Suggestions on a girl situation...?

BellasBmw · 05-09-2006, 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

and true gentlemen are very hard to find..........

They are...

and once we find em, we get bored and cheat on them.

hahaha

NaTuReB0Y · 05-09-2006, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

They are...

and once we find em, we get bored and cheat on them.

hahaha

poor puck........

oc24 · 05-09-2006, 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Squawks

I got your back on this slubu - I did the same too on this one girl I was interested in and she loved it. Once she accidentally shaved off half of her left eyebrow and tried to cover it up by penciling it in and the next day at lunch I noticed...man, I busted her hard!

Hahahaha that's awesome.

oc24 · 05-09-2006, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

HHhahah YOU guys are mean!

But hey.. lemme tell you.. a girl loves a prick. Dont ask me why.. haha

Why wouldn't they...they sure as hell don't like those guys that buy them flowers on the first date, ask them for which restaurant they want to go to, then make sure everything is ok about 33x during the date.

oc24 · 05-09-2006, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

They are...

and once we find em, we get bored and cheat on them.

hahaha

I seriously need to hire you to counsel some of my friends that don't understand women.

BellasBmw · 05-09-2006, 02:02 PM

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Originally Posted by slubu

Why wouldn't they...they sure as hell don't like those guys that buy them flowers on the first date, ask them for which restaurant they want to go to, then make sure everything is ok about 33x during the date.

Theres a fine line btwn being a complete asswipe and a nice guy prick.

The complete asswipe invites you to sea world for a date, then doenst pay your admission or parking. :mad:

The nice guy prick is the one who will open the door for you, treat you, tell you how beautiful you are... BUT, will keep your ass in check if you step outta line. And he keeps you guessing.. never know his next move

Squawks · 05-09-2006, 02:19 PM

Valentina busts Tony's balls - I like a chick that can fool/joke around - it goes two ways!

geeslice · 05-09-2006, 02:46 PM

i'm sorry but i only like nice guys. i like to reat someone nicely and i like to be treated nicley. i like doors opened for me, assistance putting on my cardigan when i am cold... the whole nine yards.

that makes me hot. then he can be a "prick" in bed!!

BellasBmw · 05-09-2006, 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by geeslice

i'm sorry but i only like nice guys. i like to reat someone nicely and i like to be treated nicley. i like doors opened for me, assistance putting on my cardigan when i am cold... the whole nine yards.

that makes me hot. then he can be a "prick" in bed!!

Maybe at my age im looking for mr. right now, rather than mr. right. So im just having fun with the pricks ha ha.. I guess when its time to settle and look for a potential life partner, ill go for the guy who opens the doors for me, and puts on my sweater. I've heard ppl say you should always marry someone who loves you a little more than you love them. Kinda sounds like a game, but in a way, love is a game. You never know if your gonna win, or lose.

deutschmann59 · 05-09-2006, 03:19 PM

I don't know...anyone that says they enjoy being single is lying--maybe even to themselves. Being afraid of committments is one thing...fooling around and cheating on people just for kicks is something totally different.

Mofo · 05-09-2006, 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

HHhahah YOU guys are mean!

But hey.. lemme tell you.. a girl loves a prick. Dont ask me why.. haha

What about a Mofo

oc24 · 05-09-2006, 03:26 PM

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Originally Posted by sharp1183

I don't know...anyone that says they enjoy being single is lying--maybe even to themselves. Being afraid of committments is one thing...fooling around and cheating on people just for kicks is something totally different.

Huh? I'm probably misreading this...but it sounds lke you are saying rather than being content being single, you should commit then cheat?

deutschmann59 · 05-09-2006, 03:31 PM

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Originally Posted by slubu

Huh? I'm probably misreading this...but it sounds lke you are saying rather than being content being single, you should commit then cheat?

No no...I'm saying some people are afraid of commiting to a relationship. So instead, they'd rather fool around with anyone they can. I guess you can't really call that cheating if the guy and girl aren't going out...but more times than not at least one person gets feelings for another and ends up getting hurt because the other "can't be tied down".

docbolo · 05-09-2006, 03:59 PM

looks like a nice lady slubu.

Likely that if you have to post this thread you are not into her anyway.

Tom Lykis would tell you to "dump the bitch" the minute she gained the weight and I agree.

good luck

geeslice · 05-09-2006, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

Maybe at my age im looking for mr. right now, rather than mr. right. So im just having fun with the pricks ha ha.. I guess when its time to settle and look for a potential life partner, ill go for the guy who opens the doors for me, and puts on my sweater. I've heard ppl say you should always marry someone who loves you a little more than you love them. Kinda sounds like a game, but in a way, love is a game. You never know if your gonna win, or lose.

Whoa, I'm not that much older than you... at least I don't think so. I'm 23... I'm just tired of assholes.

mava330 · 05-09-2006, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by slubu

what did i do to cause her to gain weight? In the one month we've been going out I haven't even fed her one time.

PS. How old are ya?

Homie I know what you're asking about.... here's the deal grasshoppa... Women (and some guys

)... generally they're emotional man (at least more so than you or I). What they “lack”, perception or real, in their minds in any type of relationship somehow manifests into some other activity.

Dood we can speculate day and night but I wouldn’t be surprised that if she gained weight it’s because of an insecurity she has about YOU or herself about YOU (which manifests itself into eating, etc…)… So yes you did cause this. The concept of cause and effect brotha. She could be playing the what if, should we, could we, nonsense that relationships are mired in. At the end of the day our actions affect the actions of others; you’re not immune to her and vice versa. Hell you’re the one posting that you’re getting turned off that she’s fat, right? So her action of gaining weight is affecting you. Feel me homie?

This OG Playa PiMP is 32, 33 this year… hahahaa

mava330 · 05-09-2006, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by BellasBmw

They are...

and once we find em, we get bored and cheat on them.

hahaha

That's where things are whacked out. Cheating is NEVER the result of one's anger about their partner. It's about ones anger at THEMSELVES. Cheating is a crime of being a victim, perceived or real. Two ways to look at your position in life: in control or not. To cheat inherently is showing LACK of control of YOURSELF.

Cheaters in my book are weak, sorry, nadless, pathetic, muddafookers.

:mad:

NaTuReB0Y · 05-09-2006, 04:13 PM

okay Dr. Mac.........what's next?

Squawks · 05-09-2006, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by mava330

Cheaters in my book are weak, sorry, nadless, pathetic, muddafookers.

:mad:

With that being said, many years from now if you guys hook up with a girl who by chance has two other sisters, has a Cuban mom, and her dad is an OG pimp - *do not* cheat on this girl or else you'll be found in the dumpster in an alley the next morning!

mava330 · 05-09-2006, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by NaTuReB0Y

okay Dr. Mac.........what's next?

Off my soapbox...

MoreCowbell · 05-09-2006, 05:27 PM

Just a few comments on this thread...

-I can't believe how many of you gave an opinion without the original poster saying whether or not he was looking for long term or good sex..
-He clearly isn't into her. He wouldn't have posted the tread if he was
-If somebody has two other girl on the burner(or in the bullpen, in the farm system, on deck, etc) that he CLEARLY hasn't found what he is looking for
-If I were you, i'd break up with her and not mention/do anything about the weight, that would just hurt her feelings and it isn't right.

BiggieJ · 05-09-2006, 05:45 PM

well i think this is pretty clear cut. the reason shes gaining weight is becasue shes comfortable. the reason shes comfortable is becasue shes happy. she happy because she found someone to attach to. she needs someone to attach to becasue she has insecurity issues. her insecurity issues is why she needs "labels." she needs labels because she keep attaching herself to guys like you (which i mean no offense, i just mean single not ready to commit...and for godsake its only been a month)...which leads her to "need" "labels"...on and on..and on...its a vicious cycle.

anyhow my point: either way (talking her into getting back into shape or breaking it off) you better be ready for some drama.

and i also agree that youre not really into her anyhow. this is just an excuse. if you really cared for her then a few pounds shouldnt sour up the deal. looking back at old pics its funny i can see myself and my gf get fat in the begining also

BTW Bella: seaworld's EXPENSIVE. shit i wouldnt pay fo yo ass either

jk. im old fahioned. i still have a hard time letting my friend-girls pay for ANYTHING. unless theyre cheap. then they can pay for your own damn meal cheap-ass.

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Squawks One of my two dachshunds: 56 Rep 663 Posts Drives: B6 A4 3.0 Quattro Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Ithaca, NY iTrader: (0)	Valentina busts Tony's balls - I like a chick that can fool/joke around - it goes two ways! __________________ I'm sorry about my outlandish behavior - there's too much blood in my alcohol system.
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geeslice Second Lieutenant 33 Rep 283 Posts Drives: '06 325xi Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Arlington, VA iTrader: (0) Garage List 2006 325xi [0.00] 2004 Audi TT [0.00]	i'm sorry but i only like nice guys. i like to reat someone nicely and i like to be treated nicley. i like doors opened for me, assistance putting on my cardigan when i am cold... the whole nine yards. that makes me hot. then he can be a "prick" in bed!! __________________ It's called "HAPPY" Hour for a reason. '06 E90 325xi Sparkling Graphite, Dakota Black Leather, Dark Walnut Burl Trim, Steptronic, Premium Pkg, Cold Weather Pkg, Xenons = LOVE
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05-09-2006, 03:19 PM	#54
deutschmann59 Captain 182 Rep 737 Posts Drives: 2006 325i Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: e90post.com iTrader: (0)	I don't know...anyone that says they enjoy being single is lying--maybe even to themselves. Being afraid of committments is one thing...fooling around and cheating on people just for kicks is something totally different.
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05-09-2006, 03:59 PM	#58
docbolo BMW worshiper 23 Rep 258 Posts Drives: M3/alpine/manual/prem/19" Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: San Diego, CA, USA iTrader: (1)	looks like a nice lady slubu. Likely that if you have to post this thread you are not into her anyway. Tom Lykis would tell you to "dump the bitch" the minute she gained the weight and I agree. good luck
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NaTuReB0Y Powered By 36DD 372 Rep 7,369 Posts Drives: 2006 E90 Join Date: Jul 2005 Location: Inland Empire iTrader: (12)	okay Dr. Mac.........what's next? __________________ 2006 E90 330i Jet Black \| 20" WORK VS-XX \| FK452 \| H&R Sport on Koni Yellow \| REMUS QUAD
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05-09-2006, 05:27 PM	#65
MoreCowbell Lieutenant Colonel 535 Rep 1,702 Posts Drives: 24 i5M60 23 X740 23 Vette Z06 Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Westchester, NY iTrader: (0)	Just a few comments on this thread... -I can't believe how many of you gave an opinion without the original poster saying whether or not he was looking for long term or good sex.. -He clearly isn't into her. He wouldn't have posted the tread if he was -If somebody has two other girl on the burner(or in the bullpen, in the farm system, on deck, etc) that he CLEARLY hasn't found what he is looking for -If I were you, i'd break up with her and not mention/do anything about the weight, that would just hurt her feelings and it isn't right.
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05-09-2006, 05:45 PM	#66
BiggieJ Second Lieutenant 67 Rep 239 Posts Drives: e92 335 ZSPZPPOPP Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: SoCal iTrader: (0)	well i think this is pretty clear cut. the reason shes gaining weight is becasue shes comfortable. the reason shes comfortable is becasue shes happy. she happy because she found someone to attach to. she needs someone to attach to becasue she has insecurity issues. her insecurity issues is why she needs "labels." she needs labels because she keep attaching herself to guys like you (which i mean no offense, i just mean single not ready to commit...and for godsake its only been a month)...which leads her to "need" "labels"...on and on..and on...its a vicious cycle. anyhow my point: either way (talking her into getting back into shape or breaking it off) you better be ready for some drama. and i also agree that youre not really into her anyhow. this is just an excuse. if you really cared for her then a few pounds shouldnt sour up the deal. looking back at old pics its funny i can see myself and my gf get fat in the begining also BTW Bella: seaworld's EXPENSIVE. shit i wouldnt pay fo yo ass either jk. im old fahioned. i still have a hard time letting my friend-girls pay for ANYTHING. unless theyre cheap. then they can pay for your own damn meal cheap-ass.
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