[jtodd_fl]

Originally Posted by brianeck

You should flat out say in your profile that you *may or may not be using the app for market research purposes only and that all conversations may be disclosed publicly without further notice. . . Then you don't have to worry about hurting anyone's feelings anymore, and any of the poor suckers that get on board at least have some idea of what they're dealing with.

And, like with terms of use, they would look at your picture and click anyway - pretty much no matter what you said.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by jtodd_fl

I'm just thinking that is going to be someone trying to rescue Sara soon. Cuz she gonna get ... Taken. It was highly topical, I assure you.

Mmmmhmmmm.

Originally Posted by leopard print

I'm a little curious about this. Do you guys exchange social media with all the people you go on dates with from these apps? I don't. I think I've only exchanged with 2 girls, at most. I'm not a player by any means, but I feel like it would somehow come back to bite me in the ass if I happen to somehow meet someone I really like.

Fuck no. I do my research and stalk their pages (I'm pretty good at finding them) though to see if there are undesirable qualities/excessive children/etc., because I'd rather get that shit out of the way than find out about it later and waste invested money and time. Facebook simplifies this process very well.

You are right on the money about the latter. If they follow me on Instagram or Facebook or something, I usually just block them since they never really end up being anyone particularly significant, should I find a girl that I actually like.

[Mike.]

This is my all time favorite interaction on tinder, one of these self entitled girls I was talking about. I was going to give my thoughts on the last couple pages but Im short on time at the moment.

She did a really shitty watermark "DO NOT COPY"...like anyone would want to copy her damn pics anyway. The fucking exposure is ridiculous!!!!

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Mike.

This is my all time favorite interaction on tinder, one of these self entitled girls I was talking about. I was going to give my thoughts on the last couple pages but Im short on time at the moment.

She did a really shitty watermark "DO NOT COPY"...like anyone would want to copy her damn pics anyway. The fucking exposure is ridiculous!!!!

"And how dare you abuse the...."


Lol stupid whore.

[swagon]

Dat grammer, bruh.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by swagon

Are we just going to ignore the fact that you took a selfie in an elevator?

HEREINMYELEVATOR.mwv

Nothing wrong with work selfies

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by swagon

Dat grammer, bruh.

It hurts your eyes, too?

Originally Posted by Sara504

Nothing wrong with work selfies

See swagon Sara is exemplary. There is actually another person with her in the elevator, and she's turned the other way because she can't block out her radiance.

[Mike.]

I think I just locked down a date with a chick...and we are going to see walt whitman's house...

[Sara]

Originally Posted by Mike.

I think I just locked down a date with a chick...and we are going to see walt whitman's house...

Pic?

[1LRM3]

Sara, how did it go with the gentleman with his son and daughter in the pic?

BTW... rocking nice heels girl!!

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Mike.

I think I just locked down a date with a chick...and we are going to see walt whitman's house...

Dope!


Look, don't be mean and ask for head immediately like you did for the last chick. I'm sure you're charming and all that, but give her a chance.

[Sara]

Originally Posted by 1LRM3

Sara, how did it go with the gentleman with his son and daughter in the pic?

BTW... rocking nice heels girl!!

Never flipping messaged me.

[Mike.]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Pic?

Im actually not going to exploit her on here. Normally, I would but I feel like since karma has no time release, if i put her on this forum I will get my ass kicked eventually. She is pretty cool, normal, and we both like walt whitman haha

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Dope!

Look, don't be mean and ask for head immediately like you did for the last chick. I'm sure you're charming and all that, but give her a chance.

Oh dude totally, I wouldn't drive to Camden NJ to see a dead writer's house with her if I wasn't giving her a chance...not to mention live in a hotel room with her. It really It really is the ultimate gamble...she could be the zodiac killer.

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Mike.

Im actually not going to exploit her on here. Normally, I would but I feel like since karma has no time release, if i put her on this forum I will get my ass kicked eventually. She is pretty cool, normal, and we both like walt whitman haha



Oh dude totally, I wouldn't drive to Camden NJ to see a dead writer's house with her if I wasn't giving her a chance...not to mention live in a hotel room with her. It really It really is the ultimate gamble...she could be the zodiac killer.

Good shit, keep her pics outta this. I don't take most of these chicks seriously so I'll post whoever seems interesting enough to talk about.

Whoa. Welp, in that case I'll make sure this thread doesn't get shut down so we can use it as proof in case you disappear. Sounds like she's proving to be a positive investment though, mutual interest in Walt Whitman sounds like a substantial date.

[Mike.]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Good shit, keep her pics outta this. I don't take most of these chicks seriously so I'll post whoever seems interesting enough to talk about.

Whoa. Welp, in that case I'll make sure this thread doesn't get shut down so we can use it as proof in case you disappear. Sounds like she's proving to be a positive investment though, mutual interest in Walt Whitman sounds like a substantial date.

Amen. I wish I saw this thread earlier...I went through a 'sporty goth' phase and jesus christ THOSE were some interesting convos.

hahah, it's all in good fun. I think everyone is on tinder for a common goal of [maybe] meeting someone cool. The main thing is everyone wants to play coy on tindi nation..and I quote Aziz here,

“Unlike phone calls, which bind two people in real-time conversations that require at least some shared interpretation of the situation, communication by text has no predetermined temporal sequencing and lots of room for ambiguity. Did I just use the phrase “predetermined temporal sequencing”? Fuck yeah, I did.”
― Aziz Ansari, Modern Romance: An Investigation

No one really wants to put themselves out on tindi nation, and we usually get shot encounters like the ones we've been documenting. Or, our egos come into play where it becomes the "who will cave and message first" when in reality we want to talk to the said person and vise versa.

I could be wrong, but this is the vibe I get from my friend's stories and just the tinder mindset in general, a la "omg hes so cute I want him to message me" or " dude shes hot, lets see if she hits me up"..I dont even know where I'm going with this.

/rant

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Mike.

Amen. I wish I saw this thread earlier...I went through a 'sporty goth' phase and jesus christ THOSE were some interesting convos.

hahah, it's all in good fun. I think everyone is on tinder for a common goal of [maybe] meeting someone cool. The main thing is everyone wants to play coy on tindi nation..and I quote Aziz here,

“Unlike phone calls, which bind two people in real-time conversations that require at least some shared interpretation of the situation, communication by text has no predetermined temporal sequencing and lots of room for ambiguity. Did I just use the phrase “predetermined temporal sequencing”? Fuck yeah, I did.”
― Aziz Ansari, Modern Romance: An Investigation

No one really wants to put themselves out on tindi nation, and we usually get shot encounters like the ones we've been documenting. Or, our egos come into play where it becomes the "who will cave and message first" when in reality we want to talk to the said person and vise versa.

I could be wrong, but this is the vibe I get from my friend's stories and just the tinder mindset in general, a la "omg hes so cute I want him to message me" or " dude shes hot, lets see if she hits me up"..I dont even know where I'm going with this.

/rant

Shit, yeah that would've been interesting to hear about LOL.

And bolded for fucking truth. It is so easy for a woman (or man) to hide behind a digital approach to communication, dodge questions, be elusive, or just seemingly indifferent. As a result, things get misinterpreted and signals become mixed. For this reason, I said earlier that for me, on Tinder, the interest is either mutual or GTFO. I don't waste time chasing women around, as I'd rather not deal with a woman who makes me jump through hoops to move an inch. Like, I'm honestly just trying to make conversation with you, if I wanted to fuck you you'd have known by now/it would have happened already.


It's all about ego massaging dude. I honestly stopped messaging girls first a while back. That's the only way to really figure out who's worth talking to. Especially when she gets hit with regular solicitations or hook-up lines from the very beginning. If that's what she's used to, then that's what she expects. Since I don't fit that bill, I'll pass on her.

[Mike.]

All of this reflecting warrants a beer

[Verbiage]

Originally Posted by Mike.

All of this reflecting warrants a beer

Amen to that.


Digital toast from here as I just did my upper/core routine earlier and am full of chicken, kettle corn, couscous, and a cookies 'n' cream protein shake. Got some Dominican beer in the fridge though, maybe I'll bring it with me to work for lunch tomorrow.

[swagon]

Originally Posted by Verbiage

It hurts your eyes, too?

See swagon Sara is exemplary. There is actually another person with her in the elevator, and she's turned the other way because she can't block out her radiance.

I mean, I'm not even a native English speaker and I'd never fuck up the grammar so much (not saying my English is perfect.) I'm probably weird, but bad grammar is a bit of a turn off for me. Maybe that's why I'm still single, haha.

I think Sara just told her to fuck off.

[1LRM3]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Never flipping messaged me.

clearly not worth your time then.... character of a snail.

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Sara504

Nothing wrong with work selfies

damn Sara, looking fine skinny girls ftw

[grimlock]

Originally Posted by Mike.

Amen. I wish I saw this thread earlier...I went through a 'sporty goth' phase and jesus christ THOSE were some interesting convos.

hahah, it's all in good fun. I think everyone is on tinder for a common goal of [maybe] meeting someone cool. The main thing is everyone wants to play coy on tindi nation..and I quote Aziz here,

“Unlike phone calls, which bind two people in real-time conversations that require at least some shared interpretation of the situation, communication by text has no predetermined temporal sequencing and lots of room for ambiguity. Did I just use the phrase “predetermined temporal sequencing”? Fuck yeah, I did.”
― Aziz Ansari, Modern Romance: An Investigation

No one really wants to put themselves out on tindi nation, and we usually get shot encounters like the ones we've been documenting. Or, our egos come into play where it becomes the "who will cave and message first" when in reality we want to talk to the said person and vise versa.

I could be wrong, but this is the vibe I get from my friend's stories and just the tinder mindset in general, a la "omg hes so cute I want him to message me" or " dude shes hot, lets see if she hits me up"..I dont even know where I'm going with this.

/rant

wth is sporty goth?

Originally Posted by Verbiage

Shit, yeah that would've been interesting to hear about LOL.

And bolded for fucking truth. It is so easy for a woman (or man) to hide behind a digital approach to communication, dodge questions, be elusive, or just seemingly indifferent. As a result, things get misinterpreted and signals become mixed. For this reason, I said earlier that for me, on Tinder, the interest is either mutual or GTFO. I don't waste time chasing women around, as I'd rather not deal with a woman who makes me jump through hoops to move an inch. Like, I'm honestly just trying to make conversation with you, if I wanted to fuck you you'd have known by now/it would have happened already.


It's all about ego massaging dude. I honestly stopped messaging girls first a while back. That's the only way to really figure out who's worth talking to. Especially when she gets hit with regular solicitations or hook-up lines from the very beginning. If that's what she's used to, then that's what she expects. Since I don't fit that bill, I'll pass on her.

You guys hit the nail on the head.
What r they expecting vs. what r u expecting.. sometimes it's much easier to just cross paths with the person iRL and u'll know if anything is possible in one second.
That said, you WILL get what u r looking for, if you're looking for the impossible, you'll never find it, and if you're looking for trouble you might find it, so watch out for what you are actually doing on there.