Tinder/Dating Apps

bahasad · 07-27-2016, 06:38 PM

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Originally Posted by bimmette

Uhhh sorry but that was a weird convo!
If she is only arranging group gatherings for you, this is not looking good. But keep trying for a couple weeks.

Thanks bimmette lol.
The bar/arcade date will be just us two but the block party will be with her sorority sisters.
Worst thing worst I might be able to hook up with them?

Also, she can't stand when I don't text her. She likes being in frequent conversation with me throughout the day. Is that a good thing?

I'll keep you guys updated and in case I enter friend zone lol.

Mike. · 07-27-2016, 06:39 PM

anyone care to update me, seems like I missed a lot

bimmette · 07-27-2016, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by bahasad

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Originally Posted by bimmette

Uhhh sorry but that was a weird convo!
If she is only arranging group gatherings for you, this is not looking good. But keep trying for a couple weeks.

Thanks bimmette lol.
The bar/arcade date will be just us two but the block party will be with her sorority sisters.
Worst thing worst I might be able to hook up with them?

Also, she can't stand when I don't text her. She likes being in frequent conversation with me throughout the day. Is that a good thing?

I'll keep you guys updated and in case I enter friend zone lol.

Well it's a good thing but friends text eachother all day too so it doesn't mean much.

1LRM3 · 07-27-2016, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Mike.

anyone care to update me, seems like I missed a lot

yeah.. idk guys are handwriting notes now to other guys about waffles and crap....

jtodd_fl · 07-27-2016, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by 1LRM3

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Originally Posted by Mike.

anyone care to update me, seems like I missed a lot

yeah.. idk guys are handwriting notes now to other guys about waffles and crap....

I may have found a lover, if I can just get rid of Mr.SugarSkulls

Aatish · 07-27-2016, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Mike.

anyone care to update me, seems like I missed a lot

There's a new customer.

1LRM3 · 07-27-2016, 07:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Aatish

There's a new customer.

LOL

Oh yeah, nice handwriting and kitties too....

1LRM3 · 07-27-2016, 07:22 PM

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Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

I may have found a lover, if I can just get rid of Mr.SugarSkulls

oh to be you jtodd_fl

Mike. · 07-27-2016, 07:22 PM

interesting, well welcome new customer

Mr.SugarSkulls · 07-27-2016, 08:39 PM

You guys gave that dude Bashad some terrible fucking advice.

You guys want him in the friend zone???

He needs to distance himself from her a bit. Instead of texting every day, text every other day. Stop calling her. MAKE HER MISS YOU.

Otherwise you're just a doorstep. A puppy waiting for its owner to tell it to sit. Or jump. Or speak.

You need to get your feelings on check and let her realize what she has, hopefully before it's too late. If you smother without being an item- you know where you're getting yourself into?

That's right, the friend zone.

-you chose who's advice will work/ a middle aged white dude not up with the times, an Asian chick who's still single in her 30s (seconded by a dude who thinks he's out of the friend zone but doesn't realize once you're in, you're always in) or a dude who's never been in the friend zone with a girl he's met in person in his life.

Mr.SugarSkulls · 07-27-2016, 08:51 PM

K that last paragraph was a little mean. So I sorry

Mike. · 07-27-2016, 08:56 PM

What is that, like what is "tweetz" haha

Aatish · 07-27-2016, 08:57 PM

"Tweetz"

Mike. · 07-27-2016, 08:59 PM

what is a tweetz!!!

///M Power-Belgium · 07-27-2016, 08:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

K that last paragraph was a little mean. So I sorry

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08njSTEP · 07-27-2016, 09:26 PM

So here's my $.02. When you're out with her friends the goal is to have them ask about you for weeks after the party. Everyone is different in how that happens. For me it's being whitty, funny and interesting. Got to make a positive impression. Throw the charm on her friends and she will see what being a couple with you is like.

For your individual date it needs to be overtly romantic. Again everyone is different, but going to the movies is NOT romantic. Find a unique place that is spectacular and requires you to be close. The goal here is to implant a memory of how great a boyfriend you can be.

Now with her friends asking about you and her special memory you have very clearly set the table regarding your plans. Either she goes for it or you were wrong in your assessment.

Good luck.

Axius · 07-27-2016, 09:32 PM

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Originally Posted by shoei

I just cussed you out in real life... I couldn't find anything to eat at someone else's house... I literally was into my second bite you mother bleeper, lol...

Now you can't blame only me for your daily vomits.

shoei · 07-27-2016, 10:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Axius

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Originally Posted by shoei

I just cussed you out in real life... I couldn't find anything to eat at someone else's house... I literally was into my second bite you mother bleeper, lol...

Now you can't blame only me for your daily vomits.

You went too far today !!! Too far !!! The point of no return !!!

Then, you backed the fack up from that point and then returned again !!!

Never_Enough · 07-27-2016, 10:27 PM

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Originally Posted by 08njSTEP

So here's my $.02. When you're out with her friends the goal is to have them ask about you for weeks after the party. Everyone is different in how that happens. For me it's being whitty, funny and interesting. Got to make a positive impression. Throw the charm on her friends and she will see what being a couple with you is like.

For your individual date it needs to be overtly romantic. Again everyone is different, but going to the movies is NOT romantic. Find a unique place that is spectacular and requires you to be close. The goal here is to implant a memory of how great a boyfriend you can be.

Now with her friends asking about you and her special memory you have very clearly set the table regarding your plans. Either she goes for it or you were wrong in your assessment.

Good luck.

No, creating hoops for yourself to jump through is not the correct way. Just be yourself. No games, chasing, overtly obvious bs that won't be sustained, etc will work for LONG TERM good.

Never_Enough · 07-27-2016, 10:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

You guys gave that dude Bashad some terrible fucking advice.

You guys want him in the friend zone???

He needs to distance himself from her a bit. Instead of texting every day, text every other day. Stop calling her. MAKE HER MISS YOU.

Otherwise you're just a doorstep. A puppy waiting for its owner to tell it to sit. Or jump. Or speak.

You need to get your feelings on check and let her realize what she has, hopefully before it's too late. If you smother without being an item- you know where you're getting yourself into?

That's right, the friend zone.

-you chose who's advice will work/ a middle aged white dude not up with the times, an Asian chick who's still single in her 30s (seconded by a dude who thinks he's out of the friend zone but doesn't realize once you're in, you're always in) or a dude who's never been in the friend zone with a girl he's met in person in his life.

& this is part of why dating is HELL these days. Everyone wants to play games, hard to get, blah blah. No one can just be honest & themselves anymore. That's how real relationships end up working out. Not when one or both parties play nonsense HS kid games or pretend to be someone they are not.

08njSTEP · 07-27-2016, 10:33 PM

My advice is only to get out of the friend zone. In normal situations be yourself and have fun. But I think you're on the cusp and could easily slide into the friend zone.

Mr.SugarSkulls · 07-27-2016, 10:33 PM

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Originally Posted by OrangeZ06

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Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

You guys gave that dude Bashad some terrible fucking advice.

You guys want him in the friend zone???

He needs to distance himself from her a bit. Instead of texting every day, text every other day. Stop calling her. MAKE HER MISS YOU.

Otherwise you're just a doorstep. A puppy waiting for its owner to tell it to sit. Or jump. Or speak.

You need to get your feelings on check and let her realize what she has, hopefully before it's too late. If you smother without being an item- you know where you're getting yourself into?

That's right, the friend zone.

-you chose who's advice will work/ a middle aged white dude not up with the times, an Asian chick who's still single in her 30s (seconded by a dude who thinks he's out of the friend zone but doesn't realize once you're in, you're always in) or a dude who's never been in the friend zone with a girl he's met in person in his life.

& this is part of why dating is HELL these days. Everyone wants to play games, hard to get, blah blah. No one can just be honest & themselves anymore. That's how real relationships end up working out. Not when one or both parties play nonsense HS kid games or pretend to be someone they are not.

Im with you- life would be easier if you could just tell a girl you like her, plain and simple. (Insert end scene of hitch here)

But if a girl is still playing games with the dude- he has to balance the power some. It's not how it usually works in today's "social media/tinder" age.

Might not be what you like- but it is what it is.

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Mr.SugarSkulls Brigadier General 2889 Rep 3,245 Posts Drives: BMW i8 Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Long Beach, CA iTrader: (0) Garage List 2016 BMW F13 M6 [10.00]	You guys gave that dude Bashad some terrible fucking advice. You guys want him in the friend zone??? He needs to distance himself from her a bit. Instead of texting every day, text every other day. Stop calling her. MAKE HER MISS YOU. Otherwise you're just a doorstep. A puppy waiting for its owner to tell it to sit. Or jump. Or speak. You need to get your feelings on check and let her realize what she has, hopefully before it's too late. If you smother without being an item- you know where you're getting yourself into? That's right, the friend zone. -you chose who's advice will work/ a middle aged white dude not up with the times, an Asian chick who's still single in her 30s (seconded by a dude who thinks he's out of the friend zone but doesn't realize once you're in, you're always in) or a dude who's never been in the friend zone with a girl he's met in person in his life. __________________ I'm always sunny, hunny.
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08njSTEP Captain 795 Rep 762 Posts Drives: '07 335i, '66 SS396 Chevelle Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: Manchester, NH iTrader: (0)	So here's my $.02. When you're out with her friends the goal is to have them ask about you for weeks after the party. Everyone is different in how that happens. For me it's being whitty, funny and interesting. Got to make a positive impression. Throw the charm on her friends and she will see what being a couple with you is like. For your individual date it needs to be overtly romantic. Again everyone is different, but going to the movies is NOT romantic. Find a unique place that is spectacular and requires you to be close. The goal here is to implant a memory of how great a boyfriend you can be. Now with her friends asking about you and her special memory you have very clearly set the table regarding your plans. Either she goes for it or you were wrong in your assessment. Good luck.
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08njSTEP Captain 795 Rep 762 Posts Drives: '07 335i, '66 SS396 Chevelle Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: Manchester, NH iTrader: (0)	My advice is only to get out of the friend zone. In normal situations be yourself and have fun. But I think you're on the cusp and could easily slide into the friend zone.
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