This Chick At The Gym...

CollinsE90 · 10-14-2010, 12:00 AM

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Originally Posted by bmwmthree

stfu lol i posted the real story

are you schizophrenic?

hl0m4n · 10-14-2010, 12:22 AM

everytime i look at the pic, it amazes me how close they resemble. like no joke with the minor tweeks that is basically her...

no text/calls, i failed big time

, ill probably see her at the gym today though so...

bmwmthree · 10-14-2010, 12:25 AM

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Originally Posted by hl0m4n

ill probably see her at the gym today though so...

how late do you go to the gym...

and i don't see what's wrong, just go talk to her and say you weren't feeling well before because you were stressed out. you guys are making such a big deal.

jibaholic101 · 10-14-2010, 12:37 AM

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Originally Posted by hl0m4n

everytime i look at the pic, it amazes me how close they resemble. like no joke with the minor tweeks that is basically her...

no text/calls, i failed big time

, ill probably see her at the gym today though so...

So why exactly haven't you called her yet to apologize and arrange another date? It'll take about 5 minutes to drag yourself out of this hole, now man up and take care of business and slay! Women can sense out these insecurities, they are attracted to confidence!

Vanity · 10-14-2010, 12:41 AM

Why the hell hasn't he apologized yet? You don't even have to go into anything lengthy. Send her a text saying "Sorry.". She'll know exactly what you're talking about and text you back to talk about it.

This way if you're scared shitless or your apology is inarticulate, she'll be the one to start the convo. MAN-UP OP!

TK-421 · 10-14-2010, 12:46 AM

The estrogen is strong with this one

hl0m4n · 10-14-2010, 12:50 AM

i go to the gym anywhere between 7-8pm and stay for about 2.5 hours.

i would text her im sorry but i just like face to face better. so ill tell her up front tommorow...

BigDog · 10-14-2010, 12:50 AM

....how you know she's not sleepin around with the other dudes at the gym??

hl0m4n · 10-14-2010, 12:55 AM

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Originally Posted by BigDog

....how you know she's not sleepin around with the other dudes at the gym??

true...but that would just make her another whore, use and abuse

bmwmthree · 10-14-2010, 01:04 AM

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Originally Posted by hl0m4n

i go to the gym anywhere between 7-8pm and stay for about 2.5 hours.

i would text her im sorry but i just like face to face better. so ill tell her up front tommorow...

you said you'll see her today, isn't it like ~1AM...

CollinsE90 · 10-14-2010, 01:11 AM

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Originally Posted by bmwmthree

you said you'll see her today, isn't it like ~1AM...

at 12:01 he started saying "today, i talk to her"

JayKay335i · 10-14-2010, 01:17 AM

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Originally Posted by hl0m4n

true...but that would just make her another whore, use and abuse

Doesn't matter. You call her and apologize, or call her and pre-apologize and tell her you'll talk to about it later. The longer you wait, the more chances of fucken it up.

And if she looks like that girl, you dont want to fuck that up.

BMW F22 · 10-14-2010, 01:27 AM

Okay I read the cliff note and WTF bro?? Everyone has bad days but don't let jealousy get in the way. Always remember this "no matter what she does or how she seems around other guys, as long as she goes home with YOU it's fine." Jealousy and insecurities destroy most relationships.

If I were in your shoes I would have done one of two things:

a. walk up to her and be like "hi, how'd you sleep the other night? blah blah blah was great huh?" and you could maybe give her a peck depending on how things are going between you two

b. greet her, catch up real quick and be like "alright I'll see you around/talk to you in a bit". When you are alone with her you would then be close to her and flirt with her. Get some touching going on.

Basically you're telling other guys to back the hell off.

Of course you don't have to do it because if she likes you she wouldn't care about the other guys. That's just something I would have done just because. When I see other guys hitting on my girl or a girl I like I view it as a competition so i would rub their faces in it. Anyhow, the most important thing of all is don't act/show that you're jealous or insecured. Just act normal and be cool with her. Don't be her bitch and don't treat her like a bitch and you're golden.

lopealle · 10-14-2010, 01:50 AM

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Originally Posted by TK-421

dude if that's true, you'd better explain to her what happened... and massacre that vag before you fuck up again

Could't have said it better

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Originally Posted by CollinsE90

guy see's girl in gym he likes
guy comes on e90 for advice
girl stocks guy until he has no choice but to say something
guy hangs out with chick
guy another day gets text late at night to hang, doesnt bang
guy goes to gym after bad day and she is there getting flirted with
guy ingnores her, and now could of possibly put his dick in the garbage disposal

It true

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Originally Posted by bmwmthree

the OP sees a girl he likes at the gym. he gets a date with her. after he takers her back to his house, he finds out she has a penis. he finishes what he started and sends her off. he is now looking for a new gym to join. true story.

lol

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Originally Posted by BTM

White girl likes azn dude. Azn dude like white girl. Azn dude nervous, but makes some positive moves. Makes out with white girl on a bench. Then has a bad day and gets jealous and acts like a tard. Waiting for update. Has not smashed

Why hasn't he smashed only god knows. If she looks like the girl in the pic I would have had nasty pics and all. Sadly im not in his shoes with this opportunity

pokeybritches · 10-14-2010, 02:26 AM

Text her you're sorry you weren't yourself at the gym, that you had a rough week with the midterms being moved around, and you hope to see her tonight. Girls know when a guy is jealous, but whatever you do, DO NOT ever tell her you were jealous. DO NOT try and do it in person, because that implies you think it's a big deal... and you have to wait to do it. Every moment you waste is another moment she's going to be thinking of reasons not to talk to you.

If you wait it can also backfire, as if you haven't thought about her since you ignored her. "Oh hey, forgot that I ignored you last time, sorry, wanna go out again??" Not gonna work. If you text her in the middle of the day she will know you're thinking about her, but not to the point that you're obsessed.

At this point your goals should be avoiding looking obsessed (like you can't get anyone else), and not looking like a dick. Doing it in person means you really care a whole whole lot (not good at this stage), or that you just didn't think about her until now (you're a dick).... or that you don't have the balls to apologize.

FStop7 · 10-14-2010, 02:43 AM

she's out getting bukkaked by dudes with neck tattoos while you post on the internet asking what to do.

bmwmthree · 10-14-2010, 03:24 AM

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Originally Posted by CollinsE90

at 12:01 he started saying "today, i talk to her"

west coast time > east cost time

Year's_End · 10-14-2010, 05:17 AM

i just finished reading this whole thing. should've slayed that vagine bro. you had me excited for you

and javi wtf

hks786 · 10-14-2010, 08:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Nikkahtropolis

i just finished reading this whole thing. should've slayed that vagine bro. you had me excited for you

and javi wtf

+1 he fucked up. There might be a small chance to fix it but its probably fucked up.

Lol @ javi, I dont know wtf he talks about

JayKay335i · 10-14-2010, 10:35 AM

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Originally Posted by hks786

+1 he fucked up. There might be a small chance to fix it but its probably fucked up.

Lol @ javi, I dont know wtf he talks about

Hes bad advertising for google translator.

akack79 · 10-14-2010, 10:50 AM

OP you need to hurry up and "close the deal." Your window of opportunity is narrowing every second.

Couch · 10-14-2010, 11:08 AM

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Originally Posted by hl0m4n

i go to the gym anywhere between 7-8pm and stay for about 2.5 hours.

i would text her im sorry but i just like face to face better. so ill tell her up front tommorow...

What the hell do you do at the gym for 2.5 hours?

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10-14-2010, 12:41 AM	#247
Vanity Private First Class 287 Rep 123 Posts Drives: BMW E90 LCI Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: BC, Canada iTrader: (0)	Why the hell hasn't he apologized yet? You don't even have to go into anything lengthy. Send her a text saying "Sorry.". She'll know exactly what you're talking about and text you back to talk about it. This way if you're scared shitless or your apology is inarticulate, she'll be the one to start the convo. MAN-UP OP! __________________
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hl0m4n Major General 2363 Rep 5,627 Posts Drives: BMW Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: NY iTrader: (58)	i go to the gym anywhere between 7-8pm and stay for about 2.5 hours. i would text her im sorry but i just like face to face better. so ill tell her up front tommorow... __________________ Cars: 07 335i ► 08 328i ► 11 328xi ► 13 M3 ► 17 M4 ► 14 M6
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10-14-2010, 01:27 AM	#255
BMW F22 Major General 3677 Rep 9,783 Posts Drives: ///M235i Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Bay Area iTrader: (8)	Okay I read the cliff note and WTF bro?? Everyone has bad days but don't let jealousy get in the way. Always remember this "no matter what she does or how she seems around other guys, as long as she goes home with YOU it's fine." Jealousy and insecurities destroy most relationships. If I were in your shoes I would have done one of two things: a. walk up to her and be like "hi, how'd you sleep the other night? blah blah blah was great huh?" and you could maybe give her a peck depending on how things are going between you two b. greet her, catch up real quick and be like "alright I'll see you around/talk to you in a bit". When you are alone with her you would then be close to her and flirt with her. Get some touching going on. Basically you're telling other guys to back the hell off. Of course you don't have to do it because if she likes you she wouldn't care about the other guys. That's just something I would have done just because. When I see other guys hitting on my girl or a girl I like I view it as a competition so i would rub their faces in it. Anyhow, the most important thing of all is don't act/show that you're jealous or insecured. Just act normal and be cool with her. Don't be her bitch and don't treat her like a bitch and you're golden.
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10-14-2010, 02:26 AM	#257
pokeybritches Colonel 498 Rep 2,784 Posts Drives: ESS/G-Power Z4M, VF Z4, 996tt Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Los Angeles iTrader: (12) Garage List 2006 BMW Z4M [10.00] 2006 BMW Z4M [8.50] 2003 BMW Z4 3.0i [9.00]	Text her you're sorry you weren't yourself at the gym, that you had a rough week with the midterms being moved around, and you hope to see her tonight. Girls know when a guy is jealous, but whatever you do, DO NOT ever tell her you were jealous. DO NOT try and do it in person, because that implies you think it's a big deal... and you have to wait to do it. Every moment you waste is another moment she's going to be thinking of reasons not to talk to you. If you wait it can also backfire, as if you haven't thought about her since you ignored her. "Oh hey, forgot that I ignored you last time, sorry, wanna go out again??" Not gonna work. If you text her in the middle of the day she will know you're thinking about her, but not to the point that you're obsessed. At this point your goals should be avoiding looking obsessed (like you can't get anyone else), and not looking like a dick. Doing it in person means you really care a whole whole lot (not good at this stage), or that you just didn't think about her until now (you're a dick).... or that you don't have the balls to apologize.
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FStop7 I like cars 346 Rep 5,051 Posts Drives: M6 Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: Newbury Park, CA iTrader: (3)	she's out getting bukkaked by dudes with neck tattoos while you post on the internet asking what to do.
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Year's_End Lieutenant General 1246 Rep 12,446 Posts Drives: 2020 Shelby GT350 Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: FL iTrader: (0)	i just finished reading this whole thing. should've slayed that vagine bro. you had me excited for you and javi wtf __________________ Past: '08 E92 335i\|ZPP\|ZSP\|6AT Past: '15 Mustang GT\|401A\|PP\|6MT Current: '20 Shelby GT350\|6MT
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10-14-2010, 10:50 AM	#263
akack79 Brigadier General 149 Rep 3,167 Posts Drives: G80 M3 Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: T E X A S iTrader: (18)	OP you need to hurry up and "close the deal." Your window of opportunity is narrowing every second. __________________ 2018 F80 M3 6MT ZCP
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