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      05-21-2014, 03:24 PM   #45
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If you can't do these things then who is really relying on who??? It sounds like you are depended on her. Just sayin'
I'm not dependent - I just know I don't have to do all of those things...

I was a Marine so I know I could iron razor sharp creases into my own clothes if I wanted to, but I don't have to....

know what I mean !?!?

and any ol clown knows how to wash dishes, but again, it's the fact that I don't have to....
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Wow, sounds like you're living in the 50's.

My wife is Mexican and we share the house work. I can't have my pregnant wife do all the heavy lifting while I sit on my ass watching tv.
when my wife was pregnant, she still maintained everything she had to do...

she obviously didn't lift anything heavy, but she had no issue with doing what she had to do...

it's just the way she is...

she was raised by her mother with 4 other sisters - they were taught the old fashion way...

life is good...
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Hey if it works for you man, no hate from me. I'm not one to try to judge other people's lifestyles
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Hey if it works for you man, no hate from me. I'm not one to try to judge other people's lifestyles
no hate at all....

it's just how both of us were raised....
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In some locations RNs can pull 100+k Plus with bonus can get close to 150k.
And with a speciality even more. Ex wife was an RN in the ER, she made close to that when we divorced 10 years ago, only downside she was certifiably insane.
On topic current SO/wifey whatever makes what I do, and works 4 days a week maybe 5 hours a day in sales, I'm an IT manager, we make really good money but does not matter. She's not nuts, is always the voice of reason and I can count on her for anything anytime. That's more important than the cash.
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no hate at all....

it's just how both of us were raised....
People were getting worked up it seemed like with some of the comments that will remain unnamed. But they need to realize that just because someone does something differently than you, does not make it wrong.

It's like the topic of the thread: just because a woman is doing something different financially does not make it wrong
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even if my wife made more money than me, in my household, we know our roles....

she's still gonna have her ass in the kitchen making food, washing dishes and washing clothes.....

I'm still gonna take care of the trash, take care of the cars, be the iron fist with the kids, open salsa jars, pay all the bills and sit my ass on the couch when I freaking want to without any pushback from the lady...

she knows that's how it is, just as I know how it is...

that's how we were both raised - it's all about understanding which roles you have in the marriage.....

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Pretty sure you answered this already but what you are describing is the old world Hispanic culture not entirely just Mexican. My ex wife was Panamanian, her mom waited hand and foot on her dad because that's how it was, the 3 girls did as well.
My ex would not do anything at our house claimed she watched all her relatives do that etc etc so she would not, so I did most of it rather than let the stuff pile up so I guess if I was Hispanic it would make me a PAB as you described but I'm not Hispanic so I'm safe. We were raised in San Diego, her dad's business was in TJ so I got a good dose of the Mexican culture growing up and old school was your way others were very much not. BTW most of my girl friends as a youth were Mexican (they loved the surfer boys back in the day) and some did in fact have a household like you describe.
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A RN is making double your salary? You work at Chipotle?
That's what I was thinking... You better be glad she makes more than you because if you ever get divorced which is a 50% chance then you won't have to pay her alimony, sooo you better keep it that way.
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My ex would not do anything at our house claimed she watched all her relatives do that etc etc so she would not, so I did most of it
she would have quickly become my ex too HAHA !!!


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BTW most of my girl friends as a youth were Mexican (they loved the surfer boys back in the day) and some did in fact have a household like you describe.
those are the ones you wanna marry lol.....
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she would have quickly become my ex too HAHA !!!

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Those issues were pale in comparison to her Bipolar concerns and refusal to medicate for it. There were things that would make the news now a days she did to myself and the kids but she was insane literally.

Nope none of them were marrying material, they were booty calls and take out food calls. Not to sound racist but some of my best girl friends were of color as their moms always fed me well and let me pretty much do as I pleased with their daughters. I had a good time from about 15 to 22 with them.
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A RN is making double your salary? You work at Chipotle?
Dont talk about Chipotle like that
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I had a good time from about 15 to 22 with them.
that can be said for every single woman ever....
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as if you saying "I have a Mexican friend" will cement anything you subsequently say about this topic

one single Mexican friend in boring ass Seattle is going to sway you to think a certain way !?!?

that's sad.....

I live in a 400 mile radius that is predominantly Mexican....

there are close to 3 million Mexicans living around me and I live 5 hours from the Mexican border...

the Mexican Culture in Texas is much different than the Mexican Culture in Seattle, trust me.....

lol @ your Mexican friend - you only have one !?!? sounds about par with your area...
Well I reside in California with triple your population just in Los Angeles alone (...over 4 million are latinos). The culture that you speak of is antiquated at best, but I do agree that many Mexican man still adhere to it.
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The culture that you speak of is antiquated at best, but I do agree that many Mexican man still adhere to it.
again, it's how each of us were raised....
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again, it's how each of us were raised....
All that says to me is that there has been no cultural progress forward. African Americans aren't any better (..I'm black, before anybody yells racist). Some of the cultural stigmas ring true and are antiquated as well.
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All that says to me is that there has been no cultural progress.
exactly....

culture is defined as a shared attitude and belief of a group...

if the culture is changed, then the culture is now different and watered down...

you can't change the culture of something over night. hell, you can't even change it after centuries upon centuries...
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My wife makes quite a good amount of money, not more than me, but only because I have my own company. On paper, her T4 (yes, Canada) is much more impressive.

I say awesome. More money for her means less complaining when I go and buy new car stuff and home theater gear. Rake it in, babe.

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Between my wife and I, we both have part time job. She makes about 3x more than I do. Our total work wageon w-2 was ~$20k last year. It keeps us busy, and she receives matching 401(k)upto certain %, and good insurance.

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Your combined income was $20k? Please tell me this is a typo.
Not a typo, but it is just our Wages we receive from work (w-2) is only $20k.
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Your combined income was $20k? Please tell me this is a typo.
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Oh got you. I will leave at that in case the IRS is watching
hahaha. no. I am 100% legal. I just know the way to get round paying minimal taxes.

1. ebay sale through paypal upto $20k is tax free. No 1099-k issued by eBay.
2. After reaching the limit, I sell "used" good on a EE/Classified/etc etc, and no paypal transction.
3. I run my own hedge/investment.
4. I only cash in $72,500 minus (wage we receive on w2) to be near capital gains (sch D, and D-1) are tax free.
5. If we want to withdraw more, 15% cap gain tax imposed on any amount of 72.5k or higher. So we try to minimize that.
6. $72.5k + $19,999+ whatever I do on online is typically what I need to budget off of without massive amount of taxes. (you can say after taxes, since it is not taxed)



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A RN is making double your salary? You work at Chipotle?
Depending on where you live, It can be over 60K easy. So he could be at a solid 40K job, which is fine. What is it to you?
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