[bimmette]

Umm being friendzoned is so obvious!
If you guys are not kissing or anything else physical after a couple dates, uhhh you're just friends. If she is seeing other guys and telling you, you're just friends. Girls are obvious when they like you.

[shoei]

Originally Posted by Aatish

That is some magic. That stuff is hard to clean, with all the oil and strong spices. I've got friends with catering businesses. Some use Honda Odyssey's for deliveries. The carpets are destroyed. No amount of hot water extraction can get rid of the smell 100%.

Okay so they were able to save the one month old car, and it was worth every single penny because I felt bad even though it was the restaurants fault for shoddy packing they did on the containers...

I'd like to forget this moment every occurred... In fact, let's not speak of this moment ever again...

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by bimmette

Umm being friendzoned is so obvious!
If you guys are not kissing or anything else physical after a couple dates, uhhh you're just friends. If she is seeing other guys and telling you, you're just friends. Girls are obvious when they like you.

It's obvious when you're observing and when someone actually points it out in a way that gets through. When you're in it, it's not that easy. Maybe it's just me.

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by Aatish

It's obvious when you're observing and when someone actually points it out in a way that gets through. When you're in it, it's not that easy. Maybe it's just me.

I think it's just you.

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by shoei

Keep your panties on... He has Monday to rekindle the romance before you try moving in for the kill, lol...

I'm a lonewolf,

I don't play by no "bro code" rules.

As long as she isn't your wife, I don't care. Us musicians have that power, especially piano/singer combos. so you all better hope there isn't a piano at whatever bar/house/wherever it is I go

[shoei]

Originally Posted by Aatish

It's obvious when you're observing and when someone actually points it out in a way that gets through. When you're in it, it's not that easy. Maybe it's just me.

End of the day you'd know better than anyone else looking into the fishbowl as opposed to being in it... Chances are we're only getting bits and pieces... I'm a strong proponent on NOT sharing all these feels on the interwebs, because nobody knows better than you...

We don't know the circumstances of what is your friendship / relationship, because shiet gets lost in translation...

Maybe she's waiting for you to make the move? Maybe she's shy? Maybe she's using you for your money / investments / hotels / Ferrari / tesla / Rolls / Audi / Honda Odyssey catering mobile? We don't know... Only you do...

Worst case scenario, you'll be in the same boat today if you don't at least inquire / go for it... Worst case scenario will be the same as it is today where you are both nothing more than friends... So ultimately, you got nothing to lose... Better to know than not know, IMO...

[shoei]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

I'm a lonewolf,

I don't play by no "bro code" rules.

As long as she isn't your wife, I don't care. Us musicians have that power, especially piano/singer combos. so you all better hope there isn't a piano at whatever bar/house/wherever it is I go

Don't worry about the piano, worry about your canine... Better hope I don't have a pocket full of puppy treats if I meet Boswer... Gonna steal yo dog...

[shoei]

Originally Posted by bimmette

I think it's just you.

Jesus crisco... He's got until Monday !! Don't kick him until Monday night...

His butthole just puckered up reading that...

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by shoei

Before or after the vindaloo? Will make a difference...

I just had a mishap where I had some lentil soup explode in the front seat of someone else's car... It wasn't pretty man...

*edit - from your cousins restaurant so applicable

Those shaky, unsteady hands have failed you once more...

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by shoei

End of the day you'd know better than anyone else looking into the fishbowl as opposed to being in it... Chances are we're only getting bits and pieces... I'm a strong proponent on sharing all these feels on the interwebs, because nobody knows better than you...

We don't know the circumstances of what is your friendship / relationship, because shiet gets lost in translation...

Maybe she's waiting for you to make the move? Maybe she's shy? Maybe she's using you for your money / investments / hotels / Ferrari / tesla / Rolls / Audi / Honda Odyssey catering mobile? We don't know... Only you do...

Worst case scenario, you'll be in the same boat today if you don't at least inquire / go for it... Worst case scenario will be the same as it is today where you are both nothing more than friends... So ultimately, you got nothing to lose... Better to know than not know, IMO...

Holy sheet...great advice!!!

Can't believe I just said that...

I agree though, we simply weren't there through all of this to make rational judgments about your relationship. Only you can know bhai!

[bimmette]

Originally Posted by shoei

Jesus crisco... He's got until Monday !! Don't kick him until Monday night...

His butthole just puckered up reading that...

No, I mean it's been so obvious (to me anyways) that he's been in the friendzone recently. It seems she has just had a change of heart though so I wish him luck. But within the next couple weeks, if nothing happens...she's just not into him.

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by shoei

Don't worry about the piano, worry about your canine... Better hope I don't have a pocket full of puppy treats if I meet Boswer... Gonna steal yo dog...

He gets his good looks from me, obviously

You're too ugly to be his daddy

[shoei]

Be that as it may... I won't be stuck on a boat in the middle of the ocean for a naval career where my fellow soldiers start looking like gal gadot after all that time at sea...

You'd probably have better luck out at sea anyways, once you get rid of all the lifeboats so they can't get away from you?

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by bimmette

No, I mean it's been so obvious (to me anyways) that he's been in the friendzone recently. It seems she has just had a change of heart though so I wish him luck. But within the next couple weeks, if nothing happens...she's just not into him.

I think there are a lot of factors to weigh in as to why she may have friendzoned him recently. But, it would all just be speculation.

Only Aatish truly knows what's there and what isn't!

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Btw is this what old people do?

It's my last weekend in SoCal, and instead of going out and socializing, i hit the gym early (7pm) went to albertsons, shopped for groceries, and now watching Big Bang theory reruns.

This is 28.

[shoei]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

He gets his good looks from me, obviously

You're too ugly to be his daddy

To be completely honest... For a half breed, kinda disappointing... Feel like you might have been shafted a bit...

It's like the Lego batman song...

"Darkness... No parents... Super rich so kinda makes it better..."

jk...

He's a good lookin' pup though... How old is he now?

[shoei]

Originally Posted by Mr.SugarSkulls

Btw is this what old people do?

It's my last weekend in SoCal, and instead of going out and socializing, i hit the gym early (7pm) went to albertsons, shopped for groceries, and now watching Big Bang theory reruns.

This is 28.

Chances are you hit the gym early because it's a SoCal phenomenon where the frickin' gyms close early on sat / sun...

Albertson's has terrible groceries however... I bet you don't get Bowser's food from there, do you? At least you take good care of him...

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by shoei

End of the day you'd know better than anyone else looking into the fishbowl as opposed to being in it... Chances are we're only getting bits and pieces... I'm a strong proponent on sharing all these feels on the interwebs, because nobody knows better than you...

We don't know the circumstances of what is your friendship / relationship, because shiet gets lost in translation...

Maybe she's waiting for you to make the move? Maybe she's shy? Maybe she's using you for your money / investments / hotels / Ferrari / tesla / Rolls / Audi / Honda Odyssey catering mobile? We don't know... Only you do...

Worst case scenario, you'll be in the same boat today if you don't at least inquire / go for it... Worst case scenario will be the same as it is today where you are both nothing more than friends... So ultimately, you got nothing to lose... Better to know than not know, IMO...

There have been times where I was ready to move on, but she some how came back into the picture, and because of that I didn't move on.

Shit like talking about other dudes is discouraging...but then sending me hand written letters out of nowhere, and coming to me when she's sad/single makes things confusing.

Life and work probably doesn't help the case. I'll admit, I didn't commit at all the right times, maybe she is waiting for a move. The thought of her using me for personal crossed my mind...but certain actions on her behalf dismissed that.

Monday is D-Day. Hopefully, I don't hold back. You're right, better to know than not.

[shoei]

Originally Posted by smoosh

I think there are a lot of factors to weigh in as to why she may have friendzoned him recently. But, it would all just be speculation.

Only Aatish truly knows what's there and what isn't!

To her point though, he could also be in denial, but we'll never know... Only him and the Armo-talian will know the actual story...

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by shoei

To be completely honest... For a half breed, kinda disappointing... Feel like you might have been shafted a bit...

It's like the Lego batman song...

"Darkness... No parents... Super rich so kinda makes it better..."

jk...

He's a good lookin' pup though... How old is he now?

Hahhahaahahhaahahha, don't be mad that for a half breed- I got eyelids and you didn't , you chinky motherfucker. :P

He really is though. He's like a big teddy bear that's actually alive. He's 5 now! So he's just about half way through the average healthy bulldog life.

He is neutured, and is on as strict (boiled) raw diet of chicken and liver (1 kg a day) so hopefully I can prolonge his life as long as I can.

Just know- if I'm still around these halls the day, you know, he crosses the bridge- put me on suicide watch.

[Mr.SugarSkulls]

Originally Posted by shoei

Chances are you hit the gym early because it's a SoCal phenomenon where the frickin' gyms close early on sat / sun...

Albertson's has terrible groceries however... I bet you don't get Bowser's food from there, do you? At least you take good care of him...

Let me guess, you're one of those uppity sprouts/whole foods/ pretentious mother fuckers ?

Sorrrrryyyyy boojy. Food is food. I still have lower body fat than you. And I'm powered by albertsons groceries, so I save more. (Unless you shop at Walmart/food4less- then you win- however, I do get my tank tops and sweat pants from Walmart)

And I have 24 hour fitness+ Equinox- so I have access at all hours when Equinox is closed

[smoosh]

Originally Posted by shoei

Be that as it may... I won't be stuck on a boat in the middle of the ocean for a naval career where my fellow soldiers start looking like gal gadot after all that time at sea...

You'd probably have better luck out at sea anyways, once you get rid of all the lifeboats so they can't get away from you?

When you're out fishing for pike with your great-grandchildren...next weekend...and your boat capsizes because your dusty fart started a tsunami, you better be praying I'm nearby to rescue you Life-Alert style...