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born and raised in downtown Houston - has a double major and a minor. and she works full time also.................... |
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| 06-25-2011, 08:50 PM | #55 |
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if its just the two of us i always pay.. if we are with company we split or she pays..
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| 06-25-2011, 09:07 PM | #56 | |
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Copy that!  Amazed american chicks are willing to please, congrats!
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| 06-25-2011, 09:08 PM | #57 | |
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kids + paying paying for everything = mother of all fails!
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| 06-25-2011, 11:24 PM | #58 | |
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 when we met, she was 23 and i was 26 - she's 28, i'm 31 now and we have 2 awesome kids. one thing you HAVE to establish in a relationship is EXPECTATIONS. everyone should know their roll and everyone should agree on that roll. i pay everything but my house is clean, the bills are paid on time (eventhough it's paid from my account), my shirts are always hanging on the dresser in the morning after a good ironing, about 3 times a week i get home made dinner (sometimes i get home late and just feel like smashing some Fruity Pebbles), etc. just FYI - she was raised with 3 other sisters and her mom has been a house wife for over 30 years..... |
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| 06-26-2011, 06:36 AM | #63 |
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I always paid for all at first 2-3 dates , then one time i ask a girl to pay for dinner or something and if she refused i refuse to her
 Now I pay for my wife all the time and really enjoy it - im luck cause my wife didnt want new LV bag every month |
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| 06-26-2011, 07:37 AM | #64 | ||
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I believe the way she grew up is the problem. Her dad works and mom takes care of the house. Don't know if the age question was for me but she's 25 and I'm 37. As for a pic I don't even know how to post pics. Tried to post pics of my car and it never worked. Litos you seem to be the only person who doesn't have a problem paying for it all. Was it always like that? |
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| 06-26-2011, 08:20 AM | #65 | |
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Some clarification; somebody noted in here that once you are together the money all comes from one place. I totally agree, but that misses the point. People in a relationship need to feel appreciated. The money is not the issue. Insanely ironic but my ex came by the other night and stated how much she appreciated how much I did financially and the day-to-day things in our relationship. She said she didn't realize it when she had it. She said she wishes she would have said that when we were together. Of course this is all magnified by the fact she is with an ex-friend of mine that cannot hold a job and has basically been a slacker his whole life. OP just prioritize what is important. People get hung up on emotions and settle for things they do not want. That is easy advice from somebody on a forum that has no skin in the game, but as relationships go on the little things turn into bigger things and they accumulate. It is like water torture if it isn't right, then more people get hurt the longer it goes on. Good luck. |
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| 06-26-2011, 08:45 AM | #66 |
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I dated a girl like this back in the day. After around 6 dates, I tried the "shit babe, I left my wallet at home" routine to see her reaction. When she suggested I get a taxi home to get my wallet, I 86'd her there and then.
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