Single Game on Deck

SAM135iAM · 04-19-2013, 11:11 AM

I just recently went through the dreaded break up with someone you love but know isn't the one you're going to marry. It was the mature call on my part. I will spare all the details of the situation. So I'm back in the single mix, and have been this way for about two weeks now. I just wanted to get some of your opinions, ideas, thoughts, etc... on getting back in the single game. I've been out of it for two years. I just turned 24 and I'm living in a small college town. The night when everyone goes out is oddly on a Wednesday night. I don't go out on weeknights since I have a 8-5 job now. Anyways, what do you single guys do to get back in the grove of things and move on from the past relationship.

Hopefully Shah will chime in. I'm going to change my profile pic to me shirtless with a dyson. I hear that helps get single guys back in the game

JasonCSU · 04-19-2013, 11:30 AM

There's nothing wrong with going out on weeknights when you have a Mon - Fri job. Hitting up happy hour after work is a good way to meet some people. Just don't get completely tanked or stay out until last call and you will be fine making it to work the next day.

SAM135iAM · 04-19-2013, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by JasonCSU

There's nothing wrong with going out on weeknights when you have a Mon - Fri job. Hitting up happy hour after work is a good way to meet some people. Just don't get completely tanked or stay out until last call and you will be fine making it to work the next day.

I hear ya man. I'm just so worn out by the end of the day. For me that isn't until about 8. I hit the gym right after work about 5:30 or so until about 7, then go home and make dinner. By then it's 8 ish and I'm ready to hit the sack. I'm not big on drinking anyways. Plus, in this town the only people at the bar during happy hour are defiantly not going to be the people I want to kick it with and have a drink. We are talking about Commerce Texas here. If anyone here knows about Commerce Texas they will know what I'm talking about. Lol! You're right though Jason, the only way to be social is to go take advantage of every opportunity given. I'll hit up happy hour and hope for the best! Thanks for the reply BTW.

Judge · 04-19-2013, 12:10 PM

You're 24, living in a small college town, and have been single for all of....two weeks! Relax and welcome to easy street. The party doesn't start until 11 and you showed up at 5.

But you're making a critical error by thinking there's no value in going out during the week. As previously mentioned that's when you'll find the best happy hour specials. But more importantly, weeknights are also much more relaxed and provide for better opportunities to strike up good conversations with strangers than the Friday night cow frenzy at the feeding troughs.

SAM135iAM · 04-19-2013, 01:56 PM

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Originally Posted by Judge

You're 24, living in a small college town, and have been single for all of....two weeks! Relax and welcome to easy street. The party doesn't start until 11 and you showed up at 5.

But you're making a critical error by thinking there's no value in going out during the week. As previously mentioned that's when you'll find the best happy hour specials. But more importantly, weeknights are also much more relaxed and provide for better opportunities to strike up good conversations with strangers than the Friday night cow frenzy at the feeding troughs.

Great analogy, and so true!

SAM135iAM · 09-16-2013, 02:42 PM

My own thread resurrection. The original post back in April was about how to get back in the single game. I went with peoples suggestions and it went well, but I ended up back with my ex in late May. So we were only apart from a little over a month. The relationship was better than ever, so I thought. Well, we broke up two weeks ago. I find out today that she has already been having sex with another dude. Talk about a stab to the heart. I just had to add this tid-bit to my thread and vent a little.

Colt · 09-16-2013, 02:47 PM

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Originally Posted by SAM135iAM

My own thread resurrection. The original post back in April was about how to get back in the single game. I went with peoples suggestions and it went well, but I ended up back with my ex in late May. So we were only apart from a little over a month. The relationship was better than ever, so I thought. Well, we broke up two weeks ago. I find out today that she has already been having sex with another dude. Talk about a stab to the heart. I just had to add this tid-bit to my thread and vent a little.

I'd advise you to not try again for a third time lol

MisterSkiMask · 09-16-2013, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by SAM135iAM

My own thread resurrection. The original post back in April was about how to get back in the single game. I went with peoples suggestions and it went well, but I ended up back with my ex in late May. So we were only apart from a little over a month. The relationship was better than ever, so I thought. Well, we broke up two weeks ago. I find out today that she has already been having sex with another dude. Talk about a stab to the heart. I just had to add this tid-bit to my thread and vent a little.

fool me once, shame on you...

ddk632 · 09-16-2013, 03:11 PM

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Originally Posted by aM.

I'd advise you to not try again for a third time lol

And read this thread http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=579810

SAM135iAM · 09-16-2013, 04:12 PM

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Originally Posted by aM.

I'd advise you to not try again for a third time lol

Lol! Thank you! I will not!

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Originally Posted by MisterSkiMask

fool me once, shame on you...

Fool me twice shame on me...I know. I should have walked away in the very beginning. Oh well, live and learn.

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And read this thread http://www.e90post.com/forums/showthread.php?t=579810

Yeah, this situation is really shitty. Makes mine a walk in the park. I can't imagine the pain this guy is suffering.

kmarei · 09-16-2013, 05:25 PM

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Originally Posted by MisterSkiMask

fool me once, shame on you...

Everytime I hear that, I always remember this classic from w

ddk632 · 09-16-2013, 05:32 PM

Hey I mess that saying up all the time!

kmarei · 09-16-2013, 05:38 PM

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Hey I mess that saying up all the time!

Fool me once, shame on you
fool me twice, shame on me

ddk632 · 09-16-2013, 05:40 PM

Thanks, I will refer to this forum post before the next time I decide to use it in conversation.

"Hold on, let me confirm with Bimmerpost to make sure I am about to say this correctly..."

MisterSkiMask · 09-16-2013, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by kmarei

Everytime I hear that, I always remember this classic from w

I was going
to post that, but got busy

Colt · 09-16-2013, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by kmarei

Fool me once, shame on you
fool me twice, shame on me

What about three times?

MisterSkiMask · 09-16-2013, 07:46 PM

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Originally Posted by aM.

What about three times?

...we won't be fooled again

Spensaur · 09-17-2013, 01:28 AM

Ouch. Know how that feels. Go out, have a barrage of sex, and never think about her again

Nkc · 09-17-2013, 02:05 AM

OK so you made a mistake, no problem. Learn from that and never do it again.

Now lets get back to the original question about getting back into the game. You're 24 and live around a college town and drive a BMW for christ sake, are you mentally disabled in any way? Are you a confused homosexual? Seriously your age isn't far from a college student and you should exploit this option to the max. Mad tang to be had son, mad tang.

SAM135iAM · 09-17-2013, 08:09 AM

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OK so you made a mistake, no problem. Learn from that and never do it again.

Now lets get back to the original question about getting back into the game. You're 24 and live around a college town and drive a BMW for christ sake, are you mentally disabled in any way? Are you a confused homosexual? Seriously your age isn't far from a college student and you should exploit this option to the max. Mad tang to be had son, mad tang.

MAD TANG!!!!!! Lol! I love it! No, nothing is wrong with me! Lol! Thanks for the pick-me-up, man

04-19-2013, 11:11 AM	#1
SAM135iAM Lieutenant 54 Rep 403 Posts Drives: 11' 135i DCT Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Dallas Texas iTrader: (0)	Single Game on Deck I just recently went through the dreaded break up with someone you love but know isn't the one you're going to marry. It was the mature call on my part. I will spare all the details of the situation. So I'm back in the single mix, and have been this way for about two weeks now. I just wanted to get some of your opinions, ideas, thoughts, etc... on getting back in the single game. I've been out of it for two years. I just turned 24 and I'm living in a small college town. The night when everyone goes out is oddly on a Wednesday night. I don't go out on weeknights since I have a 8-5 job now. Anyways, what do you single guys do to get back in the grove of things and move on from the past relationship. Hopefully Shah will chime in. I'm going to change my profile pic to me shirtless with a dyson. I hear that helps get single guys back in the game
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JasonCSU Colonel 721 Rep 2,548 Posts Drives: '08 135i, '88 325is Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Denver, CO iTrader: (0) Garage List 1988 BMW 325is [0.00] 2008 BMW 135i [0.00]	There's nothing wrong with going out on weeknights when you have a Mon - Fri job. Hitting up happy hour after work is a good way to meet some people. Just don't get completely tanked or stay out until last call and you will be fine making it to work the next day. __________________ Delivered in Munich, broken in on the Nurburgring.
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Judge First Lieutenant 41 Rep 395 Posts Drives: 135i Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: FL iTrader: (0)	You're 24, living in a small college town, and have been single for all of....two weeks! Relax and welcome to easy street. The party doesn't start until 11 and you showed up at 5. But you're making a critical error by thinking there's no value in going out during the week. As previously mentioned that's when you'll find the best happy hour specials. But more importantly, weeknights are also much more relaxed and provide for better opportunities to strike up good conversations with strangers than the Friday night cow frenzy at the feeding troughs. __________________ 2008 135i JB: Stage I Performance Tune, Performance Spoiler, Performance Exhaust, Performance Suspension, Breyton GTS-R wheels.
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09-16-2013, 02:42 PM	#6
SAM135iAM Lieutenant 54 Rep 403 Posts Drives: 11' 135i DCT Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: Dallas Texas iTrader: (0)	My own thread resurrection. The original post back in April was about how to get back in the single game. I went with peoples suggestions and it went well, but I ended up back with my ex in late May. So we were only apart from a little over a month. The relationship was better than ever, so I thought. Well, we broke up two weeks ago. I find out today that she has already been having sex with another dude. Talk about a stab to the heart. I just had to add this tid-bit to my thread and vent a little.
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ddk632 Chief Senior Executive Managing VP of Orange Sales 606 Rep 2,576 Posts Drives: 17 BMW F87 M2 6MT MG HBDGR ! Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Aventura, FL iTrader: (2)	Hey I mess that saying up all the time!
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ddk632 Chief Senior Executive Managing VP of Orange Sales 606 Rep 2,576 Posts Drives: 17 BMW F87 M2 6MT MG HBDGR ! Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Aventura, FL iTrader: (2)	Thanks, I will refer to this forum post before the next time I decide to use it in conversation. "Hold on, let me confirm with Bimmerpost to make sure I am about to say this correctly..."
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09-17-2013, 01:28 AM	#18
Spensaur Lieutenant 38 Rep 555 Posts Drives: E93 328i Join Date: May 2008 Location: So.Cal iTrader: (1) Garage List 2007 BMW E93 328i [9.00]	Ouch. Know how that feels. Go out, have a barrage of sex, and never think about her again __________________ 2007 E93 328i \| Space Gray Coral Red \| M-Tech Front Bumper w/ Carbon Fiber Splitters \| BMW Performance Rear Bumper \| BMW Performance Exhaust w/ Secondary Cat Delete \| Injen Intake \| HID Angel Eyes \| M3 Trunk Lip Spoiler
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Nkc NOOB 1604 Rep 1,356 Posts Drives: Cars Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: @BMWclassicdivision iTrader: (0)	OK so you made a mistake, no problem. Learn from that and never do it again. Now lets get back to the original question about getting back into the game. You're 24 and live around a college town and drive a BMW for christ sake, are you mentally disabled in any way? Are you a confused homosexual? Seriously your age isn't far from a college student and you should exploit this option to the max. Mad tang to be had son, mad tang. __________________ @BMWclassicdivision
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