Tinder/Dating Apps

Nkc · 03-09-2016, 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by Verbiage

Sure they do. "$100, $200, $500", etc.

EDIT: change dollars to yen.

That's racist.

Axius · 03-09-2016, 04:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Nkc

You want difficulty? Try not paying her.

We're watching him have a difficult time at this very moment.

For as much as he talks about sex you'd think getting it out of the system would do the man some good, even if he tossed a few yen for it.

grimlock · 03-09-2016, 06:53 PM

so 10hrs, still hasn't responded..
i thinking i overplayed my hand.. or it wasn't interest she displayed, it was pity (her father was non-european) because how can she like me in an instant of seeing me, literally the only thing she has seen is my race

OR
she has a bf so is not going to respond until/unless it is appropriate

prob should have taken the lower road, build rapport to allow attraction to grow.. i overestimated myself

Aatish · 03-09-2016, 07:09 PM

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Originally Posted by grimlock

so 10hrs, still hasn't responded..
i thinking i overplayed my hand.. or it wasn't interest she displayed, it was pity (her father was non-european) because how can she like me in an instant of seeing me, literally the only thing she has seen is my race

OR
she has a bf so is not going to respond until/unless it is appropriate

prob should have taken the lower road, build rapport to allow attraction to grow.. i overestimated myself

Did she at least read the message?

grimlock · 03-09-2016, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Aatish

Did she at least read the message?

yup, very quickly after i sent

this one is very hard to read, cuz never msged a white girl before

like we have many similarities, many grounds for futher developement, vocationally, location, background wise ..
but i may have made a fundamental mistake somewhere Im not even aware..
but who knows.. should have started doing this when i was 18

i really do not know how to converse with a women, compared to u guys.. i have realized that

Aatish · 03-09-2016, 07:30 PM

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Originally Posted by grimlock

yup, very quickly after i sent

this one is very hard to read, cuz never msged a white girl before

like we have many similarities, many grounds for futher developement, vocationally, location, background wise ..
but i may have made a fundamental mistake somewhere Im not even aware..
but who knows.. should have started doing this when i was 18

i really do not know how to converse with a women, compared to u guys.. i have realized that

Hey, you showed interest and she didn't. IMO, probably not worth your time.

https://soundcloud.com/trevorhutto/o...t-swizz#t=0:39

grimlock · 03-09-2016, 07:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Aatish

Hey, you showed interest and she didn't. IMO, probably not worth your time.

https://soundcloud.com/trevorhutto/o...t-swizz#t=0:39

alright .. thanks for the confidence

u only get better.. and it's no fun if it's easy

Nkc · 03-09-2016, 08:01 PM

So you msged her "hey" and wrote at least 10,000 words on this thread alone.

Try a little harder buddy. What the hell did you expect?

grimlock · 03-10-2016, 07:21 AM

So it turns out she hadn't 'read' the msg (two grey ticks mean sent to phone) until just now it showed two blue ticks which means read.

nothing to celebrate, but when i was ready to write off this drama it still has an extra episode..

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Originally Posted by Nkc

So you msged her "hey" and wrote at least 10,000 words on this thread alone.

Try a little harder buddy. What the hell did you expect?

u mean show more enthusiasm toward her?
well can't do that now, already chose the 'cool' route, going back would only mess things up
besides, i don't have the chat up game down yet

Axius · 03-10-2016, 07:43 AM

He means, don't just say "Hey", Rico Suave.

Incite conversation. If it's monday, say "Hey (name), how was your weekend, get to do anything that made your panties wet?"

Don't just say "hey". That's boring.

grimlock · 03-10-2016, 07:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Axius

He means, don't just say "Hey", Rico Suave.

Incite conversation. If it's monday, say "Hey (name), how was your weekend, get to do anything that made your panties wet?"

Don't just say "hey". That's boring.

that's the problem.. i don't know what to say

no one is giving me any advice, what do u expect me to do?
i mean specific advice, preferably a conversation dialogue chart..

won't asking about her panties polarize her faster than 'hey' ? .. u just want to see me fuck up, right?

jtodd_fl · 03-10-2016, 08:17 AM

grimlock · 03-10-2016, 08:20 AM

^
Shit...

Aatish · 03-10-2016, 08:37 AM

Talk to her as if she was your mother and you were trying to hide something from her?

grimlock · 03-10-2016, 08:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Aatish

Talk to her as if she was your mother and you were trying to hide something from her?

That's the prob, I don't talk to her..
You may have hit the nail on the head

jtodd_fl · 03-10-2016, 08:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Aatish

Talk to her as if she was your mother and you were trying to hide something from her?

This is some fucked up shit... i am just saying. Anytime you are talking about someone you want to do the deed with and the sentence starts with "Talk to her as if she was (sic) your mother..." then the rest of the sentence doesn't matter.

Diagnosis: Fucked up shit.
Prognosis: Long life of porn, masturbation and solitude.

Aatish · 03-10-2016, 08:45 AM

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Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

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Originally Posted by Aatish

Talk to her as if she was your mother and you were trying to hide something from her?

This is some fucked up shit... i am just saying. Anytime you are talking about someone you want to do the deed with and the sentence starts with "Talk to her as if she was (sic) your mother..." then the rest of the sentence doesn't matter.

Diagnosis: Fucked up shit.
Prognosis: Long life of porn, masturbation and solitude.

Lolololol

I mean, some people can't act straight unless they have some pressure applied on them.

grimlock · 03-10-2016, 08:45 AM

It's funny, some guys talk to girls so easily, but the girl still never replaces the mother in importance to the guy, a common complaint in relationships/marriages.

Aatish · 03-10-2016, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

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Originally Posted by Aatish

Talk to her as if she was your mother and you were trying to hide something from her?

This is some fucked up shit... i am just saying. Anytime you are talking about someone you want to do the deed with and the sentence starts with "Talk to her as if she was (sic) your mother..." then the rest of the sentence doesn't matter.

Diagnosis: Fucked up shit.
Prognosis: Long life of porn, masturbation and solitude.

Hell, imagine Grimy getting into a 3-way with some smoking Asian chick, and her aged with time mother.

grimlock · 03-10-2016, 08:46 AM

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Originally Posted by Aatish

Lolololol

I mean, some people can't act straight unless they have some pressure applied on them.

Are you saying i should talk to her as mother, or as if i had something to hide from mother? I presume the latter is bad, because it means im on the defensive..

Aatish · 03-10-2016, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by grimlock

It's funny, some guys talk to girls so easily, but the girl still never replaces the mother in importance to the guy, a common complaint in relationships/marriages.

Try watching some movies..

Older James Bond movies helped me

grimlock · 03-10-2016, 08:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Aatish

Hell, imagine Grimy getting into a 3-way with some smoking Asian chick, and her aged with time mother.

Didn't need to share that thought.

03-09-2016, 06:53 PM	#861
grimlock Colonel 723 Rep 2,003 Posts Drives: F10 N52B30@255PS Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Hong Kong iTrader: (0)	so 10hrs, still hasn't responded.. i thinking i overplayed my hand.. or it wasn't interest she displayed, it was pity (her father was non-european) because how can she like me in an instant of seeing me, literally the only thing she has seen is my race OR she has a bf so is not going to respond until/unless it is appropriate prob should have taken the lower road, build rapport to allow attraction to grow.. i overestimated myself
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Nkc NOOB 1607 Rep 1,356 Posts Drives: Cars Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: @BMWclassicdivision iTrader: (0)	So you msged her "hey" and wrote at least 10,000 words on this thread alone. Try a little harder buddy. What the hell did you expect?
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Axius Banned 4205 Rep 216 Posts Drives: 612 Scaglietti Join Date: Sep 2015 Location: Watch Me NayNay iTrader: (0)	He means, don't just say "Hey", Rico Suave. Incite conversation. If it's monday, say "Hey (name), how was your weekend, get to do anything that made your panties wet?" Don't just say "hey". That's boring.
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