I dont know what to do
 

So, my GF says she loves me and we've talked about getting engaged one day, but, in a state of drunkenness, i read some text messages on her phone with a guy she used to have a thing with. All this guy talks about is "giving (him) another chance" and how he "misses her soooo much". What sucks is that my GF seems to be going along with this and most of her texts contain a " ;) ".

I talked to her about this and she says absolutely nothing is going on, even though she says in a couple texts that if things were to go bad with us that she'd give him another chance.

Idk what im supposed to think here. I love my GF and I trust her, but after reading what i did I just dont know what to think. I want to kick the shit out of this guy, but he lives in the city where my girl goes to college.

Some back story: my GF and I have been together for 10 months, but have only lived in the same city since may.

I'm a mess

this should be moved to the 1 Series general forum. there are plenty of females there that would be happy to help!

I'd dump her...

+1 the fact that she is prepared to have that other guy as a backup shows she is not totally commited. She is planning for failure :thumbdown

I'd slap her...

Me too but I'd piitb first :thumbsup:

Don't do it. Her comments prove that she's not 100% committed to you.

Well you relationship is still under a year. You saw the signs:
1. She is texting the guy back
2. She might be lying to you
3. She will give him another chance
4. She is expecting the relationship to fail because of point 3.
5. She may have already gave the guy another chance. See point 2..


RUN

Time to move on, she's already proven she can't be trusted

No trust = no chance of a successful relationship

definitely piitb then her mouth then drop her

murder, suicide?

Women can not be trusted..... I would kick her to the curve, she is messing around with that guy and you are letting her. Something like that happened to me before, but my ex was messing around with the other guy. If you already talked to her about this and you told her that it bothers you, and she still doing it, I would just tell her to f*** off. She is not worth it dude. There are plety of other women out there.

move_on

no way in hell man, cut your losses and get outta there! not going to end well

toss her out like the trash bro.

There are plenty of other girls out there....you will be fine.

She obviously hasn't moved on from her ex if she is still thinking of getting back with him if you two break up. You can't be in a relationship with someone who hasn't moved on from their last one, and you sure as shit can't get engaged in that situation.

:word:

next

On to the next one.

Hey ...... be on your toes and simply don't do the wrong thing ??

If she was smart she would recognize this and appreciate you more where that other guy is quickly forgotten ;) !! Just a girl's perspective :)

hahahaah fuck that

id be on my toes behind a nice new fat ass

Show her the goat, her reaction will dictate whether you should keep her or dump her.