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Originally Posted by grzes
I would tell you what to do but on the other hand I am divorced so obviously what ever I did din't work for me 
If you love her then accept her for who she is, she works long hours then do something special for her, like cleaning that bedroom of her clothes, might not be noticed right the way but trust me with time she will see what you do for her and she will go out of her way to please you as well |
This is way too passive to be effective. This falls in line with the whole "one day they'll change" mentality and you end up settling and being miserable.