Broke up with ex-gf after 1 year 4 months, *ASIAN ADVICE NEEDED*

john08135i · 03-08-2011, 10:40 AM

Consider yourself lucky.

Move on.. she was banging other dudes the whole time and sold the ring..

There are plenty of women who will "need" you like you "needed" her..

bang her the next few weeks as oftne as you can but dont kiss.. just hit it and then go..yea i got tings to do and take off..

no thank you's or try to talk..just jet..

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by john08135i

Consider yourself lucky.

Move on.. she was banging other dudes the whole time and sold the ring..

wait... wut?

john08135i · 03-08-2011, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by NYCGP

wait... wut?

Lucky she is gone..

I know how he feels and its had to hear but yes.. there is always something better out there.

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 10:47 AM

Yeah, I hear ya on that... did you just say she was banging other guys and sold the ring..? Wtf.. We have a special place for people like her...

radix · 03-08-2011, 10:55 AM

I'd throw in my two cents but my asian is prefixed with cauc so I can't, sorry about that.

texasmojo · 03-08-2011, 11:11 AM

Ts, move on. You are young and have a career. Have as many girlfriends a you can and don't have kids. Wait till your 30 or older to take things serious.

JayKay335i · 03-08-2011, 11:15 AM

You sound controlling and like you're a jealous pain in the ass. Get your self confidence up and get over it, before you get in another relationship.

Oh and welcome to the USA. Stop being a pussy and move on.

Also, every girl will leave you if you keep acting like a jealous child.

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 11:15 AM

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Originally Posted by texasmojo

Wait till your 30 or older to take things serious.

This... then marry a 22 year old with perky tits and a tight butt.

Verbiage · 03-08-2011, 11:21 AM

What about large breasts and a big, soft, round ass?

NYCGP · 03-08-2011, 11:22 AM

Whatever floats your boat... Bav... Read the tags.. We are not azn.. our advice is not welcome.

Simsims · 03-08-2011, 11:23 AM

From an asian perspective, this girl is not worth dating.

Move on, don't hang yourself on one tree, one bad tree

JayKay335i · 03-08-2011, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by NYCGP

Whatever floats your boat... Bav... Read the tags.. We are not azn.. our advice is not welcome.

Its true. They think that acting like little controlling children is an asian only thing and its a cultural thing. Its not 1953, you cant beat your bitch and get away with, and you'll get dumped for acting like that guy. Dont worry OP, some white dude who doesnt care would hit/has hit it/ is hitting it as I type this.

Verbiage · 03-08-2011, 11:32 AM

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Originally Posted by NYCGP

Whatever floats your boat... Bav... Read the tags.. We are not azn.. our advice is not welcome.

You read all the tags?

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

Its true. They think that acting like little controlling children is an asian only thing and its a cultural thing. Its not 1953, you cant beat your bitch and get away with, and you'll get dumped for acting like that guy. Dont worry OP, some white dude who doesnt care would hit/has hit it/ is hitting it as I type this.

I really don't think OP meant to sound ignorant. I just think his mind is clouded with sadness and the first thing he thought of was azn.

I prefer interracial and the occasional oral creampie, myself.

BimmerPod · 03-08-2011, 11:33 AM

Move on for sure...

she's a taker. (perhaps causing you to be insecure about her hanging out with other dudes). she's looking out for herself #1. you should do the same.

think of it this way, you owe it to yourself to find a better girl. you might not think that way now, but when you're in your 30s and realize that you chased and married the wrong chick, too f'ing late, when you have a home and kids with her. If you're not happy now (no real stress, family, mtg, etc), you'll never be happy with her. 1 yr's worth of misery is way better than a lifetime's worth

JayKay335i · 03-08-2011, 11:37 AM

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You read all the tags?

I really don't think OP meant to sound ignorant. I just think his mind is clouded with sadness and the first thing he thought of was azn.

I prefer interracial and the occasional oral creampie, myself.

You like oral cream pies?...?.....

I dont care about the asian thing. He just sounds jealous. I let my girls do whatever they want. I trust them. If they cant to catch the D somewhere else they can feel free, and I let them know it. I tell them if I want some poon I'll get it, and I'll dump them. Relationships arent about fighting and bullshitting, just enjoy them. If you start getting all jealous you need to GTFO and either check your self or find some girl whos not a whore. This girl sounds normal. I take plenty of girls out that I'm just friends with.

nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn · 03-08-2011, 11:41 AM

Collins fucked the OP's gf. Thread over.

FDfranklin · 03-08-2011, 11:42 AM

I dunno I guess im different then some of you guys..

I think its pretty messed up for a girl in a serious relationship to go out to dinner and drinks with a guy 1 on 1. I call that a date.

I could care less if my gf hung out with a guy and it was with a group or w/e but 1 on 1 out to dinner is pretty weird. Seems like this chick wasn't even introducing these guys to the OP which makes it even weirder. I woulda left before I found out if she was banging these dudes which she probably was.

nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn · 03-08-2011, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by FDfranklin

I dunno I guess im different then some of you guys..

I think its pretty messed up for a girl in a serious relationship to go out to dinner and drinks with a guy 1 on 1. I call that a date.

I could care less if my gf hung out with a guy and it was with a group or w/e but 1 on 1 out to dinner is pretty weird. Seems like this chick wasn't even introducing these guys to the OP which makes it even weirder. I woulda left before I found out if she was banging these dudes which she probably was.

If you can't trust your girlfriend around other guys, then you will never trust her and the relationship will suffer at some point in time.

Verbiage · 03-08-2011, 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by JayKay335i

You like oral cream pies?...?.....

I dont care about the asian thing. He just sounds jealous. I let my girls do whatever they want. I trust them. If they cant to catch the D somewhere else they can feel free, and I let them know it. I tell them if I want some poon I'll get it, and I'll dump them. Relationships arent about fighting and bullshitting, just enjoy them. If you start getting all jealous you need to GTFO and either check your self or find some girl whos not a whore. This girl sounds normal. I take plenty of girls out that I'm just friends with.

I cumming in bitches mouths.

Yeah, I guess preferences vary. I personally am not the jealous type. But I normally look better than the chicks I date, so IDGAF.

FDfranklin · 03-08-2011, 11:45 AM

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If you can't trust your girlfriend around other guys, then you will never trust her and the relationship will suffer at some point in time.

Well there is probably a good reason for the lack of trust, not sure why a girl in a serious mature relationship needs to go on dates with other guys.

JayKay335i · 03-08-2011, 11:46 AM

I agree with ferrari. If you cant trust your girl either your girl cheats on you and tells you or you are jealous. If you dont trust her your relationship is screwed. If you dont trust her its probably because you're insecure.

nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn · 03-08-2011, 11:47 AM

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Well there is probably a good reason for the lack of trust, not sure why a girl in a serious mature relationship needs to go on dates with other guys.

If there is good reason to not trust her, then there is no reason for the relationship. Why choose to be around someone you can't trust?

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john08135i Major 80 Rep 1,027 Posts Drives: 2013 M Sport, 2010 bmw S1000RR Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Orlando iTrader: (0)	Consider yourself lucky. Move on.. she was banging other dudes the whole time and sold the ring.. There are plenty of women who will "need" you like you "needed" her.. bang her the next few weeks as oftne as you can but dont kiss.. just hit it and then go..yea i got tings to do and take off.. no thank you's or try to talk..just jet.. __________________ M Sport Line Estoril Blue
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NYCGP WTF are you looking at? 257 Rep 1,560 Posts Drives: Bandwagon Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Jungle iTrader: (0)	Yeah, I hear ya on that... did you just say she was banging other guys and sold the ring..? Wtf.. We have a special place for people like her... __________________ "It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not." -André Gide
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radix you know he kills little girls like you 398 Rep 892 Posts Drives: - Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: - iTrader: (0)	I'd throw in my two cents but my asian is prefixed with cauc so I can't, sorry about that.
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texasmojo Second Lieutenant 13 Rep 223 Posts Drives: 2008 128i automatic Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: DFW Texas, USA iTrader: (0)	Ts, move on. You are young and have a career. Have as many girlfriends a you can and don't have kids. Wait till your 30 or older to take things serious. __________________
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JayKay335i Banned 198 Rep 5,046 Posts Drives: ///M323 DCT Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: North Dakota; its best DUHHHHHH iTrader: (1)	You sound controlling and like you're a jealous pain in the ass. Get your self confidence up and get over it, before you get in another relationship. Oh and welcome to the USA. Stop being a pussy and move on. Also, every girl will leave you if you keep acting like a jealous child.
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NYCGP WTF are you looking at? 257 Rep 1,560 Posts Drives: Bandwagon Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: Jungle iTrader: (0)	Whatever floats your boat... Bav... Read the tags.. We are not azn.. our advice is not welcome. __________________ "It is better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you are not." -André Gide
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Simsims Captain 37 Rep 615 Posts Drives: 119/220 Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Ottawa iTrader: (0)	From an asian perspective, this girl is not worth dating. Move on, don't hang yourself on one tree, one bad tree __________________ VO 1M - everything except sunroof RIP BSM 135i 2009-2011
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BimmerPod Private First Class 26 Rep 144 Posts Drives: e92 335i, f85 x5m Join Date: May 2009 Location: lost iTrader: (0)	Move on for sure... she's a taker. (perhaps causing you to be insecure about her hanging out with other dudes). she's looking out for herself #1. you should do the same. think of it this way, you owe it to yourself to find a better girl. you might not think that way now, but when you're in your 30s and realize that you chased and married the wrong chick, too f'ing late, when you have a home and kids with her. If you're not happy now (no real stress, family, mtg, etc), you'll never be happy with her. 1 yr's worth of misery is way better than a lifetime's worth
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03-08-2011, 11:41 AM	#60
nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn Lieutenant 114 Rep 465 Posts Drives: 1 Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: 2 iTrader: (0)	Collins fucked the OP's gf. Thread over.
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FDfranklin d[-_-]b 500 Rep 968 Posts Drives: Ordered: 2023 G80 M3 6MT Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: Tampa, Fl iTrader: (1)	I dunno I guess im different then some of you guys.. I think its pretty messed up for a girl in a serious relationship to go out to dinner and drinks with a guy 1 on 1. I call that a date. I could care less if my gf hung out with a guy and it was with a group or w/e but 1 on 1 out to dinner is pretty weird. Seems like this chick wasn't even introducing these guys to the OP which makes it even weirder. I woulda left before I found out if she was banging these dudes which she probably was.
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JayKay335i Banned 198 Rep 5,046 Posts Drives: ///M323 DCT Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: North Dakota; its best DUHHHHHH iTrader: (1)	I agree with ferrari. If you cant trust your girl either your girl cheats on you and tells you or you are jealous. If you dont trust her your relationship is screwed. If you dont trust her its probably because you're insecure.
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