Help me on breaking up

Verbiage · 02-25-2016, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by longress

You're not over her... No disrespect but that's quite the schedule of events for an introvert and quite the swing of emotion from the previous post. I'm wondering if you got back with her and just don't want to put it on the forum???

TBH this whole story could be made up. It's served its purpose though. It's gone 15 pages.

fecurtis · 02-25-2016, 03:39 PM

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Originally Posted by longress

You're not over her... No disrespect but that's quite the schedule of events for an introvert and quite the swing of emotion from the previous post. I'm wondering if you got back with her and just don't want to put it on the forum???

It's the natural progression. Tomorrow he'll be sobbing uncontrollably in his bed or some lame shit like that.

Verbiage · 02-25-2016, 03:40 PM

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Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

He's not. Axius would have told me (because he's banging her now and she would have told him. Or ASBSECU E93 - same reason.)

Asshole.

jtodd_fl · 02-25-2016, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Verbiage

Asshole.

I was being polite - it actually was going on well before, but... you know.

I kid, I joke. But never hurts to remind OP why he left his trusty mount (and a lot of other people's too)

smoosh · 02-25-2016, 03:54 PM

Haha ok I'm not over her, that was a lie.

I have not spoken to her once since we broke up. No plans on it...

I hopped on Tinder, met a lot of women, and scheduled dates.

I know it's going to take time, but I am being honest that I haven't spoken to her once since we broke up...

smoosh · 02-25-2016, 03:56 PM

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Originally Posted by fecurtis

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Originally Posted by longress

You're not over her... No disrespect but that's quite the schedule of events for an introvert and quite the swing of emotion from the previous post. I'm wondering if you got back with her and just don't want to put it on the forum???

It's the natural progression. Tomorrow he'll be sobbing uncontrollably in his bed or some lame shit like that.

Nope, tomorrow, I'll be in bed with a chick I met on Tinder...

Verbiage · 02-25-2016, 03:59 PM

OP how old are you?

RickFLM4 · 02-25-2016, 04:10 PM

My guess is somewhere between 17 and 22...

swagon · 02-25-2016, 04:18 PM

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Originally Posted by RickFLM4

My guess is somewhere between 17 and 22...

Why would someone so young buy an X1?

C5driver · 02-25-2016, 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by swagon

Why would someone so young buy an X1?

Does he have an X1?

swagon · 02-25-2016, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by C5driver

Does he have an X1?

Ja.

C5driver · 02-25-2016, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by swagon

Ja.

Must be true!

swagon · 02-25-2016, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by C5driver

Must be true!

F30lolz · 02-25-2016, 04:34 PM

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Originally Posted by smoosh

Haha ok I'm not over her, that was a lie.

I have not spoken to her once since we broke up. No plans on it...

I hopped on Tinder, met a lot of women, and scheduled dates.

I know it's going to take time, but I am being honest that I haven't spoken to her once since we broke up...

For the love of GOD OP, don't mention anything about your ex. If they asked why you aren't together, say that she gave you herpes. It'll work well.

BTW, pics of said tinder bitches or ban.

RickFLM4 · 02-25-2016, 04:42 PM

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Originally Posted by swagon

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Originally Posted by RickFLM4

My guess is somewhere between 17 and 22...

Why would someone so young buy an X1?

I didn't realize he had an X1 but would have guessed the X1 is intended for younger drivers anyway. Maybe not.

Verbiage · 02-25-2016, 05:13 PM

I never liked the X1. Maybe I'm too old.

ksa · 02-25-2016, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by smoosh

Haha ok I'm not over her, that was a lie.

I have not spoken to her once since we broke up. No plans on it...

I hopped on Tinder, met a lot of women, and scheduled dates.

I know it's going to take time, but I am being honest that I haven't spoken to her once since we broke up...

That's okay man, as long as you'r not lying to yourself.

No one expects you to be over her within days. It'll will take time and that is okay. As long as you are making progress towards moving on and not looking back. And yes, not talking to her and deleting/getting rid of everything that belongs to her is the first step.

Keep on keepin' on and you'll get there!

Aatish · 02-25-2016, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Verbiage

I never liked the X1. Maybe I'm too old.

I'm young and I don't like it... No offense OP

TUN3D · 02-25-2016, 06:52 PM

smoosh >

Hey bud, saw this a few days ago -- MY GOD -- has this post grown legs. Anyhow, here are my two-pennies. I apologize in advance if my "bad" recommendation(s) have already been covered...

1) JERK OFF - I know its unorthodox, but this helped me tremendously thru a tough breakup. It wasn't a casual relationship either, we were living together so believe me dude...it was serious.

Anyways, after we split...my days weren't so bad. I focused a bit more on work/car projects. That occupied most of my time and kept my mind off of things. At night (on my down-time) that's when the demons came out to play. All I could do is facebook/instagram-stalk her ass, her friends, her friends-friends, her family, just waiting to see what would happen next. Id also get the uncontrollable urge to text, etc.

Anyhow...when I got that itch, I'd "Beat my Meat" like it stole something. Ejaculation/Orgasms have some very powerful psychological/chemical effects. Most importantly is the inability to give a fuck for a period of time. After you fire off a missile...trust me my friend...you're not gonna want to see and/or contact a soul. You'll thank yourself, believe me.

2) BREAK ALL COMMUNICATION/CONTACT - The idea that she'll come to her senses and treat you properly (at this point)...is a pipe-dream. Strong relationships, or better yet -- people who really love you -- don't jump on the next "Baloney-Pony" every time you have a little fight. She might like and appreciate some things about you, but it's not enough.

So, break all ties and take back control of the situation. Delete, pictures, instagram...everything. Start fresh.

3) LEACH - Grab a friend, preferably a girl, who's good at listening/rationalizing and hold on for dear life. In times like these, you need an ear...some support man. Setup a support system of people who give you some good advice, and/or bad advice...like this.

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If all else fails, start another thread or do whatever it takes to keep you're mind swinging in a different direction. You'll be alright, just stay away.

Note: Meeting chicks and all that other bullshit, while amusing and time filling, are not gonna help you when you're alone. That's when you're most vulnerable. That's why I directed my focus/recommendations on the psychological side of things. This is going to be your biggest battle.

smoosh · 02-25-2016, 10:35 PM

Not sure what you all think I'm lying about. I have better things to do with my time than lie about some stupid shit on the Internet. I obviously came here because I wasn't doing ok and needed help from people who are clearly successful...figured there'd be some good pointers, and there have been.

I have not, and will not, speak to her. she called me. I didn't respond. no urge in returning her call either.

It's goddamn difficult, but I know I can do better. Who ever posted that I'm basically running through the emotions is right. because now, I miss her like shit, and I want to call her, but I'm not going to.

I cannot get that beetch out of my mind, and I'll do whatever it takes to get over her.

Aatish · 02-25-2016, 11:43 PM

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Originally Posted by smoosh

Not sure what you all think I'm lying about. I have better things to do with my time than lie about some stupid shit on the Internet. I obviously came here because I wasn't doing ok and needed help from people who are clearly successful...figured there'd be some good pointers, and there have been.

I have not, and will not, speak to her. she called me. I didn't respond. no urge in returning her call either.

It's goddamn difficult, but I know I can do better. Who ever posted that I'm basically running through the emotions is right. because now, I miss her like shit, and I want to call her, but I'm not going to.

I cannot get that beetch out of my mind, and I'll do whatever it takes to get over her.

Whenever you think of "it"...

Just play this song

Axius · 02-26-2016, 07:28 AM

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Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

He's not. Axius would have told me (because he's banging her now and she would have told him. Or ASBSECU E93 - same reason.)

Can confirmed, licked her ass last night. Her as a person, probably a 4/10, would totally bang again though.

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smoosh fight me bro 2215 Rep 531 Posts Drives: slut whisperer Join Date: Feb 2016 Location: Running away from an ocean vagina iTrader: (0)	Haha ok I'm not over her, that was a lie. I have not spoken to her once since we broke up. No plans on it... I hopped on Tinder, met a lot of women, and scheduled dates. I know it's going to take time, but I am being honest that I haven't spoken to her once since we broke up...
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Verbiage Dismembered Member 3650 Rep 9,213 Posts Drives: F80 ZCP 6MT, R55 Clubman S 6MT Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: DMV iTrader: (6)	OP how old are you? __________________ My delivery experience and beach photoshoot here.
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RickFLM4 Brigadier General 11948 Rep 4,877 Posts Drives: M4 Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: PB County, FL iTrader: (0)	My guess is somewhere between 17 and 22... __________________ Current: 2018 SO/SS F83 ZCP Gone: 2015 SO/SO F82
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Verbiage Dismembered Member 3650 Rep 9,213 Posts Drives: F80 ZCP 6MT, R55 Clubman S 6MT Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: DMV iTrader: (6)	I never liked the X1. Maybe I'm too old. __________________ My delivery experience and beach photoshoot here.
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TUN3D Major 202 Rep 1,181 Posts Drives: none Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: none iTrader: (17)	smoosh > Hey bud, saw this a few days ago -- MY GOD -- has this post grown legs. Anyhow, here are my two-pennies. I apologize in advance if my "bad" recommendation(s) have already been covered... 1) JERK OFF - I know its unorthodox, but this helped me tremendously thru a tough breakup. It wasn't a casual relationship either, we were living together so believe me dude...it was serious. Anyways, after we split...my days weren't so bad. I focused a bit more on work/car projects. That occupied most of my time and kept my mind off of things. At night (on my down-time) that's when the demons came out to play. All I could do is facebook/instagram-stalk her ass, her friends, her friends-friends, her family, just waiting to see what would happen next. Id also get the uncontrollable urge to text, etc. Anyhow...when I got that itch, I'd "Beat my Meat" like it stole something. Ejaculation/Orgasms have some very powerful psychological/chemical effects. Most importantly is the inability to give a fuck for a period of time. After you fire off a missile...trust me my friend...you're not gonna want to see and/or contact a soul. You'll thank yourself, believe me. 2) BREAK ALL COMMUNICATION/CONTACT - The idea that she'll come to her senses and treat you properly (at this point)...is a pipe-dream. Strong relationships, or better yet -- people who really love you -- don't jump on the next "Baloney-Pony" every time you have a little fight. She might like and appreciate some things about you, but it's not enough. So, break all ties and take back control of the situation. Delete, pictures, instagram...everything. Start fresh. 3) LEACH - Grab a friend, preferably a girl, who's good at listening/rationalizing and hold on for dear life. In times like these, you need an ear...some support man. Setup a support system of people who give you some good advice, and/or bad advice...like this. -------- If all else fails, start another thread or do whatever it takes to keep you're mind swinging in a different direction. You'll be alright, just stay away. Note: Meeting chicks and all that other bullshit, while amusing and time filling, are not gonna help you when you're alone. That's when you're most vulnerable. That's why I directed my focus/recommendations on the psychological side of things. This is going to be your biggest battle. __________________ Last edited by TUN3D; 02-25-2016 at 07:00 PM..
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02-25-2016, 10:35 PM	#328
smoosh fight me bro 2215 Rep 531 Posts Drives: slut whisperer Join Date: Feb 2016 Location: Running away from an ocean vagina iTrader: (0)	Not sure what you all think I'm lying about. I have better things to do with my time than lie about some stupid shit on the Internet. I obviously came here because I wasn't doing ok and needed help from people who are clearly successful...figured there'd be some good pointers, and there have been. I have not, and will not, speak to her. she called me. I didn't respond. no urge in returning her call either. It's goddamn difficult, but I know I can do better. Who ever posted that I'm basically running through the emotions is right. because now, I miss her like shit, and I want to call her, but I'm not going to. I cannot get that beetch out of my mind, and I'll do whatever it takes to get over her.
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