[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

I like the type, in old chinese movies, where the woman throws herself into a well in the face of an advancing adversary, to not be a burden on her husband partially kidding

Old Indian movies are also like that lol.

Honestly though, I can't see myself dating an Indian girl from today. Way too different mindset, usually.

[The Chaddening]

https://hellogiggles.com/woman-cance...ate-guy-texts/

Holy shit. Dude is crazy as hell.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Old Indian movies are also like that lol.

Honestly though, I can't see myself dating an Indian girl from today. Way too different mindset, usually.

hahah we have a lot in common then

so what background is good match for u?

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

hahah we have a lot in common then

so what background is good match for u?

Ethnicity wise? I'm pretty open; usually.

Mainly the personality is what I look at it. Nothing too basic white girl; street smarts is a must, books smarts are good. Humble; that's a big one.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Ethnicity wise? I'm pretty open; usually.

Mainly the personality is what I look at it. Nothing too basic white girl; street smarts is a must, books smarts are good. Humble; that's a big one.

I mean what culture grew up with..

Most of the time, the more similar life experiences, the easier it is to mesh.. like u can find someone very attractive but have zero to talk about

It's good u already know what u want, I have no idea..

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

I mean what culture grew up with..

Lol, Like my upbringing or my culture? Culture wise, I'm a american with Gujarati values. Have the cultural traditions of a Guju, the values of a American.

[Aatish]

I worked at a young age, learning the ropes of how to run a hotel and business. I learned the clerical stuff, but also the other stuff (like maintenance, customer service, negotiation, etc). High school was weird for me. Didn't really go out on weekends or breaks; instead worked on other stuff (since I finished school work early). Same with college.

Was always around construction, and the hospitality business so learned basic electrical, plumbing, HVAC skills as well as listening and problem solving skills. Learned a lot from those people and those experiences.

Never was a really social dude, but not quiet either. I did my work as fast as possible, to the highest of degree, and moved on to the next thing. When all the peccary work is done, I find something new to do.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by GirthBrooks

You deserve to get your ass kicked for going behind that guys back. Even if you don't like the guy and the girl is a gutter slut, shame on you.

Shame on me!

Originally Posted by Mike.

Shes 32, Im 25. We shall see. Its that teacher (walt whitman) I'll be easy...I think ill have a story for you guys soon, on account Im sleeping over her house on the 31st.

Aw sookie sookie now.


You probably won't be doing much sleeping, that night.

[jtodd_fl]

I found an actual image of grimlock 's actual retelling of his tinder IRL stories.

[Axius]

Originally Posted by Mike.

This reminds me of the movie casino and, "not shitting where you eat." I looked for the clip on youtube but couldnt find it

It's the damn truth. I told her it's a no go, and she needs to hush hush. Now the test is going back to work and seeing if it sunk in.

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Shame on me!

I hope you think long and hard about your actions next time. Shame on you!

[Verbiage]

Shame on me in the morning while I wait for my Mini to come out of service!

[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Shame on me in the morning while I wait for my Mini to come out of service!

Well, shame is an appropriate feeling for owning a Mini.

[PoorLurker]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

Well, shame is an appropriate feeling for owning a Mini.

Would own this with no regrets



or

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by PoorLurker

Would own this with no regrets



or

I'm sure it's just a reminder of how old jtodd_fl really is. Not my fault I can appreciate the same cars he had growing up in the 1970's.

[grimlock]

I really do have a hard time understand women, or people in general.
So this chick msgs me, after i ad her randomly on some social/date app. She asks me if I could give her the directions to her hotel.
Now, how does one play this?
First, ofcourse i choose the worse possible response [ducking from all your rocks thrown toward me] - I actually give her the directions, very seriously, without a hint of changing the topic or insinuation at anything.
Now I can already imagine what some of u would do, Ax would already have his hand down her pants, Aat would try to make her feel comfortable and attend to her needs, verbiage would have assault her already.. j/k
The point is, what makes each of us have such a difference response to the same stimuli?
Needless to say, do the same thing, expect the same results..

I really need some inspiration in how to do things differently.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

I worked at a young age, learning the ropes of how to run a hotel and business. I learned the clerical stuff, but also the other stuff (like maintenance, customer service, negotiation, etc). High school was weird for me. Didn't really go out on weekends or breaks; instead worked on other stuff (since I finished school work early). Same with college.

Was always around construction, and the hospitality business so learned basic electrical, plumbing, HVAC skills as well as listening and problem solving skills. Learned a lot from those people and those experiences.

Never was a really social dude, but not quiet either. I did my work as fast as possible, to the highest of degree, and moved on to the next thing. When all the peccary work is done, I find something new to do.

I didn't date until late (college) and the first one i got stuck with for 7yrs.
I've found part of the reason is my dad has always been subtly cock blocking me.. as does the rest of my family actually.
But it's funny I never realized it before, a large part of the reason i never did anything in this direction is because once you're discourage early u don't really make another attempt, because if u r not aware someone is cock blocking u, u think it's just u .. that u suck so u will never succeed. This perhaps is the greatest mindfuck, and also greatest crime of family.
Applies to everything else as well.

[PoorLurker]

Did you include a stop at Tsui Wah? Meet her there and get some milk buns.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by PoorLurker

Did you include a stop at Tsui Wah? Meet her there and get some milk buns.

I don't know how to work that into the conversation, show me?

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

I really do have a hard time understand women, or people in general.
So this chick msgs me, after i ad her randomly on some social/date app. She asks me if I could give her the directions to her hotel.
Now, how does one play this?
First, ofcourse i choose the worse possible response [ducking from all your rocks thrown toward me] - I actually give her the directions, very seriously, without a hint of changing the topic or insinuation at anything.
Now I can already imagine what some of u would do, Ax would already have his hand down her pants, Aat would try to make her feel comfortable and attend to her needs, verbiage would have assault her already.. j/k
The point is, what makes each of us have such a difference response to the same stimuli?
Needless to say, do the same thing, expect the same results..

I really need some inspiration in how to do things differently.

Giving her directions is probably what I would've done. Just saying.

[Aatish]

Asking for directions is a bit daft, don't you think?

From personal experience, Girls usually ask things like that to talk to people. Had my most successful relationship start with a simple math question...chick had a higher GPA than me asked me about a simple math problem. I solved it for her. She asked for my number; I gave it to her. The rest is history

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Aatish

Asking for directions is a bit daft, don't you think?

From personal experience, Girls usually ask things like that to talk to people. Had my most successful relationship start with a simple math question...chick had a higher GPA than me asked me about a simple math problem. I solved it for her. She asked for my number; I gave it to her. The rest is history

I know.. i used to be like that.. actually still am. I guess it's for ppl who really don't know how to start a conversation.
Funny, cuz this chick is like older -28, so def. more looking for a husband/serious than a chick in early 20s who just wants to have fun
Probably it's natural that only a small percentage of ppl anyone can really relate well with - trying too hard to get ALL the chicks is a set up for misery.

Okay, so this other time. I chick i've been following for a month or two randomly sends my a "laughing" emoticon - i have not said anything to her except follow her.
So i respond, "question-ing/mark" emoticon and "wondering" emoticon
then the next morning she responds "morning"
so i respond "morning" +smile emoticon
then nothing..
WTH is going on??!

[Aatish]

Originally Posted by grimlock

I know.. i used to be like that.. actually still am. I guess it's for ppl who really don't know how to start a conversation.
Funny, cuz this chick is like older -28, so def. more looking for a husband/serious than a chick in early 20s who just wants to have fun
Probably it's natural that only a small percentage of ppl anyone can really relate well with - trying too hard to get ALL the chicks is a set up for misery.

Okay, so this other time. I chick i've been following for a month or two randomly sends my a "laughing" emoticon - i have not said anything to her except follow her.
So i respond, "question-ing/mark" emoticon and "wondering" emoticon
then the next morning she responds "morning"
so i respond "morning" +smile emoticon
then nothing..
WTH is going on??!

Women are an enigma, my friend.