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What a toxic train wreck this thread has been. I'm good at being in a relationship but I never had much to say about giving other people advice.
So, OP, I'll give it a try based on my experience:
In high school and college I dated a few girls. It was all fine and fun but no spark for me. Then one day, I met a girl who change everything for me. I literally knew she was the one the moment we met! Never have we ever had to have a harsh conversation about speeding up or slowing down when we are walking together. We just hold hands and find the right pace for the two of us together. We've been happily married since 1972 with our 50th anniversary coming up in August.
So, my direct advice to you: Based on the stories you have written on this thread, this girl is not the one. You are NOT going to change who she is and she is NOT going to change who you are. You need to find someone who is in sync with you and then evolve together.
That's all I've got.
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