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LOL, if mine is demeaning, than so is his. This proves my point exactly.
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Blake, we have to all hook up next time we're down!
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Do you guys want to do dinner and drinks? We'll PROBABLY be back down at the end of March. How old are you anyway?
Sorry for the thread jack, lol.
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01-23-2010, 08:50 PM | #32 | |
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i support all the action that you have taken. People like your son needs to be taught a lesson, they are what we call a menace to society. I would send him to boot camp or something to get him straighten out. Army is the best place to put his ass in check. Once he's been to Iraq, he will know whats up. I would watch out for your own safety since he has already been booked with battery, i dont think he would be afraid to do that again and maybe take things even further. He's still under 18 even if he beats you till your handicap, he wont go to jail, he'll just be in juvenile hall. |
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Ok, he is a minor, he is not even 18, why are you people encouraging alcohol? If he is that rebellious wont you be worried that he would drink and drive??? Some people + alcohol is not a good combination. |
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I am 17 and i see 1 option right now.
Kick his ASS, and i mean like show him that you are in charge and if he lives under your roof he follows your rules. Ground his ass to the ground, like so low that he is licking the dirt, no cell phone, computer, no going out for like 2 weeks, if he has a car, take the keys away. This will make him hate you, but once he comes to his senses about how important those things are he will LOVE to see the day light again. the reason i am telling you: I got caught for some stupid shit like 2-3 weeks ago, weed, drinking, girls, you name it. I got my ass kicked, grounded and i am still under tight rules. When i got my cell phone taken away it felt like they took my connection from the rest of the world away, like i was out of my mind and when i was allowed to go out for like 3 hours the first time, i was thanking god as i was walking out the door. Every once in a while you gotta get off your high horse and smell the reality again. What's probably making him do all this is his "friends", trust me its where he gets all this ideas from, they do all this shit together ( i know i did), Make him cut all the connections from his friends, make him start all over again. Good luck and wish you the best ! |
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i wouldn't think of smoking weed or drinking with him. he has told me he wished i would. i just dont think its morally right. most of his friend live with just their dad. and thats were he wants to be. i think their dad does those things with them.
im just old school, i did as told or lost every priveledge i had. i am also veteran with 8 years in the army. so i want it done my way and now means now. |
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"it takes the police 6 minutes to get to our house...and in that 6 minutes...somebody is gonna get real hurt" ![]() on a second thought you already missed the beat down age. you gotta do that before he turns teen man. Thats when you instill the fear of god into him everytime you unbuckle. I can easily fuck my dad up right now, but everytime after dinner, he unbuckles his belt to let loose I still get this chilling sensation down my spine...thats mother fucking fear. Why don't you ship him out to boarding school? Look man, maybe you are worrying too much. I mean all teens rebel, I know I did. Whats important is does he turn around at 18? he could turn back around to be a normal dude again at 18 or he could continue to be an asshole and become a criminal. Sometimes, just giving him some space and letting go some control helps alot. look at it this way, you already lost the "military dad" battle, forget it that ship has already sailed. So time to switch up the batter and get in the friend zone. Or you can always just tuck in and ride it out and see. No kids will hate their parents past puberty unless they were being fucked up to be fucked up and not love. So relax you'll be alright |
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Truly screwed up kid. I doubt physical abuse will work on him but it will make you feel better.
![]() I would take away his cell phone, dress him up as a crip, and drop him off in blood territory for a night. If he survives, he will be grateful for what he has at home. ok...jk again Just isolate him at home and get to know him...find the root cause of his anger and fix it.
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I am sorry to say this but your son has crossed the line.
No way do you hit your mom. NO effing way. I believe you need to sit down with him and just let him talk. Ask him honestly to tell him what his problem with you is. LISTEN to him. DO NOT interrupt him. Then you need to tell him that you love him and care for him and want the best for him and tell him your point of view. Again do not impose anything on him. You two need to work out a compromise. Tell him he can do some things but not all. If this doesn't work out. Cut him lose. You are not legally obligated to buy him a cell phone, car etc. Until he is 18 you need to only feed, clothe and shelter him. My big problem with this, is that he has laid his hands on your wife. That is just wrong. If he still continues being a rotten apple, then there is nothing you can do but cut him loose and tell him that you hope he will be successful in life but you cannot live with him being such a horrible person. Hopefully, he learns how tough life is out there. Maybe 5, 10 years down the road he realises he was wrong and has messed up everything. |
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That's a lot to deal with man. While what he's doing it by no means acceptable, I think it's a phase that just needs to pass. Easier said than done, but he will grow out of it. Every kid is different when that age.
I don't think physical discipline is going to help much at this point, but you can't allow him to assault your wife. That's the big thing here, and is way over the line. I'm by no means an expert, but I think you need professional advice/assistance here before it gets any worse.
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