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      12-13-2009, 08:41 PM   #1
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How to take care of this issue?! NOW?!

My girlfriend and her friend live in a college housing apartment complex. The lease says that a person can stay 2 consecutive nights and all that bla bla. I live with her however, I contribute but I am not on the lease. There is a maintenance guy, another guy and a lady that works in the office. They have seen me quite a bit and think my GF's Jeep is mine and that I am hear all the time.

They have asked my GF's roomate about me and she says shes never here and doesn't know. He sees me all the time and waves to me, and they have never really mentioned anything to my GF about me.

The complex has RA's, resident assistants or whatever to keep order. This one particular one has it in for us and there is a problem...

This hippie bitch cunt is fucking with our lives...

Issue #1:


This bitch has a key to the place, she is authorized apparently to come IN TO THE FUCKING APARTMENT for a disturbance if her knock is not responded to. I.E. fight, emergency etc etc...

-She has come down, knocked on the door and told me to tell the other girl to keep her music down (at 11am)!

-She has come down before and told us to keep it down (We're not loud, walls are thin and she lives above us, we've never thrown parties and theres never been significant noise above laughing or talking loud

-She in fact at 9:30 pm when no one but my GF and I were in the apartment, knocked (we did NOT hear shit we were just watching TV) my girlfriend went to the door and she was unlocking the deadbolt and door lock to LET HER FUCKING SELF IN to tell us to be quiet

-She came in mid day last week, walked into my gf's roomates room to tell her to put her music down!

ISSUE #2!

-THE BITCH SMOKES LIKE A CHIMNEY! WE CAN SMELL IT IN THE VENTS EVERY DAY ALL DAY, AND WEED TOO!

ISSUE #3!

-The bitch left a not on the door that said and I quote:

"Dear Tenants and NON-Tenant,

It has come to my conclusion that you won't concur to take proper action towards seizing to be disruptive. You have been cautioned many times. I would take sincere care in how you conduct yourselves. Take heed,

Sincerely,

An annoyed tenant (who also pays $500 dollars a month to live here. Sorry no FREE rides)"

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What can we do about this to get this taken care of? What grounds we have to do what? She is abusing her privilage and my GF and her roomate are NOT comfortable with her or the shit she is pulling... They feel threatened by her letter and her entering whenever she feels like it.

What do you think?
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      12-13-2009, 09:03 PM   #2
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      12-13-2009, 09:09 PM   #3
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Why not just narc on her for the weed? haha.
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      12-13-2009, 09:56 PM   #4
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Why not just narc on her for the weed? haha.
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      12-13-2009, 10:19 PM   #5
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haha you posted this on E46F also, i responded in that thread (under a different username)
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      12-14-2009, 05:30 AM   #6
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Take it up with upper management. Send an anonymous complaint form if you must, for christ sake the lady smokes weed in the building shes hired to run? Sounds like someone needs a reality check.
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      12-14-2009, 09:46 AM   #7
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I can't believe she has a key to your apartment!
Where I live that would be illegal.

I'd report her for using the key to your apartment at times when she's not allowed to do so even by the regulation (that's a serious offence) + for the weed smoking.

Make it sound like she's high as a kite most of the time, and she's using the key in situations where she's not allowed to do so.
She probably saying you're noisy all the time anyway ...

F*#¤%& hippies!
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      12-14-2009, 10:21 AM   #8
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Sound like something is amiss. No stranger should be allowed to come into your apartment unless there was smoke billowing out of a window!

Ask you parents for help. Get some letterhead from one of thier lawyer friends to push back a little. Or write her a letter and CC a lawyer (even if you dont actually copy them).
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      12-14-2009, 11:27 AM   #9
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I wouldn't make a big stink about it. I would try and deal with it. She has you by the balls. You are in violation of a legally binding contract and should she feel like reporting you all your girlfriend could be kicked out of college housing. Sucks but that is the way it is.
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      12-14-2009, 12:22 PM   #10
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Go to home depot or something and get a new deadbolt, or just make a big stink about it, I doubt she has proof that you're breaking the 2 night rule. Or setup a hidden camera in the apartment; if she is crossing the line and abusing her super duper RA powers and entering your residence for no reason, then your camera will catch her, and you will have proof of her harassment. I still say you should narc on her to campus police or the local pd and get her removed from the area.
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      12-14-2009, 12:44 PM   #11
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      12-14-2009, 01:09 PM   #12
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Sounds like more of a Dormitory than an apartment. That being the case, the RA having a key to your place is standard regulation.

You clearly state that your breaking the rules. While I don't condone the way that your girlfriends' RA is handling you, probably since she can't really prove that your living there, it's not a good idea for you to have no residency other than your gf's school's dormitory. Thats just a bad situation for you should things get fucked, which they will.

The easy solution is for you to show them proof of residency somewhere else, and ask them (with your GF present as it's her RA's) to kindly refrain from invading your privacy. Be civil about it, and perhaps drop a line that you can hear her as well at times but understand that the walls are thin. (you might have to embellish or elaborate on that last part.)
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      12-14-2009, 01:48 PM   #13
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Fuck your g/f in front of the door, make sure to make a shit ton of noise when she knocks dont answer let her come in, she might be so embarrassed she wont come back. Problem solved
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      12-14-2009, 01:58 PM   #14
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I had a similar problem when the Jehovah witnesses kept coming to my home. I was kind at first and listened to what they had to say and eventually told them I an Christian and I go to church regularly. They tried to convince me to join their beliefs and their "way of life." I told them no thank you and closed the door. The very next day they brought someone my age to talk to me. I was polite and listened to what he had to say again for 10 mins. I repeated what I had said the previous day and closed the door. The very next day I was out doing yard work and tried again. This time I was clearly annoyed and asked them to not come again. Not surprised the very next day they rang the door bell and brought a very attractive korean woman with them. I opened the door completely naked. They never came back again.

Maybe you should start walking around naked. Sure worked for me.
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I would respond by mentioning that if she calls y'all out for "being too noisy" that you'll call her out for smoking in the apartment. That includes informing the staff on the front desk for cigarettes and the POLICE for the weed. Have dirt on her and her dirt on you won't do much.

*Edited as you're in a dorm, not an apartment*

Thirdly, if that doesn't work and it bothers you that much, have your GF request to move apartments a couple doors down.

-That kind of stuff is exactly why I have a house and not an apartment. Each and every time I live in a combined unit of sorts I have to lay down some law on the neighbors. Generally the intimidation factor works after they see you'll follow through.
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I had a similar problem when the Jehovah witnesses... I opened the door completely naked. They never came back again.
Maybe you should start walking around naked. Sure worked for me.


my brother did that... they would drop by constantly, so one day he got donuts, put them on the "one-eye monster" and opened the door completely naked with the donuts on
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this thread is full of great answers. cant go wrong with either one OP lol
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Sounds like more of a Dormitory than an apartment. That being the case, the RA having a key to your place is standard regulation.

You clearly state that your breaking the rules. While I don't condone the way that your girlfriends' RA is handling you, probably since she can't really prove that your living there, it's not a good idea for you to have no residency other than your gf's school's dormitory. Thats just a bad situation for you should things get fucked, which they will.
+1000, get your own place.
And on top of that, living with your girlfriend while in college is the wrong way to experience your college years. These are the best years of your life, get out there and get your hands on some strange!
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