian54 · 03-10-2011, 01:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MediaArtist

You should buy her a $1,500 beater like persian54 does with his girlfriend.

That's how a true mac daddy keeps his ladies loyal.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Cdnrockies

Actually I wouldn't even buy her a $1500 beater.

However, I did help her make $ this month, about $1k.
and another $2k should come in in the next month or 2

that's how I show my affection: by helping her make money.
I don't give people anything, be that person my girl or not; I help them earn it.

Sorry if I don't go out and buy the girl I'm dating a car; you are an ignorant and blind individual if you do that with any woman who is not married to you and has legal rights to half of your assets (give or take, depends on if there was a prenup involved or not)

You have a GT3... you sound rich, maybe you should buy her a car

Notion-Za · 03-10-2011, 03:07 AM

Dude, your still young, you can do what ever the fff you want!

Go buy some supplements and hit the gym hard!
GO get absolutely baked/smashed with your friends and enjoy the time with them
Enjoy the alone time, stay inside for a day, play pc and just be a guy!

2 Nights ago a friend was dumped by his girlfriend and couldnt take it. They had been dating for 2 years, he hopped in his car, went on the highway and crashed into a bridge pilllar at full speed.

Dont let some chick ruin/rule your life. You were fine before you met her, you'll be fine when shes gone.

Comet · 03-10-2011, 03:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Notion-Za

2 Nights ago a friend was dumped by his girlfriend and couldnt take it. They had been dating for 2 years, he hopped in his car, went on the highway and crashed into a bridge pilllar at full speed.

on purpose?!?!
that guy puts Charlie Sheen to shame!

Dying is for amateurs!

b0bab0i · 03-10-2011, 03:33 AM

Her parents don't respect you because you speak Cantonese. Pretty sure they are old fashioned and see people who speak Cantonese as inferior to those that speak Mandarin.

SRS SHIT

persian54 · 03-10-2011, 03:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Comet

on purpose?!?!
that guy puts Charlie Sheen to shame!

Dying is for amateurs!

Could be alive?

Comet · 03-10-2011, 04:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by persian54

Could be alive?

hehe yeah
he plows through bridge pillars and lives... he puts Charlie to shame

Notion-Za · 03-10-2011, 05:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Comet

on purpose?!?!
that guy puts Charlie Sheen to shame!

Dying is for amateurs!

Yea, on purpose.
Its sad and all that but also stupid and selfish.
He did die on impact.

Imagine how the gf feels now!

Verbiage · 03-10-2011, 09:30 AM

You guys are bitches. Money > everything. If a female wants to make money, she needs to get a fucking job.

Comet · 03-10-2011, 09:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bavarian III

You guys are bitches. Money > everything. If a female wants to make money, she needs to get a fucking job.

at Subway so she can apply her Sandwich Making Diploma to good use?

Verbiage · 03-10-2011, 09:53 AM

^^ probably. Not saying you can't take care of girls, but talking as if they're the ones with the penis makes you look like an idiot. Feel me?

JayKay335i · 03-10-2011, 10:38 AM

Are all asian guys attracted to white chicks?

Verbiage · 03-10-2011, 10:41 AM

Seems that way. Never seen one with any other type.

JayKay335i · 03-10-2011, 10:43 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bavarian III

Seems that way. Never seen one with any other type.

It seems that white girls are universal eye candy to all races

BTM · 03-10-2011, 10:44 AM

white bitches be crazy...it's worth it up to a point

Verbiage · 03-10-2011, 10:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JayKay335i

It seems that white girls are universal eye candy to all races

Indeed. Or white mixed with anything. That always softens everything.

03-09-2011, 06:15 PM	#155
MediaArtist There is No Substitute 77 Rep 1,186 Posts Drives: Audi A6, 997 GT3 RS, E90 335i Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Laguna Beach, CA iTrader: (0)	You should buy her a $1,500 beater like persian54 does with his girlfriend. That's how a true mac daddy keeps his ladies loyal. __________________ '13 Audi A6 '07 Porsche GT3 RS '08 BMW E90 335i
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-09-2011, 06:44 PM	#156
sam0182 New Member 0 Rep 29 Posts Drives: E90 Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Not the USA iTrader: (0)	Move on! Secondly, don't let her know how much she's hurting you. You're being emotionally weak by doing this and continually giving her the upper hand. Kick her off your facebook, stop initiating conversations with her, go whore it up (force yourself to...I know you don't WANT to, but MAKE yourself do this) and become a more social person than ever before. This works. It will force you to see the light, it will force you to be over her and (my favorite part) it will pain her to see you moving on. She will see what she lost and by the time that all settles in, you've emotionally detached yourself from her and it doesn't even matter any more. You're a relationship guy. That is fine...but when you're dealing with a partner that is not a relationship person or not as much of a relationship person as you are, you lose the upper hand (or fair hand in the relationship). This was indicative in your current situation by YOU always being the one that came running back... Something to keep in mind for future relationships. Watch the person you date or change the person you are. Both are possible, the latter is more difficult. Last edited by sam0182; 03-09-2011 at 06:50 PM..
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-09-2011, 06:55 PM	#158
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn Lieutenant 114 Rep 465 Posts Drives: 1 Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: 2 iTrader: (0)
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-09-2011, 07:05 PM	#159
tko1717 Guest 0 Rep n/a Posts Drives:	Easiest way to get over a high school ex Post nude pics of her in EVERY site on the internet.
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-10-2011, 03:07 AM	#163
Notion-Za Second Lieutenant 28 Rep 293 Posts Drives: '16 M4 ZCP Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: South Africa iTrader: (0)	Dude, your still young, you can do what ever the fff you want! Go buy some supplements and hit the gym hard! GO get absolutely baked/smashed with your friends and enjoy the time with them Enjoy the alone time, stay inside for a day, play pc and just be a guy! 2 Nights ago a friend was dumped by his girlfriend and couldnt take it. They had been dating for 2 years, he hopped in his car, went on the highway and crashed into a bridge pilllar at full speed. Dont let some chick ruin/rule your life. You were fine before you met her, you'll be fine when shes gone. __________________ 2016 M4 ZCP 2018 Ford Ranger WildTrak 3.2
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-10-2011, 03:33 AM	#165
b0bab0i Major 25 Rep 1,033 Posts Drives: 03 TiAG z4 3.0i w/ hardtop Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: SoCal iTrader: (0)	Her parents don't respect you because you speak Cantonese. Pretty sure they are old fashioned and see people who speak Cantonese as inferior to those that speak Mandarin. SRS SHIT
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-10-2011, 09:30 AM	#169
Verbiage Dismembered Member 3650 Rep 9,213 Posts Drives: F80 ZCP 6MT, R55 Clubman S 6MT Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: DMV iTrader: (6)	You guys are bitches. Money > everything. If a female wants to make money, she needs to get a fucking job. __________________ My delivery experience and beach photoshoot here.
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-10-2011, 09:53 AM	#171
Verbiage Dismembered Member 3650 Rep 9,213 Posts Drives: F80 ZCP 6MT, R55 Clubman S 6MT Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: DMV iTrader: (6)	^^ probably. Not saying you can't take care of girls, but talking as if they're the ones with the penis makes you look like an idiot. Feel me? __________________ My delivery experience and beach photoshoot here.
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-10-2011, 10:38 AM	#172
JayKay335i Banned 198 Rep 5,046 Posts Drives: ///M323 DCT Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: North Dakota; its best DUHHHHHH iTrader: (1)	Are all asian guys attracted to white chicks?
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-10-2011, 10:41 AM	#173
Verbiage Dismembered Member 3650 Rep 9,213 Posts Drives: F80 ZCP 6MT, R55 Clubman S 6MT Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: DMV iTrader: (6)	Seems that way. Never seen one with any other type. __________________ My delivery experience and beach photoshoot here.
	Appreciate 0 Quote

03-10-2011, 10:44 AM	#175
BTM Banned 501 Rep 10,309 Posts Drives: A///MERICAN!!! Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: A///MERICA!!! iTrader: (11) Garage List 2007 BMW Z4 M Coupe [7.20]	white bitches be crazy...it's worth it up to a point
	Appreciate 0 Quote