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Confident and pushy are two very different things. Most girls like guys who are confident, even if it comes off as pushy once in a while. In contrast, most girls don't like guys who aren't confident. Even if the perceived lack of confidence is only because you're trying to be a super nice guy.
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and take her for dinner not lunch.. and relax.. edit: after reading the posts above, reduce messages and phone calls until you go out.. just throw in a i like talking to you through the phone but i prefer face to face, or something. improvise!!
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i'm impatient and pretty straight forward so i just yolo and go in..
It hasn't failed me yet and that's actually how i ended up with my gf of 3.5 years ! Just go in with no hesitation and if things don't work out, move on |
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The more you are on her, the more she's likely to brush you off. Conversely, put her on a "pay no mind" list and watch how quickly she will be contacting you. It's a game. |
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05-21-2013, 11:40 PM | #36 | |
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I insisted on lunch because I thought it would be a proper environment to get to know each other without all the tension. After-all, we did speak, we only spoke about school related subjects. I did not want to scare her away or anything with dinner, but you all are the professionals here and know better. Hence, why I am asking. So which is better? Lunch or Dinner? I really want to see how it goes; I am not rushing for a relationship or anything. One problem is I do not want to call her on memorial day weekend because she might just say that she has plans and is going out of town. So I was thinking next weekend. Besides, weekday nights are difficult for me because I get off work late. So, really, I can only do weekends. |
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if she is interested in you, you don't need to play any waiting games. just ask her out.
you don't need to play any mind games, everything comes naturally.
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Judge is a boss. That was an enjoyable read.
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She's probably a lost cause and won't reply to your text. But you might get lucky if you don't call her and put her on the spot. Girls don't give "clear-cut answers" man. Also, try to pick something besides pizza. Doesn't need to be expensive but something better than fast food. And offer to drive her. If you're really worried about her being a gold digger, just wait and see if she reaches for her purse when the bill comes around. But don't let her pay for it. |
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After that long text conversation we had, I called her up about two days later. Again, as always, she seemed really interested to talk to me. I asked her if she saw her final grade from the history class that we took together, where I met her, and she said, "yes." She asked me what I got and I told her I had received an A in the class as well as all my other classes. She had also gotten straight A's. Then she insisted that we should "celebrate." Then, that was when I insisted that we should meet up together for lunch. She told me that she might be off early on Memorial Day, and that she would let me know. I also told her, "I remember you asking me where I lived and that it was far. It does not matter where I live. I am willing to drive the distance to come and pick you up. Do not worry about it." I could hear her blushingly say, "Ok, thanks" (Her inner-monologue was saying, "Aww, thats sweet of him.") Fast-forward Memorial day she texted me and it went as: Her: "Hey *******, i'll be stuck at work till 8. I know it's kinda late, but hopefully we can hang out another day." Me: It's cool. Just let me know the next time your free. We should do dinner sometime since your off in the evenings. Her: Bet bett ! (Meaning: sure, done deal. Would love to; lets do that.) This is the second time she has blown me off. The first time I told her that I wanted to take her out for lunch. She excitedly said, "I would like that." The second I spoke to her on the phone, she insisted that we "celebrate since we both received straight A's. That was when I proposed lunch again, but she was busy at work. Like I said, I do believe her because she did tell me that way before the semester was over that she was going to be working during the summer. Also (I do not really like doing this when meeting new people because I feel like a stalker and I involuntarily end up prejudging them but...) I browsed her twitter page (I am not following her), and she posted "Ugh...no days off of work." So I guess she really is not lying to me. At this point, I have no idea what to do. I do not want to initiate another lunch/dinner, which will most likely make me come off as pushy and desperate. It has been a week since we last talked by the way. I do not want to let her go, as I feel like there is something special about her. Help. |
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