[FType22]

I was going to post a success story here but just reading through this thread gave me herpes.

[Nkc]

Originally Posted by DJP86

I was going to post a success story here but just reading through this thread gave me herpes.

I've been waiting for a Grimmy success story since 2011.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Nkc

I've been waiting for a Grimmy success story since 2011.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Invested my time; got way ahead of the pack. This is an opportunity to have some fun.

so did u have fun?
r u willing to sacrifice futher fun to get back with her?
can't have both, u know

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by eluded

So did you contact her? I know when I was young there were rules about waiting a certain amount of days but as you get older you learn It was a stupid rule

contacted her after about 2.5days .. been 4.5hrs and no response as of yet, msg was read within a few mins of being sent

i'm still in anticipation right now, i think the key thing is ive kinda chosen the upper path, that of betting on her attraction to me, rather than trying to build rapport?relating to her
so if she's in the mindset of being attracted, and she is, then it will work
if she doesn't buy me, it won't
whereas relating to her ensures a higher response rate, however it would be in the context of relationship she's/most ppl are used to, which is the guy chasing, girl weighing pros cons/ other dudes ...
so i guess i can't be bothered to fight a prolonged war, im going straight for the capital with my bombers - either they all get shot down, or catch the air defense sleeping

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

so did u have fun?
r u willing to sacrifice futher fun to get back with her?
can't have both, u know

Well, I sacrificed fun for to get to the position where I am now; well off, with some breathing room at a young age. Haven't really been having as much has fun as my peers.

Am I willing to spend time and effort to get with her? Yes. How much? That's the question. Still need to poke deeper into her situation.

[Nkc]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Still need to poke deeper into her situation.

That's what she said.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Well, I sacrificed fun for to get to the position where I am now; well off, with some breathing room at a young age. Haven't really been having as much has fun as my peers.

Am I willing to spend time and effort to get with her? Yes. How much? That's the question. Still need to poke deeper into her situation.

good for you!
and your in a better position for it, just your relation to her slipped a bit.. u r trying to figure out if she is what u want

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by Nkc

That's what she said.

lol, saw that coming. :b

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

lol, saw that coming. :b

i always had to wait for her to come first

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

good for you!
and your in a better position for it, just your relation to her slipped a bit.. u r trying to figure out if she is what u want

Thank you.

She must have some desire for me as she texted me as soon as she broke up with the dude. Even when she dated him, we still hung out and talked (just not often).

The question is, does she still have feelings for the dude. If thats the case, it'll lead to a messy situation.

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

i always had to wait for her to come first

Hey, nice guys truly finish last.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Thank you.

She must have some desire for me as she texted me as soon as she broke up with the dude. Even when she dated him, we still hung out and talked (just not often).

The question is, does she still have feelings for the dude. If thats the case, it'll lead to a messy situation.

well, the reality is u left her first, then she found him, so in her mind she WILL want to reconnect with u.. just whether something else is better for her -that's her consideration. cuz u will have to bear some negative baggage from being the one that broke it off

for yourself, i wouldn't worry about her and the other guy, that's her business.. you're only responsible and can effect the interation between u and her.. that's how u prevent it getting messy. unless u like drama

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Hey, nice guys truly finish last.

goodamnit.. i remember only ONCE i actually had sex for myself when i was with her fuck this pleasing women! AARGGH .. i need me a sex slave right now

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by grimlock

well, the reality is u left her first, then she found him, so in her mind she WILL want to reconnect with u.. just whether something else is better for her -that's her consideration. cuz u will have to bear some negative baggage from being the one that broke it off

for yourself, i wouldn't worry about her and the other guy, that's her business.. you're only responsible and can effect the interation between u and her.. that's how u prevent it getting messy. unless u like drama

Glad to see your sense is coming back! Even if it is not regarding your own situation.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by grimlock

goodamnit.. i remember only ONCE i actually had sex for myself when i was with her fuck this pleasing women! AARGGH .. i need me a sex slave right now

I take back what I just said.

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

unless u like drama

Lol, fuck drama. That stuff ruins lives.

Eh, right now my priority is making her happy. Don't like seeing my friends all sad and shit.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Glad to see your sense is coming back! Even if it is not regarding your own situation.

u r young, padawan .. i won't force teachings into u.. alot of what everyone understands is not actually the case
but that is for another day

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Lol, fuck drama. That stuff ruins lives.

Eh, right now my priority is making her happy. Don't like seeing my friends all sad and shit.

but how is her being sad is your responsibility? oh u vicious dumped her, i forgot

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by grimlock

u r young, padawan .. i won't force teachings into u.. alot of what everyone understands is not actually the case
but that is for another day

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

I take back what I just said.

don't u like the emotional highs and lows i bring u guys through? and you're not even chicks!
now if i can just stop talking and learn some relational skills

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

but how is her being sad is your responsibility? oh u vicious dumped her, i forgot

Lol, It's not, but she came to me for comfort. Can't leave her hanging.