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What works for me is to immerse myself in to a new pet. I've mentioned it here before that when I lose a pet I try to get another right away so I don't think about the one I just lost because it hurts. Gets my mind immediately in to something new. Can remember the one I lost when it doesn't hurt anymore, and then remember the good times.
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The second one turns 14yo this June and from today I couldnt say, which one would be go forever first, but thats for me not the point. Those two budgies would be definitely the last ones into my life, I cant stand this powerless feeling no longer to loose someone after such a long time and it bites me more than I would allow that. Even I know that those pets are normally hold as pairwise, this time the remaining one has to go his last walks alone or the spiral never would stop. Perhaps when I retire I would give a new pet a try, but then a dog, who knows...
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Don't see it that way at all. This is your pet you just lost, not a relationship ending with a woman and you're looking to rebound. Not even close to being the same. No reason to torture yourself. Make it as easy as you can. You're not being disloyal to the pet that passed because you're not suffering in pain because they just died. No reason to unnecessarily hurt when you don't have to. It's wrong to think you're betraying that pet. You're not. It's a fresh wound, let it heal. After it heals, you will have the rest of your life to fondly remember that pet.
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So sorry to hear. I wish that I had some words of encouragement.
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I'm starting to realize I'm getting old. My neighbour came over for a cigar and some scotch...we wrapped it up at 1am with about 4 scotches each and I did not feel good this morning.
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GET OFF MY LAWN! I confess I'll be 58 this weekend. 50 freakin 8?!?!?! I just can't get my arms around that number. It's blowing my mind.
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05-21-2021, 03:46 PM | #5411 |
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Not covering up anything. Waiting till it doesn't hurt as bad. Done it with a few of my pets and have wonderful memories.
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05-21-2021, 03:59 PM | #5412 |
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Points missed. Not facing your emotion is denial. You're supposed to feel bad. Does it only apply to pets, can you cover up other emotions with liquor or drugs and so on. Natural grieving process doesn't involve finding some way not to feel. But maybe I'm just different.
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