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      07-06-2016, 10:50 PM   #3873
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Is it that fucked up?

I mean, not looking for a relationship
It is if you're leading them on like you want a relationship. But, if they're putting out after a second date like that maybe they're not too upstanding either. Still feels like manipulation, but we're not here to judge anyone eh? Whatever gets your rocks off I guess.
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It is if you're leading them on like you want a relationship. But, if they're putting out after a second date like that maybe they're not too upstanding either. Still feels like manipulation, but we're not here to judge anyone eh? Whatever gets your rocks off I guess.
Stop being so soft. They are not promised his attention or his time, he's not obligated to give them any more than the (brief) time spent together. They both haD a good time (obviously, which is why she will probably keep calling) but now that ship has sailed.
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      07-07-2016, 12:00 AM   #3875
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Stop being so soft. They are not promised his attention or his time, he's not obligated to give them any more than the (brief) time spent together. They both haD a good time (obviously, which is why she will probably keep calling) but now that ship has sailed.
Don't you see the issue here? If they're both on the same page about doing this whatever, but misleading someone into an assumed relationship just to jump ship once they bang is pretty scummy in my books. Also, not to assume smoosh actually does this actively, but if the guy actually says he's interested in a serious relationship and pulls this crap after they bang I would say yes, she was promised time and attention.

One night stands are one thing, at least both people know that it isn't gonna be a thing. Reverse the roll. You're dating a girl, and on the second date you two bang, but suddenly after that day she completely blocks you. Wouldn't you kind of wonder what you did wrong? Wouldn't you kind of hesitate to open yourself up to someone again? That bad taste in your mouth will turn bitter and every time you go on a date it'll come back. Pretty shitty, no?

I wouldn't be so quick to assume though that the time was good hence the call backs. Related to the above, maybe they want answers on why communication was cut off. Maybe they're hurt they opened themselves up to the guy and he betrays their trust like this.


Oh wait, am I taking this too serious? This thread is pretty lighthearted, so innuendo-laden lotion joke! Hooray.
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Stop being so soft. They are not promised his attention or his time, he's not obligated to give them any more than the (brief) time spent together. They both haD a good time (obviously, which is why she will probably keep calling) but now that ship has sailed.
Don't you see the issue here? If they're both on the same page about doing this whatever, but misleading someone into an assumed relationship just to jump ship once they bang is pretty scummy in my books. Also, not to assume smoosh actually does this actively, but if the guy actually says he's interested in a serious relationship and pulls this crap after they bang I would say yes, she was promised time and attention.

One night stands are one thing, at least both people know that it isn't gonna be a thing. Reverse the roll. You're dating a girl, and on the second date you two bang, but suddenly after that day she completely blocks you. Wouldn't you kind of wonder what you did wrong? Wouldn't you kind of hesitate to open yourself up to someone again? That bad taste in your mouth will turn bitter and every time you go on a date it'll come back. Pretty shitty, no?

I wouldn't be so quick to assume though that the time was good hence the call backs. Related to the above, maybe they want answers on why communication was cut off. Maybe they're hurt they opened themselves up to the guy and he betrays their trust like this.


Oh wait, am I taking this too serious? This thread is pretty lighthearted, so innuendo-laden lotion joke! Hooray.
Have you read this whole thread. Nobody is claiming moral high ground in here....
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Don't you see the issue here? If they're both on the same page about doing this whatever, but misleading someone into an assumed relationship just to jump ship once they bang is pretty scummy in my books. Also, not to assume smoosh actually does this actively, but if the guy actually says he's interested in a serious relationship and pulls this crap after they bang I would say yes, she was promised time and attention.

One night stands are one thing, at least both people know that it isn't gonna be a thing. Reverse the roll. You're dating a girl, and on the second date you two bang, but suddenly after that day she completely blocks you. Wouldn't you kind of wonder what you did wrong? Wouldn't you kind of hesitate to open yourself up to someone again? That bad taste in your mouth will turn bitter and every time you go on a date it'll come back. Pretty shitty, no?

I wouldn't be so quick to assume though that the time was good hence the call backs. Related to the above, maybe they want answers on why communication was cut off. Maybe they're hurt they opened themselves up to the guy and he betrays their trust like this.


Oh wait, am I taking this too serious? This thread is pretty lighthearted, so innuendo-laden lotion joke! Hooray.
I didn't read any of this because I don't care. No one is using tinder to find their spouse, and speaking of which he isn't married to these women and doesn't owe them shit - especially an explaination.
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Have you read this whole thread. Nobody is claiming moral high ground in here....
Yeah I thought about that toward the end of typing all that, hence the joke at the end.

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I didn't read any of this because I don't care. No one is using tinder to find their spouse, and speaking of which he isn't married to these women and doesn't owe them shit - especially an explaination.
Whatever dude. The day you grow up and realize women aren't objects to be bang and blocked unceremoniously come talk to me.
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Yeah I thought about that toward the end of typing all that, hence the joke at the end.


Whatever dude. The day you grow up and realize women aren't objects to be bang and blocked unceremoniously come talk to me.
Yeah, because only men objectify women, and not the other way around? Because it's my job to police women's relationship choices because you think they are too ' frail' 'weak' and 'stupid' to do it on their own?
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Yeah, because only men objectify women, and not the other way around? Because it's my job to police women's relationship choices because you think they are too ' frail' 'weak' and 'stupid' to do it on their own?
Never said that, never meant to imply that. Good try though.
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Yeah, because only men objectify women, and not the other way around? Because it's my job to police women's relationship choices because you think they are too ' frail' 'weak' and 'stupid' to do it on their own?
Never said that, never meant to imply that. Good try though.
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I'm all for the serious conversation, but let me get this thread back on track. Was good fun to read some of the opinions, though. Now let's see.. on the topic of super liking, yesterday.. silvergray545
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Don't you see the issue here? If they're both on the same page about doing this whatever, but misleading someone into an assumed relationship just to jump ship once they bang is pretty scummy in my books. Also, not to assume smoosh actually does this actively, but if the guy actually says he's interested in a serious relationship and pulls this crap after they bang I would say yes, she was promised time and attention.

One night stands are one thing, at least both people know that it isn't gonna be a thing. Reverse the role. You're dating a girl, and on the second date you two bang, but suddenly after that day she completely blocks you. Wouldn't you kind of wonder what you did wrong? Wouldn't you kind of hesitate to open yourself up to someone again? That bad taste in your mouth will turn bitter and every time you go on a date it'll come back. Pretty shitty, no?

I wouldn't be so quick to assume though that the time was good hence the call backs. Related to the above, maybe they want answers on why communication was cut off. Maybe they're hurt they opened themselves up to the guy and he betrays their trust like this.


Oh wait, am I taking this too serious? This thread is pretty lighthearted, so innuendo-laden lotion joke! Hooray.
No offense, but I fucking hate these kinds of errors. Great post, though.


And for the record I actually wouldn't mind finding someone of substance to hang out with, on the apps. I'm not against it. Just haven't found it yet, like my homie Mike has.
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Let's talks about how I should be the dedicated tinder coach because I'm the only one who had a Cinderella story from tinder
Dude with that chick you have you are literally one in a million. LMFAO.
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And for the record my bio and douche-y pic that the women apparently don't like to see but somehow worked in a span of a few hours because physical attraction is the main driver for these apps. This is actually also my first shirtless main pic btw. silvergray545 made some tweaks to the bio again.
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BTW Mike this pulled more than the witch lines. Hahaha


EDIT: OMFG the tags.
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verbiage, with that name you better know how to sing lol
Haha I'm halfway there because I can fool most Hispanics into thinking I'm Dominican or from Panama. Like the Spanish seriously has people thinking. And being a quarter West Indian helps my case because I don't have the regular nappy looking black hair.


But I can sing [relatively] well, actually.
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BTW Mike this pulled more than the witch lines. Hahaha


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we will see if they leave a lasting impression, much like the witch lines do
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we will see if they leave a lasting impression, much like the witch lines do
Well, I mainly did it so I could attract some white girls, witch (lolz) it did. But I think it works better if you're a white guy. Or middle eastern.
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