[grimlock]

Originally Posted by TheAxiom

Agreed. And I've hot bottom before, but smokers are a nope.

well why didn't u say so? i'm sure u just lit up alot of gaydars

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by TheAxiom

Agreed. And I've hot bottom before, but smokers are a nope.

That is an absolute deal breaker for me.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Definitely would consider it with her if opportunity presented itself. Lol

This may sound weird, but I never really was that guy looking too screw the hottest chick. More so, I looked for chicks to have fun with, depend on and shit. Coincidently, so far they've all been attractive.

what? fortune favors u ..
the ones i had show interest was when i had a gf.. so couldnt really do anything without being really bad, but now in retrospect, damn bitch really did force me to stay with her for far too long
it's unseeming to be seen pursuing hot pussy in your 30's

so do those chicks that follow this style of yours, how does it normally end?
im curious, cuz everyone seems to have their default 'style' -i guess mine is the most primitive type of just pursuing to sex, and like bye?..lol then im suspectible to be guilted into staying, but not now anymore

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

so do those chicks that follow this style of yours, how does it normally end?

Usually, for me at least, they're the ones who end it. My theory for this is the following.

I don't fit the stereotypical boyfriend role. I don't take selfies with the chick. I don't celebrate or keep try anniversaries. Don't really partake in boyfriendy activities.

Usually, they want that and get bored of me, and then move one. That's usually after a while tho.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Usually, for me at least, they're the ones who end it. My theory for this is the following.

I don't fit the stereotypical boyfriend role. I don't take selfies with the chick. I don't celebrate or keep try anniversaries. Don't really partake in boyfriendy activities.

Usually, they want that and get bored of me, and then move one. That's usually after a while tho.

hmm u sound like my cousin, he easily befriends girls, hot ones, all kinds of girls..
so how do u actually move from friend to not-just-friends?
how would u describe it? is it just friends that can fuck?
maybe im just thinking of my cousin.. he changes gfs all the time, and everytime they're different

[Alfisti]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Walked over to Starbucks. Chick was outside, smoking. Got a little turned off by that, but didn't let it phase me out completely.

Bought her coffee, grabbed a lounge chairs and table, and started talking about the usual (life, interests, photos, etc.). Pretty cool girl. Seemed to be a party girl, that might not be too good. But overall, a nice, good looking human being upon initial examination.

Suspicions of her having a boyfriend were true (unfortunately), but better than me finding out later. Think I got a new friend out the ordeal, so I can't complain.

Huh? Ya got nuffin. Who needs a (female especially) friend at your age and she's a partier that smokes.

Gonskies AFAIC.

[Taskmaster]

Originally Posted by grimlock

well why didn't u say so? i'm sure u just lit up alot of gaydars

I'm flattered.

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

hmm u sound like my cousin, he easily befriends girls, hot ones, all kinds of girls..
so how do u actually move from friend to not-just-friends?
how would u describe it? is it just friends that can fuck?
maybe im just thinking of my cousin.. he changes gfs all the time, and everytime they're different

Usually it just happens. With my last gf, we started hangout and just chilling like friends. Next thing you know, we're acting like a married couple

I got caught up in life and moved to the east coast. She stayed in the midwest. We tried a LDR; that didn't work. She moved on to another guy real quick. I focused on

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by Alfisti

Huh? Ya got nuffin. Who needs a (female especially) friend at your age and she's a partier that smokes.

Gonskies AFAIC.

This made me chuckle lol

[Bucki14]

What did I read on this 1st page lol, didn't even make it to the next 5...

[Axius]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

That is an absolute deal breaker for me.

Soooo..., you wouldn't date me? I see. Interesting.



I usually hide the fact that I smoke to see if someone is worth it or not to quit.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Axius

Soooo..., you wouldn't date me? I see. Interesting.



I usually hide the fact that I smoke to see if someone is worth it or not to quit.

I'd date you, but it probably wouldn't get anywhere far until you quit.

[grimlock]

just msged her 'hey' so will see what happens, fingers crossed

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by grimlock

just msged her 'hey' so will see what happens, fingers crossed

Nothing shows your interest in a woman like "hey".

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Usually it just happens. With my last gf, we started hangout and just chilling like friends. Next thing you know, we're acting like a married couple

I got caught up in life and moved to the east coast. She stayed in the midwest. We tried a LDR; that didn't work. She moved on to another guy real quick. I focused on

im prob the opposite style.. prob too blunt, not much naturalness
there's a very clear barrier between normal friends and something else.. i just can't imagine how u squeegee over to doing bf/gf things without any obvious acknowledgement - like "oops my dick is now in your vagina, I guess that makes us something?"

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Nothing shows your interest in a woman like "hey".

can't tell what u mean

too platonic? or too cool

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

im prob the opposite style.. prob too blunt, not much naturalness
there's a very clear barrier between normal friends and something else.. i just can't imagine how u squeegee over to doing bf/gf things without any obvious acknowledgement - like "oops my dick is now in your vagina, I guess that makes us something?"

Well, it's not just one moment we're eating ice cream and talking about shit, the next minute straight up intercourse...

Starts off slow. The casual friends stuff. Slowly start start incorporating touch (holding her had,holding her waste, and leading her through a door, picking her up when hugging). Also, keeping a slight sexual tension. Key is not to get stuck in the casual friends part too long.

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

can't tell what u mean

too platonic? or too cool

Did you just say "hey" or was there something else with it too?

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by grimlock

can't tell what u mean

too platonic? or too cool

I mean, she lives in another country. You could probably think of more to say than that. You don't have anything to lose.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Did you just say "hey" or was there something else with it too?

that was all
'
hey
'
3 letters

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

I mean, she lives in another country. You could probably think of more to say than that. You don't have anything to lose.

thought about it, what would u recommend?

i didn't want to come across as needy

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by grimlock

that was all
'
hey
'
3 letters

Should have gone with "yo". A 33% letter reduction is not to be sniffed at.