This guy is great! He is really good friends with someone who used to go to my high school and I actually had the chance to chill with him. He is hilarious haha. Its so funny seeing his viral videos being filmed literally down the street from where I live

[kits135i]

Originally Posted by JasonCSU

That part you can start working on by hitting the gym or even by various exercises at home. It's always difficult to get started at first, but you'll quickly start feeling the benefit physically which in turn will build confidence down the road.

I am not fat because I am lazy. I am fat because I have a very rare disease and I am not allowed to do anything repetitive or it kills me faster. Exercise, lift anything heavy etc has to be done very minimal. I am not super fat. 6' 300. Big yes, huge no. I have actually changed my diet per doctors recommendation and I am starting to get the weight off with what I am allowed to do.

After reading everyone's comment I will take all in and work on changing how I am. I am shy by default and I need to change that. I have been told I give off that vibe of leave me alone before. So I will definitely try to change that to make myself more personable. Thank you everyone for your ideas.

[JasonCSU]

Originally Posted by kits135i

I am not fat because I am lazy. I am fat because I have a very rare disease and I am not allowed to do anything repetitive or it kills me faster. Exercise, lift anything heavy etc has to be done very minimal. I am not super fat. 6' 300. Big yes, huge no. I have actually changed my diet per doctors recommendation and I am starting to get the weight off with what I am allowed to do.

Ah, gotcha. Sorry to hear about that.

[Sara]

Platinum digger.

[Whostheboss]

Originally Posted by kits135i

I am not fat because I am lazy. I am fat because I have a very rare disease and I am not allowed to do anything repetitive or it kills me faster. Exercise, lift anything heavy etc has to be done very minimal. I am not super fat. 6' 300. Big yes, huge no. I have actually changed my diet per doctors recommendation and I am starting to get the weight off with what I am allowed to do.

After reading everyone's comment I will take all in and work on changing how I am. I am shy by default and I need to change that. I have been told I give off that vibe of leave me alone before. So I will definitely try to change that to make myself more personable. Thank you everyone for your ideas.

sorry about your rare disease. Have you tried laying of sugar? You know sugar protects fat. The more sugar you have, the less fat you can burn.

Try listening to some rap songs, watch some Hood or player movies. It will get your mind right. I used to be shy and had the same leave me alone vibe before.

I increased my social life, listened to more modern music, movies and TV Shows. You'll be amazed to find out that all these guys who get a lot of so called hot women are EXACTLY like you. Don't be shy, its a turn off.

[carve]

Originally Posted by late apex

IAs far as cars attracting women, what some people don't notice is how a man driving something like a Lambo carries himself. They may assume that women who are attracted to him are only after money (some might be). But a man hopping out of a Lambo does so with a lot of confidence and he walks like he is the shyt. He carries himself like he is The Man. THAT is what women notice and are drawn to. Some guys who don't have a lot of money or a nice car still get with a lot of hot women because they carry themselves in a way that makes them look like a winner just like the man with a Lambo. You could hop out a damn Pagani, but if your body language is weak and you don't appear to be confident women wont be flocking your way.

This. Behave confident and smooth, and be totally unapolagetic for being a man and wanting to take a girl you're interested in to bed. Search YouTube for these dating coaches to get an idea. If you' really make that kind of money, maybe take one of their courses...

James Marshall
Richard Gambler
David Wygant
Sasha "Daygame"

Also, read "girlschase.com"

The first two are more "smooth", the latter more flamboyant and blatantly honest about their intent. What they all have in common is they're confident and sexual guys. They all started as guys who couldn't get laid, and now wouldn't be caught dead spending more than a few bucks on a date and have no issues.

[Mr Tonka]

Originally Posted by kits135i

I am not fat because I am lazy. I am fat because I have a very rare disease and I am not allowed to do anything repetitive or it kills me faster. Exercise, lift anything heavy etc has to be done very minimal. I am not super fat. 6' 300. Big yes, huge no. I have actually changed my diet per doctors recommendation and I am starting to get the weight off with what I am allowed to do.

After reading everyone's comment I will take all in and work on changing how I am. I am shy by default and I need to change that. I have been told I give off that vibe of leave me alone before. So I will definitely try to change that to make myself more personable. Thank you everyone for your ideas.

I have a friend who is butt ugly, talks like he's uneducated and is a total dick to girls. This guy closes more ass than anyone i have ever seen. He'll bang anything that isn't nailed down, but he's got some hot ass girlfriends.

His success started accidentally by getting pissed at girls and blowing some chick off who started talking to him. She was intrigued by him not paying attention to him and he was so pissed about women he kept being a dick. Took her home that night. That next morning, a monster was born.

He started acting a jerk to girls and he got all the low self confident chicks he could handle. Once he resized and started refining his craft, his targets became more select and his strategy changed.

He realized that hot chicks that were worth more than their ass, didn't put up with guys who were a dick. So he transformed being a dick into being a sweet guy but indifferent towards his targets. He started reeling in those chicks as well.

Now he's so confident in his craft that tons of chicks are attracted to him because he knows if he wants to he can manipulate them into bed. This confidence allows him to not play those games anymore.

Bottom line....... Fake it till you make it bro.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Mr Tonka

I have a friend who is butt ugly, talks like he's uneducated and is a total dick to girls. This guy closes more ass than anyone i have ever seen. He'll bang anything that isn't nailed down, but he's got some hot ass girlfriends.

His success started accidentally by getting pissed at girls and blowing some chick off who started talking to him. She was intrigued by him not paying attention to him and he was so pissed about women he kept being a dick. Took her home that night. That next morning, a monster was born.

He started acting a jerk to girls and he got all the low self confident chicks he could handle. Once he resized and started refining his craft, his targets became more select and his strategy changed.

He realized that hot chicks that were worth more than their ass, didn't put up with guys who were a dick. So he transformed being a dick into being a sweet guy but indifferent towards his targets. He started reeling in those chicks as well.

Now he's so confident in his craft that tons of chicks are attracted to him because he knows if he wants to he can manipulate them into bed. This confidence allows him to not play those games anymore.

Bottom line....... Fake it till you make it bro.

Master! Teach me.

I saw this video on thetaoofbadass.com (thanks, Shah ) which says that women are attracted to mainly what other women are attracted to, quite irrationally, and can detach from objective measures of wealth, looks, personality etc.

He uses the example of goldfish: the females will always mate with the brighter of two males, but if they are the same color, the females will all mate with the one the other females choose!

So fake it because women subconciously really don't know what they are doing..?

[Nkc]

"I have had women many times seriously act like they were throwing up just because I looked in their direction!"

If this is even true, I think it would have to do with your weight than your looks. I'm sorry to hear about your rare disease and it would suck to not be able to exersize or do sports. BTW, would something like having sex be considered "repetitive"?

[johanness]

Originally Posted by Whostheboss

Try listening to some rap songs, watch some Hood or player movies. It will get your mind right.

That's some great interwebz advice y'all

[dtwyim]

Originally Posted by kits135i

I am not fat because I am lazy. I am fat because I have a very rare disease and I am not allowed to do anything repetitive or it kills me faster. Exercise, lift anything heavy etc has to be done very minimal. I am not super fat. 6' 300. Big yes, huge no. I have actually changed my diet per doctors recommendation and I am starting to get the weight off with what I am allowed to do.

After reading everyone's comment I will take all in and work on changing how I am. I am shy by default and I need to change that. I have been told I give off that vibe of leave me alone before. So I will definitely try to change that to make myself more personable. Thank you everyone for your ideas.

What is your disease?

[Otruba_843]

Originally Posted by Mr Tonka

I have a friend who is butt ugly, talks like he's uneducated and is a total dick to girls. This guy closes more ass than anyone i have ever seen. He'll bang anything that isn't nailed down, but he's got some hot ass girlfriends.

His success started accidentally by getting pissed at girls and blowing some chick off who started talking to him. She was intrigued by him not paying attention to him and he was so pissed about women he kept being a dick. Took her home that night. That next morning, a monster was born.

He started acting a jerk to girls and he got all the low self confident chicks he could handle. Once he resized and started refining his craft, his targets became more select and his strategy changed.

He realized that hot chicks that were worth more than their ass, didn't put up with guys who were a dick. So he transformed being a dick into being a sweet guy but indifferent towards his targets. He started reeling in those chicks as well.

Now he's so confident in his craft that tons of chicks are attracted to him because he knows if he wants to he can manipulate them into bed. This confidence allows him to not play those games anymore.

Bottom line....... Fake it till you make it bro.

This is spot on. Women hate it when you don't pay attention to them. They just start crawling towards you and beg for you.

[kevinbahnz]

Originally Posted by Nkc

Bro find a chick that likes you for who you are. I'm sure out of the 3.4 Billion females in this world, there's got to be one that finds you attractive and that's all that matters. Don't beat yourself up. This thread is now useless without pics. If you're really that self conscious about your looks then why not check out some cosmetic surgeries? Girls have been doing that forever and almost every male star in Korea does it too.

+1. There's someone for everyone. I was born with a Birthmark on the left side of my face. I've always wanted to get it removed as a teen but my parents couldn't afford it but I didn't have a problem with getting girls to like me because my dad wouldn't let me have a gf in HS. I'm 37 with 2 kids now and 2 baby mamas'. OP, there's someone out there for you.

[BMWrules7]

Originally Posted by kits135i

Looks play a role! Trust me. I though I was an OK looking guy, but I have been told by women and men I am ugly as sin. Plus I have some extra padding. I cannot get a female no matter how much money I have. I can pull up in a 300k car with money falling out of my pockets in a Zegna suit and women give me the gag face and move on. Looks is still a huge role. I have had women many times seriously act like they were throwing up just because I looked in their direction! When I go to a strip club they don't even come up to me.

No. Looks do play a role, but only to cover up the real weakness that women see in you.

There are two topics you need to bone up on: power and seduction.

Learn everything you can and you will become 100x more powerful and desired. Looks mean nothin my man.

[Aggression]

nuff' said

[Whostheboss]

Originally Posted by Otruba_843

This is spot on. Women hate it when you don't pay attention to them. They just start crawling towards you and beg for you.

YES! Thats why i use the "Dont-Look-Desprate" strategy.

[Otruba_843]

Originally Posted by Whostheboss

YES! Thats why i use the "Dont-Look-Desprate" strategy.

It works every time.

[bumere90]

You know guys, I don't blame or hate girls that are gold diggers. I hate guys that are looking for girls who will support them financially.
People became materialistic.

[ddk632]

Girl looking for guy to support her financially = gold digger
Guy looking for girl to support him financially = bum

[Foxrus14]

Originally Posted by kevinbahnz

+1. There's someone for everyone. I was born with a Birthmark on the left side of my face. I've always wanted to get it removed as a teen but my parents couldn't afford it but I didn't have a problem with getting girls to like me because my dad wouldn't let me have a gf in HS. I'm 37 with 2 kids now and 2 baby mamas'. OP, there's someone out there for you.

Drew Brees????

[kevinbahnz]

Originally Posted by Foxrus14

Drew Brees????

thats nice of you but, no its more like Gorbachev. At least that's what one kid called me throughout HS. Shit I saw him at the gym a few years ago and he still calls me that.

[pkimM3r]

Career driven women only. Retired the stank ass skanks many years ago LOL.