[Chachi112]

You have to post his name

[persian54]

Originally Posted by a burrito

I've had this happen to me before over a sale of a book worth $0.99 on Amazon. He claimed I sent the wrong book and demanded that I send him the correct book while keeping the first book I sent because he didn't want the inconvenience of sending it back.. Without letting me fix the problem, he immediately went to file a claim with Amazon deteriorating my seller rating. This guy harassed and threatened me over e-mail for a week. After day 2, I said fuck it and refunded all of the $0.99 and I even gave him an extra $2.00 for him to find and buy another book. I countered his dispute and just moved on.

Honestly, people like this are just a bunch of pussies that will continue to talk. If I were you, I'd want him to come over so I could kick his face in. On top of that, if you do have money and manage a company, you know that $45.00 or $0.99 isnt worth your trouble both in time and mental health...

Fine you loose $45.00 in the end.. Its not worth loosing that 10-15% of your energy and getting upset over this loser. Since you've let PP take over the dispute, let PP take care of the claim. If he keeps bugging you, just refund him and move on..

From what it seems, I really don't think he will come to your front door and do shiet to you....

wow a 99 cent deal? and I thought this guy was crazy

My issue is that i lose energy/get upset over things all the time. It's one of my major "flaws" since I like to be, when I can, a perfectionist. I don't like making mistakes, nor do I like causing harm to others. This ends up stressing me out all the time.

Originally Posted by eisenb11

Ah, are these the $60 BMW ones? I ordered a set of those and they're packed poorly and look dirty and you'd swear that they were used even though they're new... I think this may be what's happening.

Mine even had all kinds of crap in the package. BMW should be embarrassed.

$75 at my dealer, but I didn't pay for it, came with the car.

But yeah, I didn't open it to see if they're dirty etc, but they didn't look glossy clean from the box, that's for sure lol

Well, i didn't directly pay for it...they took quite a bit of money when we got the car...

[persian54]

this whole time I assumed it was a husband using his wife's account

but when I think about it...it's prly a kid using his mom's account..

[JohnnyRoaster]

I wonder if the buyer is watching this thread and feeling like an ass

[persian54]

Originally Posted by JohnnyRoaster

I wonder if the buyer is watching this thread and feeling like an ass

nope, last activity Nov 2

[derric]

Originally Posted by Nine

Post the Screen Name.

I agree put his ass on BLAST!

[CarbonAlpine]

Immature buyer...refund and move on. In life we go around with two pockets (one to gain, and one to lose). This time you will lose $45 bit you'll gain peace of mind, learned from your mistake (home return address).

Take it easy, these things happen...it's an experience in which we all learn from and that's what makes this community so strong.

[Templar]

Username: Poostang over on the X3 side of the house. Enjoy

On topic, I know the easy answer is to just refund him, but this jackass really needs to learn a lesson. I wouldn't give him the money, let Paypal work it out, and ignore the crap you are getting from him. He is the one that is wrong here, no matter how you look at it, so you shouldn't be stressing at all, it's all his fault.

If it were me, I would gladly have him come over, and when I go to the door he would be greeted with the end of a 12 gauge barrel to the head.

EDIT: Link to his profile

http://x3.xbimmers.com/forums/member.php?u=139466

[Grail05]

FAWK THAT..REFUND? hell no... stupid kid thinks hes the shit... ... have him send you back the unit before money back... i understand the you loose some and you win some... in this case if he was nice enough and mature enough i would probably take the loose some... but after all he had done... FAWK NO... you wanna be tough... lets see and you will find out what you get...

[Rex Heat]

Originally Posted by persian54

I am done with helping members out who have 0 iTrader and limited posts. Done with it.

Hey don't throw all us new guys under the bus. While I don't have many posts and zero trades I do have integrity. I've only had my beast for a few months and not too many opportunities to put my two cents in on this totally awesome forum.

I would seriously never give out your personal information to anyone you don't know. There is no reason for the buyer of a $45 item to have your cell phone number and for safety your home address should not be listed as the return address. Even the work address is too close but not dealing with these types of things I don't know what your options are.

[persian54]

Originally Posted by CarbonAlpine

Immature buyer...refund and move on. In life we go around with two pockets (one to gain, and one to lose). This time you will lose $45 bit you'll gain peace of mind, learned from your mistake (home return address).

Take it easy, these things happen...it's an experience in which we all learn from and that's what makes this community so strong.

Yeah...next time I will cut it out and put my office's address

if anyone dared come here...security! lol

Originally Posted by Templar

Username: Poostang over on the X3 side of the house. Enjoy

If it were me, I would gladly have him come over, and when I go to the door he would be greeted with the end of a 12 gauge barrel to the head.

EDIT: Link to his profile

http://x3.xbimmers.com/forums/member.php?u=139466

I never posted it so I'm clean right? haha

btw, no one said if the texts I sent him were harassment or not. I don't think they are, but I'm curious...


I don't have a 12 gauge, but I do have a Glock.... registered and licensed to own firearms woot woot, only in America :P

Originally Posted by Rex Heat

Hey don't throw all us new guys under the bus. While I don't have many posts and zero trades I do have integrity. I've only had my beast for a few months and not too many opportunities to put my two cents in on this totally awesome forum.

I would seriously never give out your personal information to anyone you don't know. There is no reason for the buyer of a $45 item to have your cell phone number and for safety your home address should not be listed as the return address. Even the work address is too close but not dealing with these types of things I don't know what your options are.

If no work return address, then what would you suggest? I have had items returned to be in the past since the receiver wasn't there to get it


Okay I won't throw all of you out.... but I will state that it's being sold As-is no returns

If someone states sold as-is no returns, can a chargeback/dispute still be filed??
I mean, I know it can be filed, but would it have any merit?

[Templar]

Originally Posted by persian54

I never posted it so I'm clean right? haha

btw, no one said if the texts I sent him were harassment or not. I don't think they are, but I'm curious...


I don't have a 12 gauge, but I do have a Glock.... registered and licensed to own firearms woot woot, only in America :P

Haha, I think you're good It was discovered and it's spreading through the forums. Nothing you can control

I don't think the texts you sent him were harrassment, as you were just trying to understand what he wanted and he was unwilling to be civilized and speak like a sane human being.

[Singletrack]

He has 2 posts? I would guess this is a scam. He has you send him the items, then tries to intimidate you and get the money back. Then he will never send the items and resell them. If he goes around on enough boards doing it, he can make some money.

[Mike V8]

Personally, if he were to send me messages like this, I would file a police report. This guy clearly has issues. You have all of his information, and proof that you were willing to settle the issue.

[Prince_of_Persia]

Dude, don't give him anything back!!! This is stupid!
What a retard!!!

[sensi09]

I'd just refund it and get it over with. Even just starting a thread about it and following up on them would be too much effort for me.

I'd just refund it and move on. Or meet in person and exchange goods/cash.....probably not the smartest thing, but would like to see the guy in person after this.

BTW, what did you end up sending?

[M3maniac20]

Do you even know for sure it if is a faulty/wrong product? I mean for all we know it could be the right thing, and he is just insane and love to create chaos.

Be careful!

[E90///M3`]

didn't read all replies... but main thing is this: Guy you sold to is insane. He's been threatening you, so you should file a police report so that it is on-file in case anything happens. It's always good to have it documented somewhere official to "watch your own back."

as a side note... KBBQ or Ramen. let's go. lol

[Rex Heat]

Originally Posted by persian54

If no work return address, then what would you suggest? I have had items returned to be in the past since the receiver wasn't there to get it

Total pain but even a post office box would help protect your personal information. The post office may have options beside a PO box tool If you have security at work that is not a bad option.

[Templar]

I honestly don't think it's a grown man, I think it's some punk kid with the typical e-peen complex.

Either way, normal people don't act like this.

[Grail05]

Originally Posted by Templar

Username: Poostang over on the X3 side of the house. Enjoy

EDIT: Link to his profile

http://x3.xbimmers.com/forums/member.php?u=139466

CSI....

[1sikbmr]

Originally Posted by Templar

Username: Poostang over on the X3 side of the house. Enjoy

On topic, I know the easy answer is to just refund him, but this jackass really needs to learn a lesson. I wouldn't give him the money, let Paypal work it out, and ignore the crap you are getting from him. He is the one that is wrong here, no matter how you look at it, so you shouldn't be stressing at all, it's all his fault.

If it were me, I would gladly have him come over, and when I go to the door he would be greeted with the end of a 12 gauge barrel to the head.

EDIT: Link to his profile

http://x3.xbimmers.com/forums/member.php?u=139466

beat me too it.